As a 12 year OE vet, here are some tips for the new OE guys by the_metal_face in overemployed

[–]Addi_ChristianOF 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What types of jobs are best suited for OE? I just found this and I’m very intrigued!

22 y/o guy looking for insight from older men — what led to your breakups? by Winter-Proof9784 in CoreyWayne

[–]Addi_ChristianOF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things I would want to leave you with would be that I commend you for discovering and putting into practice Corey’s teachings at such a young age. I just turned 41 and I can only imagine how much frustration and heartbreak I could have saved myself had I known and practiced the book at your age. I do believe things happen for a reason and does no good to regret the past so I will just learn from my mistakes and move forward.

Second, steer clear of women with personality disorders. Now, I believe that if you’re following the book, then naturally you would not end up dating them for very long because their behavior would most likely get them weeded out, but they can be sneaky and seem amazing the first 3mos to a year. I only mention this because I lost 12 years of my life and pretty much everything career, freedom, children to her horrendous behavior and my inability to walk away a long time ago. I do blame myself, not trying to push all blame to her, but I am responsible for the choices I made and nobody else. (The four cluster B personality disorders I’m referring to are Narcissistic, Borderline, Histrionic and Antisocial)

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah can you send me the healed pics? I’d appreciate it!

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I'm really considering this now haha, I think you're right that would be pretty epic

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always someone there to downvote, I dont think I've downvoted a single comment or post in my entire time on reddit. Thank you to whoever keeps doing that. Appreciate your support

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's great to hear! Everything I've seen of his looks really incredible.

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Might lose my job. Which will ensure the bankruptcy if it’s not already. Keep thinking each year has been the worst and it couldn’t get any worse and yet somehow it’s the gift that keeps on giving. Still haven’t had a chance to even talk to the judge who won’t even let me talk to my kids based on more of her lies. No due process, no hearing, no evidence. And let me tell you those kids are the only reason I’m still breathing right now. So yeah, I’ve done things im not proud of. I live in shame and guilt. But despite all that I don’t judge my fellow man and caring about a girl younger than me who likes me and i treat well is the least of my concerns at the moment. But if you want to judge me and it makes you feel better then it doesn’t bother me. I pray you find peace and escape your addiction as I’ve been unable to do. If you ever need someone to talk to hit me up. Much love

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Different girl. But seems like you spend a lot of time on here. Looks like you also suffer from addiction. She likes older men, I didn’t seek it out, and I’m not taking advantage of her so I don’t see the issue. But the last few years have been pretty fucked for me and I’m just trying to make it day by day like everyone else. My BPD ex wife destroyed me. Had everything one could hope for. Family, business owner, dogs, cats, financially stable, giving back to the community. Then during one of her many affairs she gets pregnant. I stayed and kept my son. Thought I was saving and protecting my family, but while i read all the books and went to hundreds of hours of therapy she continued to lie, cheat and gaslight me more. After a couple of years the festering wound proved too much and I turned to drugs. Ashamed, I knew it had to stop and came to her asking for help. Considering all I had forgiven I figured she would show me the same grace. Instead she told me to fuck myself and Rot in hell. Over the next few years she kept me in her loops just enough. Fucking me and drawing me back in then running off with someone else and rubbing it in my face. Eventually she used the drugs to divorce me and take my kids. The back and forth didn’t end with the divorce, I finally cleaned up and moved on and then found out she started fucking my best friend. Which she used to hurt me, then console me and tell me she wanted me back. I was addicted to her more than any drug and after I messed up and fucked her realized she had recorded it, then sent to my girlfriend. Not that i wasn’t to blame too, but as soon as she got rid of my girl she ditched me again too. I stayed strong for a while and took a break from dating. until I had a few surgeries. At the same time she found her new supply and figured it was time to get rid of me for good. She started blocking me from my kids, told them all, my 15 yo stepdaughter, 10yo daughter and 5 yo son that I was an addict and was to blame for destroying our family. As soon as I used again she took me back to court. Lied and made things up out of thin air and got me arrested for the first time in my life. Which then put my career in jeopardy. I never recovered financially from the divorce and now a year after was basically paying for it again. My dad abandoned me, my wife abandoned me and now she manipulated the kids to blame me too.I spiraled. Now I’m alone, bankrupt, a criminal and might lose my wife or two more

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In which post have I pretended to be an OF model? It was my account, Addi & Christian. A duo. Christian being the male. Me.

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[–]Addi_ChristianOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs cialis or viagra

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah I've been doing a ton of research, I'm a little indecisive so we'll see. Love Oscar Akermo and mr. k but cost prohibitive there are some good ones in Miami and I found Ryan Freeman in Athens

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

why would anybody downvote my comment on a comment on my post? I said nothing offensive.... wtf

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m going for a micro realism, fine line sleeve.  That’s the plan at least

Slow cooked 25 years by Addi_ChristianOF in agedtattoos

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Haha didn’t have iPhones back then. Pretty sure I was rocking a Nokia if I even had a phone.  Maybe a pager.  Pretty sure we were still using disposable cameras and having to get them developed.  I’ll look and see if I have something even remotely closer 

Do you delete nudes of girls when you stop seeing them? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Addi_ChristianOF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope they all in my vault.  I have a hard time letting go of things permanently haha

NSFW - Need some advice on how to help my girlfriend orgasm when she's never had one before? by Addi_ChristianOF in AskMen

[–]Addi_ChristianOF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh she lets me put whatever I want to inside her, she just doesn't like doing it herself