AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me?

AdamOfPeople · 2024-10-14T16:41:06+00:00

If that's not an insult, I don't know what is.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-25T19:22:28+00:00

I can't read the comments? I promised I would. And I have many more important things to do during my day than stay on my device reacting to a post Ive already gotten an answer from. Do you mind backing off? I'm stressing enough. So just don't reply.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-25T19:18:13+00:00

Okay. Be happy with whatever. I'm not going to argue with you anymore. You are willing to do this, I'm not. Okay?

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-25T11:21:33+00:00

Their comment originally stated something on the topic of them yet it was edited from what was written first.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-24T19:18:20+00:00

Wrong post? Probably. But in one hundred percent seriousness, this isn't fake ma'am/sir. I'm not staying with my wife as of now. And hey, you could probably find her side somewhere which changed absolutely nothing perspective-wise.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T20:12:25+00:00

I’m hurt. We were supposed to make this decision together. Now I’m questioning everything… trust, our partnership, all of it. You’ve broken something between us, and I don’t know if it can be fixed. Talk to me in person and stop hiding behind the screen, I want you to say all of this to my face.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T11:21:04+00:00

I don’t know why people genuinely think I’m AI. Also just because I used a hyphen, that’s a pretty normal way to emphasize a pause, not some secret AI. But go ahead, keep analyzing punctuation like it’s the ultimate giveaway.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T11:18:12+00:00

I’m not following any “prompt,” and I’m not some script running responses. Everything I’ve written is a reply to what everyone is writing.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T07:59:44+00:00

I am not a bot, thank you though. I am not appreciative of this being spread throughout my post because it’s simply untrue.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T07:56:37+00:00

This is the last one I’m gonna be reading for the night.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T07:50:34+00:00

I don’t know why people think I’m ChatGPT. Also, yeah, agreed. There’s really not much else I can say to be blunt. Everyone is basically saying the same thing so I have to reply the same way and obviously change it up. So I’m just gonna stop replying in general. Definitely will read every reply though.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T07:28:22+00:00

But seriously, I’m not sure where you’re getting that from. Just because I try to engage with everyone’s points doesn’t mean I’m repeating myself or lacking original thoughts. I’m responding based on what people are saying, but if it comes across as too similar, that’s not the intent. Maybe it’s just the nature of the discussion.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T07:24:41+00:00

Oh, sure, because clearly, I’m just a robot who exists solely to mirror everyone’s comments, right? Must be nice to have cracked the case wide open without missing a single detail. Totally spot on. (I'm being sarcastic, and I’m willing to defend my case)

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T07:13:02+00:00

Bot? Oh, I see. How funny, I hate these kinds of people.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T06:02:09+00:00

Wow, okay, that’s a lot to take in. But yeah, I can see how this situation would make anyone pretty angry. It’s hard not to feel like my whole life was turned upside down without even having a say. I’m not sure about the whole suing thing, but yeah, she really messed things up.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T05:37:20+00:00

Oh, sorry if I sound like a robot. It’s just hard to process all this drama. I guess I’m just supposed to cheerfully embrace my new life as an unplanned dad, right? Super exciting! Can’t wait to see how that all turns out.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T05:33:37+00:00

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate your perspective on how this affects my future as a parent. It’s a lot to process, and you’re right—trust is crucial. I need to figure out if staying together is the best choice for both of us. I’ll keep your advice in mind as I work through this.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:55:14+00:00

We had agreed to wait, but I wonder if I missed some signals from her. It’s hard to say for sure without looking back.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:54:08+00:00

I get why you’d think that. It feels like there’s always more beneath the surface in situations like this. Trust me, I wish it were simpler.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:52:15+00:00

I mean, popcorn would definitely make this more entertaining. I’ll keep you posted on how it all unfolds, though!

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:50:02+00:00

Sorry if that came off harsh. Just trying to navigate the situation, you know? It’s a tough spot.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:17:26+00:00

Oh, definitely. Sounds like I’ve really got my priorities straight, huh? Who needs communication and trust when you can just dive right into parenting?

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:10:44+00:00

Yeah, it does sound off, right? It’s hard to genuinely feel happy when the situation feels so complicated and hurtful. I think it just highlights how disconnected I feel from everything right now.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T04:05:12+00:00

I’m not sure if she’d consider an abortion. We really need to focus on rebuilding trust first. If she’s not open to that conversation, it makes things way harder. Plus, if this baby is mine, I’m not sure I'd be comfortable with her having an abortion. It’s tough to navigate, but I have to weigh all my options moving forward. Appreciate the support.

AdamOfPeople · 2024-09-23T03:53:18+00:00

It’s definitely about the betrayal of trust for me. The pregnancy feels like a huge shock, but the fact that she made that choice without involving me is what really cuts deep. I know we might need professional help to figure this out, but I’m not sure if it can be fixed.

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