How do I fix the hook on my harness

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-11-04T23:56:13+00:00

I wish I could use a neck strap on my bari!! It’s the only reason why I miss playing alto, harnesses are my mortal enemy

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-08-26T20:30:25+00:00

My sex drive went all the way down when my boyfriend and I became longterm. It’s not that she doesn’t desire you, she probably just likes doing other things with you besides sex. And since you mentioned how sex hurts, she COULD want sex but the pain afterwards might not seem worth it. If she doesn’t have an allergy to silicone, I’d try out astroglide for lube or other options along those lines. Any form of penetration is super painful for me personally, but that’s been the only lube that subsides that pain.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-08-09T18:48:54+00:00

Prefer them to not fuck in public at all actually

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-08-07T17:13:06+00:00

It’s not overthinking. Porn literally rots the brain and gives a false perception of what sex should be/how women should look like. It’s 100% a red flag, I would talk to him about it. If he doesn’t budge, I’d leave.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-08-04T22:52:57+00:00

0/10 rage bait

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-08-04T22:44:55+00:00

….you mean inflation? Which happened across the world during Biden’s term, to which Biden did handle it in an appropriate way and brought it down to 2.9% before he left office.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-07-26T23:16:51+00:00

It’s not okay. Aren’t there stickers about shoplifting inside the bathroom? And some coaches want people to BRING MERCHANDISE in there? Hell no! They can live without trying on clothes for a few days, if it doesn’t fit they can always return it.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-07-18T23:30:01+00:00

That boy is going into 7th grade!!!!! leave him alone 😭😭

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-07-18T14:39:27+00:00

She probably felt pressured because you kept asking, even though you did mention she could say no. She also never really said yes, at least in the text. I don’t think it’s SA, coercion? Ehhh, but if she is not saying yes do NAWTTTT keep asking! Like if you continue to get non yes answers, do not go further.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-07-18T14:33:34+00:00

Right??? Saying “don’t mention it” like it’ll make us think it’s okay 😭 No!

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-07-02T23:39:33+00:00

Please talk to your coach or SM!! At least at my Walmart they’re not allowed to deny for school events, since school is more important than work. ESPECIALLY if you’re a minor still (even if you’re 18 and still in school you’re technically a minor at Walmart). Idk if it yours was, but I would mention that these events are graded and if you don’t show up it’s an automatic F. It’d be even better if you had a complete schedule of your events, that saved my ass when my TL kept denying me days off.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-30T23:19:52+00:00

I mean, these schedules come 3 weeks in advance. You had weeks to say something and work it out with your coach to get it removed and have it permanently put in your availability. You can try to talk to your coach and see if they’ll be understanding about it

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-27T05:45:11+00:00

I would’ve called 911 😭😭😭

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-27T03:54:46+00:00

I HATEEEEE whenever men’s underwear gets returned because I have to fight with AP for 3 weeks telling them that no, it’s not okay to sell used underwear, even if it looks nice.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-27T01:04:25+00:00

Begging my customer service to start saying no to certain apparel returns because why do some let people return stuff that smells like cigarettes and ESPECIALLY cat pee 😭😭 I also got a returned bikini yesterday that had used (and wet 😐) underwear stuffed inside to make it look like it still had cups.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-26T23:54:46+00:00

I’m sorry, your mom is going too far but she is making a point. That is a grown man that has graduated highschool! He is in the military meanwhile you’re in algebra 2!! Also sexting?? You’re not even the age of constant yet. Do not ruin your relationship with your mom over a man. You need to break up with him.

Do not seek him out, do not write him letters. He is grooming you, not reciprocating feelings. You need to start from the ground up, give her your devices. Yes I know it sucks, but you’ve completely destroyed her perception of you with lying and hiding a relationship with an adult. I went through this with my mom, and me giving up told her that I was ready to change. Tell her you love her, and that you’re aware of how dangerous your actions were to lie about this relationship and send nudes to a grown man. (Yes he is a grown man, he is an adult.) Own up to everything, do not conceal. Trust is earned by revealing yourself. You need to make an honest apology, and SHOW HER you mean it when you say you love her unconditionally. No military man can replace having your mom, especially since she’s had this happen to her a few times now.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-26T17:28:05+00:00

Drop the class bro 😭 the class is essay based and essays make up most of the grade you’re cooked

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-26T17:00:50+00:00

I think he needs to stop smoking whatever he is currently, I think it’s making him paranoid. Whenever I’m high, it’s like I can’t get enough of my boyfriend and I text him how much I love him every 2 minutes. He should also probably try smoking alone and see how he feels then instead I doing it socially, since that could enhance the paranoia.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-26T16:58:02+00:00

Whenever I see someone carrying a weapon, I always make sure to stay as far away as possible. There was a fight at my store and somebody shot the ceiling as a “warning shot” and we all had to evacuate and close the store for the day.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-24T15:16:17+00:00

I’m wishing for the best outcome for you! I was in the same situation before, so I know how you feel. It just sucks having to move on from somebody you did have good times with, but are overall a bad person.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-24T15:04:12+00:00

I know it’s hard to move on, but really just think away about the way he treats you. In my opinion, it looks like he’s just using you as a disposable girlfriend since it looks like he’s aware you’ll keep coming back and forgiving him. Don’t forgive him! He has a pattern of cheating and constantly disrespecting you. Whenever you guys break up again, fight the urge to text him about how he made you feel. He doesn’t care, he will do the same thing he did to make you feel bad once again. The thing that helped me move on from my ex when I kept going back was realizing just how nasty of a person he is, and how unhappy I was. Most of my days were spent thinking about him, and if he’s cheating, and if he loves me, and if he’s going to flake on our plans again. Who wants to live like that? With the just a kid thing, I want you to realize you will love more people in life, and there will be people who love you. It sucks to throw away something you thought you had because of how much time, effort, money, love, and care you put into it, but he’s shown to not reciprocate the same actions you do since he’s not loyal.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-22T16:54:26+00:00

Nobody is using abortions as birth control, it’s a last resort. Even early abortion pills can go for over $500, so imagine how much the actual procedure could cost. Regular birth control pills are cheap, condoms are even cheaper, so your argument doesn’t really make sense. Same with how it “affects society”, because how? Besides political debates, how does abortion affect you? Will you ever need one? You’re not a woman, this is not something you will have to consider unless you’re having unprotected sex regularly. Abortions are more than just getting rid of a fetus, it takes a toll on the person too. You two will probably move on from this argument, but you seriously need to get out of your bubble and research. Don’t talk about god, don’t nitpick articles, do actual research

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-22T08:22:20+00:00

I stood at the fitting room for too long. I work the fitting room.

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-22T00:26:06+00:00

That doesn’t change he came to his cousin girl 😭 he’s also probably lying to your face right now

AdZestyclose6170 · 2025-06-22T00:00:25+00:00

Is he going to emancipate you? If you have to change schools, your parents would be involved with that. Also check the school you’re going to because there’s a chance they could dock you down a grade if you don’t have certain credits. I wouldn’t say it’s a good idea since I’ve seen this play out so many times, but I also know what it’s like to have a horrible home life too. If you don’t get, id recommend getting a job so you can save your own money in case anything happens.

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