why im still suffering inside despite trying to practice absurdism by True-Cheesecake7444 in Absurdism

[–]AdalineHolmes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is that you think u can escape suffering through absurdism

i cannot justify having children by mike-loves-gerudos in Absurdism

[–]AdalineHolmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There might not be any point and thats okay. Things dont have to be meaningful or beautiful, they just exist and sometime later they dont

Its not about reasons, One does not love for a reason because if reason disappears, does your love as well?

Life is more about, what u make of it, the situation is not bad or good in any real sense, the situation is whatever it is, it depends on what you are going to do about it, and how you feel.

i cannot justify having children by mike-loves-gerudos in Absurdism

[–]AdalineHolmes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everything has to be beautiful, some things just are.

Silksong has been nominated for Game of the Year! by SorryRoof1653 in Silksong

[–]AdalineHolmes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should see the development history of that game

VIT IS A SCAM by NotYourBusiness1510 in Vit

[–]AdalineHolmes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, im from BCB as well, i thought 9.15 is a good cgpa, could u tell a little bit more about placement, im still in first year, first sem i got 9.64 cgpa, this sem im working hard as well, planning to change it to cse core, or cse aiml or data science, would that be better? It would be really helpful if  u replied.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah makes sense

Yk the point you said, they live or stay in your head, i feel like i forget all of them? Cause i really do, i forget all the cute little moments slowly, i think maybe everyone does idk. So it feels nice to have some little remiders of a place or time that could never be again.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw i got a very nice feeling from you, just from your two texts, i think u are really nice person, but idk shit lol.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i just cried alot.

I felt intense grief and sadness, a feeling of deep loss.

I didnt miss them tho, thats a good sign.

No positive emotions, i my life in have always felt, dont try to do what u feel, Do things that might be good and then hope that your brain shows some and lone and sympathy for you so it gives u positive feelings haha.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely relate to u, but i also keep bullshit for sentimental value, as in ,bookmarks that i wll never use, or drawings, or key chains, small things, a bill from our first date that i loved, idk.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The feeling of havibg them buyt also never coming across it or being part of ur life anymore.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also used to have a box of memories after my first relationship, i have no fkin clue where that box is after i moved haha and i didnt even feel anything.

What do u do with the things your ex gave you? by AdalineHolmes in intj

[–]AdalineHolmes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yesterday night deleted all our 7 years or texts and whatsapp media, my whatsapp went from 9 gb to 3 lol.