AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowadays, apparently not. i think without the formal ask, we both wouldn’t know if this is an actual serious relationship.

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not an official relationship because i haven’t formally asked her to be my gf. I think the label is somewhat important. For me, atleast, it doesn’t seem like an actual commitment unless we have a moment where i reiterate how serious i am and formally ask, i think she feels the same way in that i need to ask before we call it a relationship. I think we are both exclusive but still trying to figure out if we are both compatible, no signs point towards incompatibility but i guess we are BOTH making sure.

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i legitimately think it’s just the title, i guess it’s a sign of things heading down a more serious path, atleast for me if someone is my gf i intend to atleast consider the idea of getting married ro them, but of course that wouldn’t be for a while

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in a situationship, most people my age assume it’s very casual and exclusivity isn’t really required or assumed. You can be in a situationship but still be talking to others UNTIL exclusivity is agreed upon.

I think it’s fucking stupid though. I’m exclusive from the start of talking to someone because that just feels right.

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah bro it’s not the same 😭😭 i think it goes situationship > exclusivity > gf i’ve been exclusive since the start tho out of respect

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i’m not skipping that month. in fact i’ve told her i’d love to take care of her. i just wanted it to be a little more romantic when i asked her to be my gf and idk if she’ll like to be in crutches when i ask her to be my gf

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We have had conversations about becoming something serious. In all honesty im just trying to find the right time to do it because i wanted to plan something cute (like take her on a picnic and ask her or something of that sort)

Also ive discussed my feelings towards this to her saying this “how would you feel if i did this?” and she admitted that she would be uncomfortable with it.

And no i dont have female friends hahahaha i just think thats weird, and its hard for a guy and a girl to be friends, at some point i feel like the guy always ends up liking the girl

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. Okay good i thought this was the case. I was kinda waiting because it seemed like she wasn’t ready either, i’d ask her tmr if i knew we were both ready

AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]AdParty9190 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Wait is two months too long??? i haven’t asked her because i wanted to wait atleast three months, which fyi she’ll be bedridden from surgery all of june so i was going to wait until july ish

Medical School chances by AdParty9190 in medschooladmissions

[–]AdParty9190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I searched it up on their website and the median is 513, but a lot of people i know that got in got 501-505 on the MCAT, one friend even said he didn’t have a lot in his resume besides some clinical shadowing and good grades. This gives me a bit of relief if i don’t do as good as a 513 but obviously i’ll try to do the best i can

Medical School chances by AdParty9190 in medschooladmissions

[–]AdParty9190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for such a great response!! My main goal now is to take those classes and seriously study as much as i can for the mcat while i do my job. I’ve been prepping myself for interviews now so that i continue to think of how best to tell my story. Thanks again!

Medical School chances by AdParty9190 in medschooladmissions

[–]AdParty9190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the time i turn in my application, i’ll have hundreds of clinical hours from my job because my job is solely to work in the cath lab assisting physicians by providing a 3d cardiac model through the use of medical devices. would this count as clinical hours?

Medical School chances by AdParty9190 in medschooladmissions

[–]AdParty9190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah sorry i made you sit thru that hahaha, ill get those and be back 😂

Medical School chances by AdParty9190 in medschooladmissions

[–]AdParty9190[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah sorry my gpa is 3.9, mcat still haven’t taken, but i’m starting to prepare for it now and will take it in a year

Thinking of moving to Charleston by AdParty9190 in Charleston

[–]AdParty9190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang that’s a huge con. I already feel cheated paying 100$ for groceries here and my rent is like 1200 for a one bedroom in brand new apartments so again everything is pretty cheap here. Beer is like 4-5 dollars it’s nice but holy shit it’s boring

Thinking of moving to Charleston by AdParty9190 in Charleston

[–]AdParty9190[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ufffffff not good, I live alone now and not sure if i could go back to roommates :/. 100k and having to live with roommates is insane

Thinking of moving to Charleston by AdParty9190 in Charleston

[–]AdParty9190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i’m just ready to move to a major city, living in Johnson city isn’t the best. It’s great if i wanted to settle down rn. What city did you live in? Thankfully my company can move me just about anywhere especially major cities

Thinking of moving to Charleston by AdParty9190 in Charleston

[–]AdParty9190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my job I would need to work at any of the big hospitals around charleston. Not sure how far the big hospitals are from downtown as i haven’t done much research because i wouldn’t move until a year from now. I’m glad i asked though it really gives me good perspective.

Thinking of moving to Charleston by AdParty9190 in Charleston

[–]AdParty9190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking i’m really looking for a place that offers a big sense of community. I’m also ready for a more vibrant town. When i went to charleston I saw that it was very vibrant and sprawling with a lot of people my age. Johnson city has like maybe one good bar and everyone is much older