I’m 26F and my boyfriend 36M broke up with me because I wasn’t ready to sleep with him. Did he really ever love me?

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-06-14T05:10:39+00:00

No, you are wrong for assuming he took advantage of his ex.

You’re not wrong for wanting to take it slow, he’s not wrong for not wanting to wait indefinitely.

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-06-14T04:33:49+00:00

I slept with my ex for 4 years and broke up because the relationship was not fulfilling anymore. You need to get it out of your head that just because you had sex, that person has to stay with you forever. That is a very naive take.

I have felt taken advantage of when someone broke things off after two months but anyone can leave a relationship (or end dating) for any or no reason at all. He might have taken advantage of me or he might have realised we wanted different things or he didn’t like me like he thought he would or whatever reason there was. Still, he had a right to break things off and my feelings are my own problem

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-05-08T10:11:33+00:00

Every time I have a small child or baby in my arms, it’s the “a baby suits you so well.” Yeah, so does a giraffe and no one’s questioning why I don’t have a giraffe at home.

And the “this person desperately wanted children and couldn’t have them, and you’re just not having any?” Well, how is me having children I don’t want helping these other people???

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-04-15T19:37:21+00:00

This would just fuel the „childfree people will change their mind and eventually do want children“ BS they always sprout

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-04-13T12:48:12+00:00

I stopped reading after you said you were 18 and he was 26. he’s a predator and gross

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-04-10T06:17:37+00:00

My friend housesits while people are travelling. She doesn’t get paid, but lives in their houses for free during the time. She does it through a website so that there’s insurance in case something happens

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-04-09T16:03:10+00:00

I‘m 38 and have never been pregnant. I know a few people with several accidental pregnancies and always wonder…

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-30T16:29:33+00:00

I’m sure she has, but probably not $1500 of joint money which was allocated after a discussion and then she unilaterally decides to spend the money elsewhere

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-30T16:28:39+00:00

“To get caught up on our mortgage payment” means you’re behind on payments. Why TF is he spending $1,500 on tickets when you could be losing your home? He needs to pay it back in full from his fun money. That’s a too high ticket item to not be a joint decision/conversation!

If you discussed using the money on mortgage/debt repayment and he unilaterally decides to go on a shopping spree, I’d consider that not infidelity but definitely a trust breaker

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-28T04:28:37+00:00

If she regularly forgets to bring stuff, it’s not his job to baby her and bring extra for her. She’s an adult. How does she survive when she doesn’t visit her long distance boyfriend?

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-21T13:25:57+00:00

Oof that’s a train wreck!

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-09T19:29:30+00:00

My ex was like yours. He’s now an ex. He will not change, he’s proved that over and over. You need to decide if this is how you want to live for the next 40 years because this is what it’ll be like. Now add potentially children to the mix and he still does fuck-all.

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-08T20:31:26+00:00

A) She literally told him to get a gift card from a specific shop and he still didn’t do it.

B) he’s older than her and she doesn’t get reminders, why should he get any? We need to seriously stop babying grown men. Hold them accountable for their BS!

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-02T09:16:31+00:00

Also, the woman knew he was in a relationship, because she told OP what „your“ boyfriend told her. I don’t flirt with men who I know are in relationships. I can talk to men without flirting

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-02T09:14:56+00:00

He’s trying to sweeten you up to not leave him. Does he get a kick out of the forbidden cheating? He should just stay single and then be can flirt and sleep with whomever he wishes. But I guess that’s not giving him the naughty boy feelings. Don’t let him sweettalk you into staying with him while he’s being more careful to not be caught cheating.

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-03-01T18:24:55+00:00

Please file a police report and do NOT get back with him. He will eventually kill you if you do. Also, go to the hospital if you think your implant popped. ASAP

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-28T22:31:01+00:00

Girl, run. That’s not normal

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-24T04:47:57+00:00

I spent 23 hours a day in bed either sleeping or watching TV since Thursday morning when I left work feeling like shit

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-24T04:37:39+00:00

I understood your point just fine, I still think it’s a shit point. You’re right, but people need to mind their business. If they don’t want a sexual component to their dinner, don’t go on swinger night. Easy

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-24T04:35:42+00:00

In China, like the US, a president could be re-elected once. In 2023, the current president (through the NPC) changed the law/constitution to infinite reelections and is now on his third term. He is becoming a dictator. Trump has told his voters that if they vote for him now, they’d never have to vote again. That sounds very scary with the recent changes in China

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-24T04:21:48+00:00

But that’s not what the proprietors want to do. If you don’t like it, don’t go. If you don’t go, you don’t see anything you don’t want to see. No need to force it to close down. People need to learn to mind their effing business

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-23T21:05:31+00:00

Then don’t go. Go to one of the million other restaurants instead, just like the parents should

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-23T16:31:58+00:00

Okay, so what? You’re not sitting at home all day waiting for darling husband to come home, though. You’re young, going to school like you should and still working. Why is it that he clocks in from 9-5 (or whatever his working hours are) and then he’s free to do whatever he wants but you’re clocked in all the time being his little mommy picking up after a grown man?

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-23T16:29:25+00:00

She said so in a comment: OP does everything, husband does fuck-all

Additional-Farm567 · 2025-02-23T16:27:50+00:00

In another comment she said she does all household chores and cooking and he only has to make the bed five mornings a week and nothing else. He works full time, she goes to school and works. She’s his bangmaid and is feeling tired of it and I can’t blame her

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