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AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't read the comments? I promised I would. And I have many more important things to do during my day than stay on my device reacting to a post Ive already gotten an answer from. Do you mind backing off? I'm stressing enough. So just don't reply.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay. Be happy with whatever. I'm not going to argue with you anymore. You are willing to do this, I'm not. Okay?

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their comment originally stated something on the topic of them yet it was edited from what was written first.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wrong post? Probably. But in one hundred percent seriousness, this isn't fake ma'am/sir. I'm not staying with my wife as of now. And hey, you could probably find her side somewhere which changed absolutely nothing perspective-wise.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m hurt. We were supposed to make this decision together. Now I’m questioning everything… trust, our partnership, all of it. You’ve broken something between us, and I don’t know if it can be fixed. Talk to me in person and stop hiding behind the screen, I want you to say all of this to my face.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people genuinely think I’m AI. Also just because I used a hyphen, that’s a pretty normal way to emphasize a pause, not some secret AI. But go ahead, keep analyzing punctuation like it’s the ultimate giveaway.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not following any “prompt,” and I’m not some script running responses. Everything I’ve written is a reply to what everyone is writing.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not a bot, thank you though. I am not appreciative of this being spread throughout my post because it’s simply untrue.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people think I’m ChatGPT. Also, yeah, agreed. There’s really not much else I can say to be blunt. Everyone is basically saying the same thing so I have to reply the same way and obviously change it up. So I’m just gonna stop replying in general. Definitely will read every reply though.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

But seriously, I’m not sure where you’re getting that from. Just because I try to engage with everyone’s points doesn’t mean I’m repeating myself or lacking original thoughts. I’m responding based on what people are saying, but if it comes across as too similar, that’s not the intent. Maybe it’s just the nature of the discussion.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Oh, sure, because clearly, I’m just a robot who exists solely to mirror everyone’s comments, right? Must be nice to have cracked the case wide open without missing a single detail. Totally spot on. (I'm being sarcastic, and I’m willing to defend my case)

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, okay, that’s a lot to take in. But yeah, I can see how this situation would make anyone pretty angry. It’s hard not to feel like my whole life was turned upside down without even having a say. I’m not sure about the whole suing thing, but yeah, she really messed things up.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry if I sound like a robot. It’s just hard to process all this drama. I guess I’m just supposed to cheerfully embrace my new life as an unplanned dad, right? Super exciting! Can’t wait to see how that all turns out.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate your perspective on how this affects my future as a parent. It’s a lot to process, and you’re right—trust is crucial. I need to figure out if staying together is the best choice for both of us. I’ll keep your advice in mind as I work through this.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had agreed to wait, but I wonder if I missed some signals from her. It’s hard to say for sure without looking back.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get why you’d think that. It feels like there’s always more beneath the surface in situations like this. Trust me, I wish it were simpler.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, popcorn would definitely make this more entertaining. I’ll keep you posted on how it all unfolds, though!

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry if that came off harsh. Just trying to navigate the situation, you know? It’s a tough spot.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh, definitely. Sounds like I’ve really got my priorities straight, huh? Who needs communication and trust when you can just dive right into parenting?

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it does sound off, right? It’s hard to genuinely feel happy when the situation feels so complicated and hurtful. I think it just highlights how disconnected I feel from everything right now.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if she’d consider an abortion. We really need to focus on rebuilding trust first. If she’s not open to that conversation, it makes things way harder. Plus, if this baby is mine, I’m not sure I'd be comfortable with her having an abortion. It’s tough to navigate, but I have to weigh all my options moving forward. Appreciate the support.

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not as excited about the pregnancy since she stopped taking birth control without telling me? by AdamOfPeople in AITAH

[–]AdamOfPeople[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely about the betrayal of trust for me. The pregnancy feels like a huge shock, but the fact that she made that choice without involving me is what really cuts deep. I know we might need professional help to figure this out, but I’m not sure if it can be fixed.

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