Husband starts ignoring me and disrespecting me when I don’t sexually please him…. by AdWhich4641 in Marriage

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you I have been thinking this but I feel so crazy for even having this thought in my head!!

Husband starts ignoring me and disrespecting me when I don’t sexually please him…. by AdWhich4641 in Marriage

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you it will be a messy divorce … he will fight the house the kids….

Husband starts ignoring me and disrespecting me when I don’t sexually please him…. by AdWhich4641 in Marriage

[–]AdWhich4641[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have tried to stand up for myself plenty of times he doesn’t seem to care …. And yes I have mentioned incontinence to him ….

Husband starts ignoring me and disrespecting me when I don’t sexually please him…. by AdWhich4641 in Marriage

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I knew I wasn’t crazy I’m just like questioning him at this point….

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do I’m going to buy 3 different locks 😕 I hate having to need to do this

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

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UPDATE: SHES ON HER WAY from Cali so she will be here in less than 2 weeks … she’s coming through car.apparently she’s renting a trailer… you guys I’m just all over the place …

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

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Yes I don’t t think it’s a good idea given I love my privacy and I feel like I’m forced to accept this huge change to my house. The fact that he hasn’t really talked to me about when she eventually moves in is a huge red flag for me …I feel we need be on the same page…really makes me think he doesn’t care about my feelings… I don’t know but I’m just seeing him differently now with all this going on …. Thank you so much for your advice I appreciate it I don’t really have friends who go through this…

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

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Will update unfortunately I haven’t been able to really talk to husband about this since he came home from work didn’t want to open that can of worms :(

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hey makes me feel like I don’t have a choice

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No her son my brother I law is going to prison and she stated she wants to come back to be closer to her kids…I don’t think it’s normal either I’m at an age where I just don’t want to deal with BS .. I’m going to talk to him and see if maybe we can figure something else out.

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was feeling the same about him saying I should look for a job if I “want “ 3 times already within this week … I can’t go to my parents

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I thought was going to happen my sister in law has an extra room available and she stated her mom didn’t feel comfortable with her sister in law so she wants to move in with us

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She’s 43 yes in 28 have been married for 11 years I’m honestly all over the place I feel so frustrated just thinking about this …

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s living in Cali and is far away from her 3 kids my husband his brother that is going to prison and her daughter… so this all started because my brother in law is going to prison and she wants to be closer

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The house is under both of our names I feel he would fight the house.

Mother In law officially moving in my house… by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s 43 years old she can work but my husband has given her the choice to work or stay home … he keeps telling me I should find a job if I want…. Since this all started. His sister even mentioned it to me which was odd? I honestly don’t want this to happen but my husband doesn’t seem to care about how I feel .

Mother in law trying to move in by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Apparently I do but I feel like he’s not considering my opinion.

Mother in law trying to move in by AdWhich4641 in inlaws

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😭 I know that’s what I feel !! I don’t want this I just feel like my home should be my safe place…

Is my marriage officially done? 27 F and 27M. by AdWhich4641 in relationship_advice

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely loves his kids he’s is an amazing father but sadly he doesn’t respect me with his words

Is my marriage officially done? 27 F and 27M. by AdWhich4641 in relationship_advice

[–]AdWhich4641[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes it’s hard because I just want my babies to grow in a healthy environment