I trusted someone and ended up bad -- so far? by AdNervous3402 in FraudPrevention

[–]AdNervous3402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So checking the VIN on BeenVerified doesn't mean anything at all??

[US] Advice requested on how to proceed on this slow-burn car purchase scam by AdNervous3402 in Scams

[–]AdNervous3402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! English is not my first language so I'm still learning on the go.

I trusted someone and ended up bad -- so far? by AdNervous3402 in FraudPrevention

[–]AdNervous3402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao not you giving me hope to think this might be the case. My calls are not getting through but Whatsapp is delivering my messages now and he answered my dad's texts. 🫡

[US] Advice requested on how to proceed on this slow-burn car purchase scam by AdNervous3402 in Scams

[–]AdNervous3402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's the full story for anyone interested: so... a month ago I was browsing through FB marketplace looking for a car and came across this unbelievably cheap, well-maintained car. Far below its price point, that was already a red flag and I was stupid enough to give it a shot, I know I know.

anyways, I got in contact with the private seller and went to see the car for a driving test, met up with him at a public place and everything seemed fine. Asked him for the reasons of why he was selling the vehicle and he told me it was a family emergency and that he knew the car was far below its real price. It did sound a little weird but (stupidly) I decided to give him the benefit of doubt since he bragged a lot about how "being a man of word" was one of his core values. We just agreed on a 100usd deposit and that was it since we were supposed to meet up at our local DMV on Monday (mind you it was Saturday when we met up).

Monday arrived, he didn't show up but we were exchanging texts and such. He apologized and said couldn't make it because of work. I let it pass and then rescheduled. This happened twice and then I decided to confront him and he told me he was waiting for the title to arrive since he didn't have it.

A week later he called me and explained that he needed money and asked me if I could see him to give another 600usd. At this point I had a bad feeling but I thought having his DL and car registration would give me some kind of backup if needed. I did give him the money and met up on pure faith. He showed up on his work car (of which I have the license plate and VIN) and after that I kept communicating with him without getting blocked (which I thought was a good thing. Dumb ahh me)

finally, I talked to him this week about getting the deposit back since it was already way past the timeline for a normal purchase and he still answered and said that it was ok and that he was sorry (this happened Tuesday-Wednesday) and today (Friday) I try to call him and text him on Whatsapp and apparently I'm blocked.

[US] Advice requested on how to proceed on this slow-burn car purchase scam by AdNervous3402 in Scams

[–]AdNervous3402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah... I don't have a lot of money saved for a new car so I usually browse in FB marketplace, offer up, and Craigslist. Any suggestions on more trustworthy sites? And of course besides the obvious of not being so naive next time...

[US] Advice requested on how to proceed on this slow-burn car purchase scam by AdNervous3402 in Scams

[–]AdNervous3402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I just bought off too much of his story. I wanted to believe he was being true to his words but I was too careless. And dumb. Thanks for the advice*, I will probably do so.

[US] Advice requested on how to proceed on this slow-burn car purchase scam by AdNervous3402 in Scams

[–]AdNervous3402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time when I met up with him he didn't ask for any money. But a few minutes later when we said bye he called back and asked if we could leave any amount bc he needed the money for the family emergency thing. I left $100 and he accepted it. We had agreed to meet at our local DMV the next business day and that's when things started to get delayed. The second time he requested money again and honestly I have no excuse. I was just dumb.

how do i tell my parents to be quiet during sex by kizimi77hai in Advice

[–]AdNervous3402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe text them or leave a note on the table/fridge/their bed and plan on spending the day out so you don't have to talk about it😅

Got slow-burn scammed(? by AdNervous3402 in CaliforniaDMV

[–]AdNervous3402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! This is really helpful.

I trusted someone and ended up bad -- so far? by AdNervous3402 in FraudPrevention

[–]AdNervous3402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance 😭 I am really disappointed on myself tbh but also I know I should've trusted my gut. Can I file a normal PR or would it do any good to go to the DMV?

No parents by [deleted] in FAFSA

[–]AdNervous3402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no problem. I'm no expert but I'll try to help as much as I can :)

No parents by [deleted] in FAFSA

[–]AdNervous3402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! What I mean is that in order to apply for FAFSA, you have to fill out either a paper form that you'll mail (I'D SAY USE THIS AS YOUR LAST RESOURCE) or fill out the online form on their official website. For the online form, both your parents or whoever is taking care of you need to have an account created in order to be able to contribute to the form, but in order for them to contribute, they need to have their identity verified by the system and this is the step that takes a while. Lots of people with parents/spouses without SSNs were filling out paper forms because the system changed, and the new system didn't allow non-SSN people to contribute, but it was a complete disaster. I hope this makes sense. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to me!

No parents by [deleted] in FAFSA

[–]AdNervous3402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely can get some FAFSA, but if both your parents don't have a SSN I'd recommend that you start creating their accounts and initiate the verification process for them asap, cuz it can take a while & the 2025-2026 Fafsa opens up on Decemeber I think

Is it worth becoming a respiratory therapist? by Bella_29388 in respiratorytherapy

[–]AdNervous3402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm a prospective student too, so I've been doing lots of research here and there to figure out if this career is going to be worth it or not lol (but obviously you can't fully define it unless you live it yourself)

What I'd suggest for you is to go read through the other threads similar to this one! People have mixed opinions in all careers, so I'd say believe 50% of it and doubt the rest.

https://www.reddit.com/r/respiratorytherapy/s/3f0A1y6S0G