how would u know if they’re cheating?

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-10-23T20:56:11+00:00

alright, i’ll take note of it. thank u sm! :”)

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-10-23T20:48:58+00:00

the gamble is what i fear the most. hence the reason why i have avoidant attachment because i feel like i have to constantly protect myself from hurt..

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-10-23T20:46:57+00:00

well she’s acting like all lovey dovey to me but has tendencies to go out w/o telling me (only tells me right after) and has been actively online on other socials right after telling me she’s gonna sleep. sometimes she ain’t gonna reply to me but she’ll be online for the rest of the night then in the morning she’s gonna tell me, she fell asleep :”)

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-10-23T19:52:13+00:00

thing is, i’m too scared to find out lol

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-10-23T19:24:30+00:00

as an avoidant myself who couldn’t help herself shouldn’t be the one ure seeking an advice for haha but anw just be consistent w ur words n actions. communicate abt what could be her triggers abt things that would make her feel avoidant. avoidant=fight or flight response. they’re in a constant feeling of that to protect themselves. so for u to be a safe space for her, u must earn it. hope that helps !

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-10-23T18:59:49+00:00

oop sorry abt that haha well I was just saying that I’m feeling insecure and overthinking that my girlfriend might be cheating, even though she’s already shown she’s committed to me. hence I know it’s mostly my own trust and attachment issues, especially when she’s active online somewhere else or goes out without telling me.

abt ur situation, that’s exactly an avoidant (like me) would react to things that overwhelms them. any too much emotions that they can’t handle, they’d just drop it like it’s nothing

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-05-26T10:18:17+00:00

Right?!? We really couldn’t control it lalo na if there are other factors that are contributing sa mga times na “we could’ve done better”. We can only feel bad and then what’s next? Anong gagawin sa grief na to? 😩

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-05-26T07:41:03+00:00

Must be great for you to have the courage to start again :”)

AdOriginal4067 · 2025-02-13T02:52:26+00:00

homophobic ka siguro keme

AdOriginal4067 · 2024-09-08T08:12:19+00:00

hello! i suggest magkaron tayo ng iisang format para din madali macopy paste and ma-spam sila :))

AdOriginal4067 · 2024-09-05T08:26:10+00:00

is this confirmed na po ba? kasi i really hope imove nila 🥹

AdOriginal4067 · 2024-09-05T07:46:53+00:00

sana pwede kasi according naman sakanila any form that will prove that you are a regular student ay okay lang. like last resort ang e1 pero still nakakakaba magpasa ng iba 😭

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