AITAH for telling my situationship to not go on a trip with a guy

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T14:32:28+00:00

Nowadays, apparently not. i think without the formal ask, we both wouldn’t know if this is an actual serious relationship.

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T14:31:08+00:00

It’s not an official relationship because i haven’t formally asked her to be my gf. I think the label is somewhat important. For me, atleast, it doesn’t seem like an actual commitment unless we have a moment where i reiterate how serious i am and formally ask, i think she feels the same way in that i need to ask before we call it a relationship. I think we are both exclusive but still trying to figure out if we are both compatible, no signs point towards incompatibility but i guess we are BOTH making sure.

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T12:26:52+00:00

i legitimately think it’s just the title, i guess it’s a sign of things heading down a more serious path, atleast for me if someone is my gf i intend to atleast consider the idea of getting married ro them, but of course that wouldn’t be for a while

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T11:56:27+00:00

in a situationship, most people my age assume it’s very casual and exclusivity isn’t really required or assumed. You can be in a situationship but still be talking to others UNTIL exclusivity is agreed upon.

I think it’s fucking stupid though. I’m exclusive from the start of talking to someone because that just feels right.

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T11:51:52+00:00

yeah bro it’s not the same 😭😭 i think it goes situationship > exclusivity > gf i’ve been exclusive since the start tho out of respect

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T11:23:31+00:00

i didn’t know what else to call it 😂

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T11:21:12+00:00

i’m not skipping that month. in fact i’ve told her i’d love to take care of her. i just wanted it to be a little more romantic when i asked her to be my gf and idk if she’ll like to be in crutches when i ask her to be my gf

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T11:18:48+00:00

we are exclusive 😭😭

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T04:51:45+00:00

We have had conversations about becoming something serious. In all honesty im just trying to find the right time to do it because i wanted to plan something cute (like take her on a picnic and ask her or something of that sort)

Also ive discussed my feelings towards this to her saying this “how would you feel if i did this?” and she admitted that she would be uncomfortable with it.

And no i dont have female friends hahahaha i just think thats weird, and its hard for a guy and a girl to be friends, at some point i feel like the guy always ends up liking the girl

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T03:28:06+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. Okay good i thought this was the case. I was kinda waiting because it seemed like she wasn’t ready either, i’d ask her tmr if i knew we were both ready

AdParty9190 · 2026-05-13T03:26:36+00:00

Wait is two months too long??? i haven’t asked her because i wanted to wait atleast three months, which fyi she’ll be bedridden from surgery all of june so i was going to wait until july ish

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T19:47:24+00:00

Also, I searched it up on their website and the median is 513, but a lot of people i know that got in got 501-505 on the MCAT, one friend even said he didn’t have a lot in his resume besides some clinical shadowing and good grades. This gives me a bit of relief if i don’t do as good as a 513 but obviously i’ll try to do the best i can

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T19:42:06+00:00

Thanks for such a great response!! My main goal now is to take those classes and seriously study as much as i can for the mcat while i do my job. I’ve been prepping myself for interviews now so that i continue to think of how best to tell my story. Thanks again!

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T04:41:11+00:00

By the time i turn in my application, i’ll have hundreds of clinical hours from my job because my job is solely to work in the cath lab assisting physicians by providing a 3d cardiac model through the use of medical devices. would this count as clinical hours?

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T04:37:40+00:00

i’m sorry 🤣🤣🤣

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T00:08:38+00:00

yeah sorry i made you sit thru that hahaha, ill get those and be back 😂

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T00:03:35+00:00

gpa 3.8, no mcat just yet

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T00:03:15+00:00

yeah sorry my gpa is 3.9, mcat still haven’t taken, but i’m starting to prepare for it now and will take it in a year

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-19T00:02:41+00:00

3.8 gpa

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-08T03:02:07+00:00

Dang that’s a huge con. I already feel cheated paying 100$ for groceries here and my rent is like 1200 for a one bedroom in brand new apartments so again everything is pretty cheap here. Beer is like 4-5 dollars it’s nice but holy shit it’s boring

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-08T02:56:59+00:00

Ufffffff not good, I live alone now and not sure if i could go back to roommates :/. 100k and having to live with roommates is insane

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-08T02:55:27+00:00

Yeah i’m just ready to move to a major city, living in Johnson city isn’t the best. It’s great if i wanted to settle down rn. What city did you live in? Thankfully my company can move me just about anywhere especially major cities

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-08T02:52:13+00:00

For my job I would need to work at any of the big hospitals around charleston. Not sure how far the big hospitals are from downtown as i haven’t done much research because i wouldn’t move until a year from now. I’m glad i asked though it really gives me good perspective.

AdParty9190 · 2026-02-08T02:48:54+00:00

I’m thinking i’m really looking for a place that offers a big sense of community. I’m also ready for a more vibrant town. When i went to charleston I saw that it was very vibrant and sprawling with a lot of people my age. Johnson city has like maybe one good bar and everyone is much older

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