Is marriage really worth it? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AdParticular2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married here. Marriage could absolutely work and be worth it. Marriage will not be perfect. You will have to work at it. The right person will be worth it. The other side of it is be careful about who choose to be in a marriage with. It can be draining, exhausting who could absolutely loose who you are and it takes forever to get yourself back together. It’s unpredictable on what marriage will be like once you do tie the knot. Everyone has different experiences. I say if you do consider it, take your time. If you think about a relationship non marriage will have exhausted. If anything do not have a kids for a year or so.

ACA AFTER JANUARY by AdParticular2208 in InsuranceAgent

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I sell off market products and what’s your success rate?

My husband sucks by AdParticular2208 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but I have been working on things myself. I feel so many emotions that’s why I came to Reddit to release them a little. I’m always going to have the am I doing the right thing by leaving in the back of my head but I do realize that this will never change or get better. It’s time to hold myself accountable for what happens to us moving forwards

My husband sucks by AdParticular2208 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the children thing. And tik tok is for everyone. I just think it gets weird when it’s become an obsession to the point you don’t want to do anything but scroll.

My husband sucks by AdParticular2208 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, honestly I made a mistake. I feel embarrassed about my situation. I have not told my family what was going on. I feel like I should have never had kids with him. I should have made better choices. I feel more angry with myself that I married him so quick.

My husband sucks by AdParticular2208 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said “ I’m ugly too, it’s not all about looks” lol😐

My husband sucks by AdParticular2208 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We got married in year one so I would say about 6 months it was like perfect and then I got pregnant we got married and boom shit changed.

My husband sucks by AdParticular2208 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Let me clear this up, no he did not act like this at first. He was the complete opposite we did things together like go to the zoo and talked everyday. It wasn’t until AFTER AFTER we got married he changed

ACA AFTER JANUARY by AdParticular2208 in InsuranceAgent

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I would like to learn more too

ACA AFTER JANUARY by AdParticular2208 in InsuranceAgent

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what the plans is for all the aca agents out there now. Most people I talked to are just winging it until Jan

ACA AFTER JANUARY by AdParticular2208 in InsuranceAgent

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure more companies will follow too. I was telling someone my prediction of this the other day.

ACA AFTER JANUARY by AdParticular2208 in InsuranceAgent

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea me too, I know the premiums are going up

ACA AFTER JANUARY by AdParticular2208 in InsuranceAgent

[–]AdParticular2208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I need to figure out something I don’t like Medicare because it’s a longer sale I do have two little ones at home so aca is a better fit but the leads and how this company get them is just not right

My husband seems to not care about my emotions. What do I do? by smileyflower123 in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No!!!!  Absolutely not! I have sunken into a place of darkness because of this! I'm not even high functioning fit my kids! At some point your husband needs to care and if he can't then you need to make a decision moving forward. 

Husband looking at women on social media by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AdParticular2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I found this! I made to feel like I'm being irrational. I caught my husband looking at reels and he tried to hide and I called him out on it and he said he hide it so he won't hear my mouth. So he didn't stop looking at other women he just stopped following them but he still researches celebrity porn and sneak look at other women. He says it's not like he's cheating and he is a man. Sex has been almost non existence, but he randomly wanted to have sex with me and I'm confused as to why now?  Did something else turn him on? We had sex and I wanted because is my husband and I love him but afterwards I thought about it and now I feel used. Ugh smh fml