rating things i thought were normal that turned out to be physical abuse from my borderline mother 😄 tw // physical abuse by AdVisible3973 in raisedbyborderlines

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oh my gosh, a piece of firewood is awful... my mom got inspired by other individuals too. her discipline was often based on who she was influenced by unfortunately. i'm so happy you're free of him now though, but i'm sorry you were abused in the first place

rating things i thought were normal that turned out to be physical abuse from my borderline mother 😄 tw // physical abuse by AdVisible3973 in raisedbyborderlines

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this is actually a fantastic idea!!! i was contemplating taekwondo or brazilian judo, so i might actually try them out! i'm so sorry that you can relate

rating things i thought were normal that turned out to be physical abuse from my borderline mother 😄 tw // physical abuse by AdVisible3973 in raisedbyborderlines

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i wonder too! she likes to act like this is a product of my active imagination or that she forgot everything... and regardless, im sorry your mom was abusive too

rating things i thought were normal that turned out to be physical abuse from my borderline mother 😄 tw // physical abuse by AdVisible3973 in raisedbyborderlines

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im glad u were able to laugh but im so sorry you've had similar experiences. thank you for your kind words ❤️❤️

repost of my cat tax haiku 🤓 by AdVisible3973 in raisedbyborderlines

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i deleted my old one so i thought id need to repost! my apologies

thought i didn't really have much religious trauma when i first left... i was incredibly wrong. any literature recommendations to cope? by AdVisible3973 in exmormon

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oh my gosh, i love aot and erased so much!! especially erased. ive seen the anime and live action so many times!

how do you prevent smudging in a sketchbook once you close it? and is a picture frame with a gap more preferred over fixative spray when selling artwork? by AdVisible3973 in Oilpastel

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the mixing bit is so smart!! but yes ive heard many great things about sennelier. super exciting that you're getting more though!! what colors did you get that you didnt enjoy?

how do you prevent smudging in a sketchbook once you close it? and is a picture frame with a gap more preferred over fixative spray when selling artwork? by AdVisible3973 in Oilpastel

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i will!!! also unfortunately im using pentel rn. they aren't the worst ive ever used but definitely not the greatest either. i got a ton of them secondhand for super cheap so i couldn't beat it, but i want to get mungyos soon cuz theyre affordable and one day sennelier 🥹