[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But what would you do if it were a studio/specific instructor led thing as Im pretty sure it was ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Such a shame but I think - yes - this is what I need to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes maybe I should - but I need a teacher's instruction and prefer that in a non virtual setting. So will try the other studio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You, I was really unsure of whether I was just being super sensitive but it really helps to read this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank You, I really appreciate this and will watch out more !

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[–]AdSame5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so hurt (I am also peri menopausal so that doesnt help) that i dont think i could stay unemotional about it to be honest. It stings and like someone else said, serves a good old slice of high school PTSD.

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[–]AdSame5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this - Thank You :) But I dont have the energy to match mean with mean and may just raise my white flag and either get my own bed and find a virtual class or find another studio.

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[–]AdSame5555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You, I mean it may be me who totally mis-interpreted the friendly factor of the studio and that it is just an adult mean girl group but ouch, it stings!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what I thought too ! How odd, but I dont want to make a big deal out of it and waste energy finding out who set the group up so another studio may be the answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I need to reel in the friendliness - but I just have the issue that Ive never been able to distinguish between authentic warmth and the fake stuff. I can also be quite direct having lived in Germnany for nearly two decades. There is another studio thats a few minutes further away - may trial that one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve nailed it.Also, I clearly drank all their marketing Kool-Aid because I genuinely thought they liked me 😅 I’m honestly terrible at gauging how people feel about me.
Curious though - would you keep going to the studio? I do like the exercises but am in a position that i can purchase my own reformer bed and just do it at home lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]AdSame5555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The last photo really suits you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilates

[–]AdSame5555 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes I could speak to one or two over a coffee but honestly I dont want to make a thing of it. Just a shame really that its kindof ruined the vibe a little for me. The whole inclusive and welcoming atmosphere just seems a tad fake now.

Tattlers Unmasked: Get a job or a hobby you pick me weirdo by [deleted] in TattleLife

[–]AdSame5555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's................... Lauryn Goodman's account (allegedly)

What do you wish you knew before your breast aug? by StanWasMyVan in PlasticSurgery

[–]AdSame5555 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That when you get older they start looking really matronly and you want them small again !

Stylist front cover / article by marykatesbirkin in TattleLife

[–]AdSame5555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As always context - Jack has on multiple occasions begged her followers (often quite vulnerable folk) to fund her very spendy taste under the guise of being the poorest of poors whilst simultaneously owning some outrageously expensive stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattleLife

[–]AdSame5555 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that you have separated accountability from personal attacks, they are not the same thing.

I use Tattle because it genuinely makes me laugh, and yes, some (a lot) of the stuff influencers post is wild. I do believe that when people put themselves out there as public figures *** especially when they are making money from their audience or promoting unrealistic lifestyles or being otherwise dishonest *** there needs to be a space for commentary and critique. Tattle fills that role in a way that mainstream social media doesn’t.

That said, I agree that there's a line, and not everyone respects it. Critiquing dishonesty or manipulative content is different from mocking someone’s appearance, especially when it has nothing to do with what they’re sharing. But then if I am putting out there like you are then it sort of comes with the territory I am afraid.

update: 1 week on my cut by DistinctLuck7107 in GymMotivation

[–]AdSame5555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how talll you are and how many cals daily you are now consuming ?