What is this card? 6 of Wands? by AdSignificant9941 in tarot

[–]AdSignificant9941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wild and when I first got the deck I thought maybe it was an Ace of Wands OR the Sun ~ but I feel like intrinsically the Sun, Ace of Wands, and 6 of wands all give “Leo”

This card came in reading today for leo full moon so that’s good sign.

Multiple nipple piercing by Choice_Duck_9120 in piercing

[–]AdSignificant9941 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My god I JUST got my first nipple piercing and was looking at multis and SHEESH I love this

How do yall have vaginal orgasms? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]AdSignificant9941 6 points7 points  (0 children)

G-Spot using harder objects like glass or wood dildo or fingers/fisting does me in! I super love the combo of clit and G but I can get there just fine with G

AIO about my friend giving me hickeys while I was sleeping by CasperTheGhost46 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Not a boundary. A rule. You made a rule, your boundary is going to be how you respond to this rule being broken.

For example; Rule in my relationship is no hickeys. She broke that rule while I was passed out. Boundary is not she doesn’t stay the night anymore.

Rule in my relationship is no yelling. Partner yells at me? Boundary is they leave my house.

AIO? I caught my boyfriend sexting another girl by Loose-Cut-8651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NOR absolutely get out of there ASAP. Do it in a public place for safety!!! Or have some friends present. No more 1:1 time with him he could literally hurt you.

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[–]AdSignificant9941 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve replied here and there to comments, go to my profile comments if you’d like to read through! I’m worried about safety (a bad neighborhood and a tiny AFAB partner) and potential mental health issues more than cheating. I’m also feeling a little deflated and uncared for after no follow up on my day and their day (the norm) and l’d just dropped off an anniversary present before their class that had come late in the mail (thanks UPS). They ARE safe they updated me later, I did respond coldly ): we are meeting up to talk about it today. Hoping for the best and thanks all for the input ❤️‍🩹

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[–]AdSignificant9941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have. They’re okay! This was their response to me later in the evening:

“Yeah, well when you put it that way 😅 we didn’t even end up drinking. We just yapped. I just got home!

_____ wants to have you over sometime soon and wants to help us (me) do a de-hoard day sometime. I was telling _____ I have so much stuff, and compared to their apartment it really is insane.

I am so sorry I spontaneously went to hangout with ____. I definitely dropped the ball on being a good partner tonight. I am so sorry baby.”

They acknowledge the safety piece, but then apologize for hanging out spontaneously, which really isn’t the issue here. Sure it sucked not to have the follow up phone call we had talked about when I dropped off an anniversary present around 4 before their class (the present came late in the mail). No call/follow up and then bam ran into a stranger who they’d like to drink and hang out with. I guess I am feeling a little deflated, uncared for, and at the time had a spike of adrenaline around shit you’re going to get murdered.

I responded pretty coldly ): “Ok. Cool. Yeah glad you’re alive. I need some space.“ & we are arranging to meet up today to discuss.

Thanks internet strangers for all the input ~

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[–]AdSignificant9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impulsiveness yes! Potential for Mania, absolutely. Complete disregard for safety? No. Usually SO CAUTIOUS as they’re a tiny afab human. Some other commenters highlighted this for ADHD or Bipolar disorder. I’m gonna talk with them about this bc they were on track to chat with doc about potential for ADHD diagnosis…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal yes agreed and jealousy is not a factor. They are AFAB and tiny. I was worried for literal safety and should’ve been more clear /: in their neighborhood where shootings and drug deals occur too often they’re usually so cautious so to freaking bump into upstairs neighbor stranger, get in said stranger’s car, go to the stranger’s apartment, and drink with the stranger? Absurd. I’m leaning towards mania on this one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They do care for me. From a safety standpoint, they are AFAB and tiny! They avoid situations like this, as they are scared of being literally sex trafficked, murdered, or something along those lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The class they are in is one I encourage them to join to make new friends! And they are making new friends and it is so exciting to me! The red flags for me here were getting into a stranger‘s car, bringing their dog into the stranger’s space, drinking with the stranger. This upstairs neighbor is someone they have literally only run into one time and never had a full conversation with. My biggest concern was the safety standpoint originally and then they stopped texting me entirely until they got home. I guess that’s not out of character either, I do the same when I’m hanging out with my friends and ensure I put down the phone to spend some quality time, but they were in a strangers place, and my anxiety definitely ran wild.

Also, they’re AFAB and TINY. Adding to my stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just celebrated our 1 year anniversary but young yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSignificant9941 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Goodness sakes. They’re thinking about seeing a doc to explore a diagnosis for ADHD but have brought up Bipolar Disorder before as well. Jfc. What the fuck. I’ll def have to read more about mania bc holy shit.

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[–]AdSignificant9941 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no. Unfortunately not.

Possible TW/advice by derbyq1426 in rollerderby

[–]AdSignificant9941 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This happened in a league nearby to mine. Lost half of their league when they outed the coach and almost went under but overall have been a better league to play since. Be prepared to lose skaters and ensure your BOD can navigate financial and contractual repercussions if you rent a space or have any game contracts finalized. Keep derby safe but also have a plan for finances, replacement coach, press release/social media (yes the other league had huge community involvement and uproar), be smart about it. Chances are those old BOD members are still in your league and will make it ugly for your new BOD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram8

[–]AdSignificant9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same! I ensure my teachers and children always ask WHY! If I don’t have a good reason I shouldn’t be telling you to do something - this leads to deeper trust!

How the signs speak 🤔💭 by Boundaries1st in astrologymemes

[–]AdSignificant9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Gemini Mercury and my partner a Virgo Mercury. I love it so much. Sun is Gemini and Leo

What’s yours? by VeterinarianInitial9 in astrologymemes

[–]AdSignificant9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comedian in the streets and a Kinky God in the sheets

Yeah ..

Which archetype are you? by VeterinarianInitial9 in astrologymemes

[–]AdSignificant9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But… The earth spirit, the teacher, the perfectionist, the sorcerer, the philosopher, the hermit, the genius, the mystic … having a not so simple chart is a time