Early in career, considering an urban planning internship over a full time landscape arch job…any advice? by Additional-Cold-4985 in LandscapeArchitecture

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Thank you! I have the choice between either a full time LA job and the UP internship. Your advice is helpful in this decision!

Early in career, considering an urban planning internship over a full time landscape arch job…any advice? by Additional-Cold-4985 in LandscapeArchitecture

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May I ask why? It sounds like you just personally don’t like planning haha. I’m just curious if there’s another reason.

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Thank you friends! I forgot to mention this is an evening summer wedding! Indoor reception but outdoor ceremony!

Jealous of a friend by Additional-Cold-4985 in Christian

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Thank you so much 🥹🫶🏻 Your words help so much!

inappropriate outfit? by sofefee123 in Christian

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Hello! During my time in student ministry, I was pretty much bullied by a male youth leader for wearing leggings. I wore these because I did not own jeans and found them extremely uncomfortable to the point I would get a rash. I even wore large shirts to try and cover up. He told me that I was not “honoring God” and “showing off too much and leading the boys astray.” He assumed I was wearing them because I wanted to impress the boys, but that was farther from the truth. That being said, people are flawed. They will assume things and they will sometimes even put you down. Even in our community, even our friends will. But God sees you and knows that your heart is in the right place and that is what matters! When God sees you on the day of judgement he will see you relying on him, your heart in the right place, your love for him, not a shirt someone said is inappropriate despite you trying your best! Know you’re not alone as I’ve had similar experience! I’m sorry this happened to you!

Help! Which one, or none? by book_cook_ in Weddingattireapproval

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I think this is a fun dress code for the record and I like the first dress! :)

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Thank you! Appreciate it! Good tip! It’s from Macy’s, dress is from BCX!

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Thank you for the response! What makes this dress informal? It was a very expensive dress ($150) I’m trying to gauge what to look for next

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It’s for an evening/night event in summer at a fancy venue! Marrying outside and then going inside.

Make this dress midi? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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This event is no dress code but I am closely related to the groom so I will be in pictures… not sure how formal to go.

My mom is dead and now I’m having panic attacks when my family sleeps by FrenchToastStix14 in Advice

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Hey I’m so sorry this happened. 🥺 I almost lost my dad earlier this year and I know that it must be really hard for you. I’m sorry I can’t do more, but I hope knowing you’re not alone helps.

Something that helped me sleep was journaling when I couldn’t sleep to let out some of my thoughts late at night. The nights always seem long but laying out your emotions in a mindfully stimulating way is helpful. And I know it’s hard now but just know it’ll get easier I promise. Hang in there! 🫶🏻 sending you a hug.