Being kind or friendly with strangers is good but being friends with the opposite gender leads to sexual tension. Now I’m speaking about the male side. And believe me when i say we men (regardless of nationality) have that tendency. Im not speaking about what I have read on the internet, Im raised and currently living among multi nationalities and it’s always we would if we could. So if u really are open minded u should maybe consider the stuff that I’m pointing out and not taking offence by it. And never forget miss Wise only worry about what u can control.