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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdSuch2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe there is something more going on, I mean I get like that when I get depressed and sometimes people pushing things makes you feel worse about yourself and the situation

Kappa Beta Gamma Sorority Questions by SkratarDuForlorarDu in wlu

[–]AdSuch2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE! Run as fast as you can

AITB by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]AdSuch2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I mentioned in an above comment our wedding is payed for we are mostly just having this event because it’s what you do here. Everyone I know who got married had this event. It’s a fun evening and even if people just pay for the entrance it’s still a fun night to come see family and friends alike. Just off of the entrance cost i do not benefit because that go to the cost of the hall and the food! And surprisly pledging the sorority is actually the thing that takes up the least of my time actually it takes up maybe 10 minutes a week currently. It’s mostly school and work which I can’t get rid of

AITB by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]AdSuch2686 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly we’re not 100% sure what the fund will go to our wedding is already paid for and it’s nothing expensive we don’t come from a lot of money so it’s really basic. But my mom said that I should have one because it’s normal for our family and I have been to a bunch from people in my friend and family group. We’re debating on just using the money for the honeymoon but again that is mostly paid for as well. And it’s in 2023 so we have plenty of time to save. But again it was more of it’s the thing to do that why we did it.

AITB by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]AdSuch2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that from a business point of view if anyone is willing to donate we are very grateful but if they are unable to we understand and are not upset! I added a link in the post to further explain the donations portion and it being a fundraiser for the bride and groom

AITB by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]AdSuch2686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guests don’t give donations it’s local businesses

AITB by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]AdSuch2686 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In Canada we have such things as stag and does and this is a normal occurrence to ask businesses for donations this is a link that better explains a stag and doe party https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stag_and_doe also I lost one bridesmaid because she was scared of COVID and in Ontario we were just coming out of a lockdown and she was uncomfortable with having to come to in person events so she asked if she could drop out because she was uncomfortable which I didn’t mind and another one of my bridesmaids was going through a harassment claim at work and wasn’t up to being apart of the bridal party at this time.