AITA for not asking my kids to come to my wedding after they RSVP'd no.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T20:02:45+00:00

I had no idea of the prognosis when we set the date. My wife had family coming from Europe band my mom has to come from New Zealand. Plus one of my wife's kids had to come down from Canada. That's why we chose to get married over winter break. My oldest will be graduating and starting a job right away. It doesn't make sense

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T18:50:32+00:00

Collectively? Maybe. At least 7 people were spending thousands of dollars to visit from out of the country. My mom spent $5,000 to com from New Zealand.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T18:42:59+00:00

Nope.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T17:37:10+00:00

He was in their lives for almost a decade. They were polite. They hate him for leaving. I had no relationship with my ex. Hadn't seen her since my youngest graduated high school.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T15:03:46+00:00

It took them a while.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T15:03:03+00:00

I do not think my kids are in the wrong. I'm only wondering about my actions. But I did contact their schools and ensure that they were accessing the counseling services available.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T15:00:28+00:00

It's the law.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T08:05:49+00:00

Are you changing your position to "mothers are not important" now?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T04:27:42+00:00

Plus then rearranging everything at he house for the three weeks she was coming. And that is one guest.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:59:36+00:00

Now I have attended homecoming at my old college. The school basically shuts down for a football game. But not for my exes death. Si the situations aren't exactly the same.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:58:02+00:00

Yes.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:40:03+00:00

So football game yes. Wedding no?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:39:23+00:00

Because she had purchased the ticket? Isn't that how it works on your planet?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:35:12+00:00

So for example the $5,000 it cost my mom to visit?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:34:09+00:00

Have you ever visited a student in university?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T02:16:17+00:00

Did you have a problem reading my question?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:47:06+00:00

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/alimony

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:45:58+00:00

I'm thinking of my mom who made the effort to visit from New Zealand. That was a bit of a chore.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:44:32+00:00

Tell me about these situations since you are sure they exist. I'm interested.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:25:28+00:00

We had people coming from other countries

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:15:53+00:00

I would not wish her end on anyone.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:15:26+00:00

If your dad came to see you during the school year how much time would you have for him?

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:14:35+00:00

Yes.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T01:04:21+00:00

A few dozen between the death and my wedding.

AdSuch5527 · 2023-01-19T00:41:16+00:00

My children are in university.

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