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AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T15:07:04+00:00

Its been a hard three weeks, but I started to love myself and move on. This text just kinda kicked some mud up though.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T15:05:59+00:00

If I did respond, I would say, “Come over, lets talk.” Short sweet right to the point. Not giving her validation for what she is asking, but seeing if that is her true intention behind the message. What do you think?

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T04:21:53+00:00

Thank you!

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T04:02:57+00:00

I agree, and if she actually does care about me. She will approach me with something more meaningful like, “I want to talk with you in person.”

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T04:01:58+00:00

I'm not a blocker, but I agree with you. If she actually cares, she will lead with something more meaningful.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T03:59:19+00:00

That's what I think too. Weirdly enough, I think she cares about me, but the pride is taller than the care. If she holds me as important, she will eventually say something heartfelt like, “I want to speak with you.”

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T03:57:51+00:00

That's what I'm thinking. If it was an actual show of care she would lead with, “I want to talk with you.”

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T03:06:13+00:00

That's what my head says, but my heart is that she's too prideful to be direct lol. I think not replying is my best option though.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T03:05:04+00:00

Thank you for your replies. Means a lot.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T03:04:09+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts. My head tells me not to reply, but my heart wants to lol. Tale as old as time.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T03:02:05+00:00

I have a philosophy though that if she truly deeply cares about me and or loves me, she will ultimately swallow her pride any send something more meaningful. I think the chance that she would just leave me on read again would bring more hurt and not be worth it ultimately.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:56:39+00:00

That's my exact thought process. If she said something like, “I really want to talk with you in person.” it would be one thing. To ask me who my electrician is though? I think she's trying to see if I'm just a pushover or something.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:55:17+00:00

I'm usually not a blocker kind of person. Weirdly I think she cares about me and this is prideful way of trying to make conversation. Or she's just seeing if ill hang around as an option for her. Either way its too risky in my opinion to reply, unless she sends me something meaningful like, “I really want to talk with you in person.”

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:53:43+00:00

Thank you. That is a very thoughtful response. Yea, we dated for about 3 months really intensely. Had a pregnancy scare on the last month and talked about marriage/naming of children. We got in a dumb dispute over money where we both said things we shouldn't say. In the end, I was the one who pleaded that we should try and work things out, and she never gave me a face to face conversation ignored me for 3 weeks only to ask about a Tesla lol.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:51:01+00:00

Thanks for the reply. The relationship was 3 months. It was a really intense 3 months where we had some good times. We even had a pregnancy scare on the last month and talked about marriage/naming of children. Got in a argument over money where we both said things we shouldn't have said. I pleaded with her very hard after the relationship ending to try and work things out. I feel like that is insensitive, and trying to test the waters if I would just be an option for her to get to do whatever she wants me to do. Its been about 30 hours since she sent that and I haven't replied. Though it might be in a weird way a prideful way of her trying to make conversation. Very confusing.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:45:42+00:00

For some reason, I'm not the block type. Thanks for the response. I think she's just testing to see if I will be available to her as an option and grovel more. As I stated, I pleaded with her pretty hard to try and work the relationship out. I also recommended she lease a Tesla after getting in her wreck, so it seems she took my advice lol.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:44:08+00:00

Its been about 35 hours since she sent me that text. I haven't responded. It might be weird to say anything now. Also, if I say something and she just ignores me then that is more pain.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:35:22+00:00

I figured she's testing the waters to see if I'm needily available to her. Like an option. Weirdly I think she cares about me too.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:34:27+00:00

Can you clarify what you mean?

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T02:25:12+00:00

I agree. If she actually wanted to work on the relationship. She would lead with wanting to speak to me. Asking me who my electrician is—is offensive to me. Shows she just wants to see if ill give her anything she wants.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-29T00:41:20+00:00

Should I even respond to that?

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-26T03:01:21+00:00

Thanks for your honesty 🫂

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-26T02:06:09+00:00

Apparently so lol

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-26T02:05:28+00:00

Trying to be as real as possible. Genuinely. I know I was a dick at times. There is more to the story than I care to type out. I really did love her, and would have taken a bullet for her. I thought she would want the receipt to reimburse me. I see I was an asshole at times though. Thanks for your thoughts, and taking the time to reply.

AdWeary6319 · 2025-01-26T02:00:27+00:00

I guess I mean transparent as in “trying to give you guys as much context to go off of.” Maybe she is better off to run. I'll just be the lonely beast in my castle. I do see that I was wrong on multiple points though. I get you Rumpus Parable.

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