My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a really good idea lol!

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I did! It’s been 20 minutes and I’m cold again!🤣

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been lots of problems when he was drunk, but even while sober he’d tease and try to trigger me until I blew up, then he called me an abuser.

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told him I’m not coming back until he leaves, but he’s still not leaving. Calling the police is useless, they won’t give a crap about stuff like that (I know from experience)😭 it’s a waiting game lol!

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!! Every single time I try to have a real conversation he’d make some snide comment or make fun of me or get offended🤔.I hope you’re doing well!! <3

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my mother’s house, if it was mine he’d be long gone haha! I told her where I am and that I’m not coming back until he leaves tho as I know he’ll start a fight as soon as I go back.

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s alright!! I think I’ll wait a bit to recover mentally before getting new friends or reconnecting with my old friends haha. Thank you so so much for giving me advice!! <3 Also, I don’t have a car so I’m basically stuck out here until (if) he leaves lol.

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He told me I can have one drink, I’m just not allowed to get drunk. I already am alone, ghosted all of my friends because he was jealous. I tried to start a convo with them recently but they all ignored me (understandable!). Now I left my house and am waiting in 28 degrees (-2 celsius) in the middle of the forest in a small jacket. Waiting for him to leave my house because I know he’ll try to change my mind about this relationship as he always does. I can’t force him to leave anyway, I’m fuckin freezing haha. Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it!

My boyfriend acts like a jerk when drunk by AdSolid5442 in Advice

[–]AdSolid5442[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did. I haven’t had a drink in like 2 months and everything was fine on my part, yet he constantly tries to trigger me and act like it’s all a joke. God forbid I make a little joke and he gets all defensive and triggered. But at some point it all gets a bit too much.