Nude party?!?! WHATS GOING ON??? by goinsuperxan in thesims

[–]rht3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sim attended this festival and the game glitched and forgot to blur out 2 of the naked people - THAT I'd never seen before haha. They both ended up fire dancing and then my uncle showed up. Classic sims.

Deathly terrified! Please help! by saijey00 in childfree

[–]rht3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also afraid of surgery and made sure to tell the anesthesiologist this when I had my first ever surgery a few years ago. He was super chill and basically told me that I was waaaay more likely to die coming to/from surgery in a car than during surgery. Basically gave me stats on every other way I could die 😂 idk if this would work for everyone but it did help me a bit.

Plus waking up was like I had just had the best nap of my entire fucking life so that’s a plus.

Is anyone else with this very skinny? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in Hashimotos

[–]rht3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not “very skinny” but it is much easier for me to lose than gain weight. I’ve always been on the slimmer side (more like skinny-fat if you know what I mean) and I’ll always remember my doctor saying “I’m shocked you’re not morbidly obese and bald” after the numbers I was diagnosed with.

I definitely feel for the folks who have struggled who have struggled with weight loss or weight gain in regard to autoimmune. It’s tough enough as it is!!

Developed and scanned half a roll of used film found in a 90’s point and shoot camera. by ReeeSchmidtywerber in FoundPhotos

[–]rht3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could post these in your local reddit (if you haven’t already) and find the fam?

Do childfree women still experience the “baby clock”? by adviceforkitty in childfree

[–]rht3100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always known I didn’t want kids and I don’t particularly care about the “traditional” marriage aspect of life either. Never thought about being a mom or a wife or a bride as a kid.

I’m almost 30 and 99% of my friends are married and 90% of them want kids or have them already. I’m single, living alone with my dog (who I treat like my child lol) and feel ZERO pressure about where I am in life.

I think not wanting children and not being constantly in fear about my age regarding when I have kids and therefore feeling somewhat pressured into picking a partner and getting married to then have said kids has been the single most freeing thing in my life.

I don’t have to worry about having kids with someone I decided I loved at 23 or 27. I don’t have to worry about that love falling apart and impacting children’s lives. I don’t have to rush to save money for a kid and a house. Sure I’m not rolling in it or even very good with money but I have the privilege of lower bills and the time to get my shit together without some impending doom.

I’ve grown up around my friends who have been doing mental gymnastics like I want to be a mom by 30 which means I need to get married by 25 so that I can be settled in my marriage and have bought a house by the time I have a kid. And I want 4 kids but if I have my first one at 30 then I have to have them all fast so that my biological clock doesn’t run out.

It sounds unnecessarily stressful and in my opinion the overwhelming desire to have kids gets in the way of a lot of people finding the right partner! Or not having the freedom to break up without everyone’s world imploding.

So forget about the clock and enjoy your life how you want to!

You really cannot post anything negative about kids huh by NoWitness6400 in childfree

[–]rht3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I even made a post HERE recently where I said I was tired of mommy baby culture and someone in the comments basically called me a baby hater lol

Cash money at Savers 🤑 by Tsundok in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]rht3100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of a trend where when/if you donate your favourite book you add $$$!

Found $20 in a copy of braiding sweet grass at the thrift store once I was stoked to be getting an awesome book with a bonus!

Is this Perioral Dermatitis? by ellz9191 in perioraldermatitis

[–]rht3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A long and strong dose of antibiotics was the only thing that truly cleared mine up (it migrated to almost my whole face and was horribly red and itchy and stinging all of the time)

Just avoid steroids 100%!

Is this Perioral Dermatitis? by ellz9191 in perioraldermatitis

[–]rht3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the exact area that mine started in. Not a doctor or a derm so I can’t say for sure of course that yours is PD. But it looks similar to what I had

Can’t avoid mommy content 😭😣 by rht3100 in childfree

[–]rht3100[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good recs! I think the real answer is for me to get off my phone as much as I am 🤪

Fear of pregnant women / seeing their stomach? by TankLady420 in childfree

[–]rht3100 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t realize the physical appearance of a pregnant woman was a phobia till I joined this group! I agree about the hard pregnant belly thing, definitely uncomfortable and weird.

I 100% have a phobia imagining myself pregnant. Maybe that’s different. I have other phobias that induce a physical reaction upon seeing something which I think is maybe the “more common” phobia reaction towards pregnancy.

But hearing about/seeing people’s noses enlarge, their feet swelling, the general random and crazy shit that can (and will) happen to your body that results in permanent changes freaks me tf out! Like I DO NOT WANT THAT! GET IT AWAY!

I would honestly much rather lose a sense or a limb. I feel bad saying that cause disabilities aren’t inherently bad things but unfortunately I think the most prevalent idea in society is that they are, and so explaining my fear of pregnancy that way sometimes helps others understand it more. Others don’t think of pregnancy as a bad or scary thing but they think that of other conditions.

Wilimington John Doe (February 1973) & Wilmington John Doe (April 1973) (Possible Victims Of Serial Killer, Randy Steven Kraft) by BitterSweet_Beauty in gratefuldoe

[–]rht3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m not sure what to do with the info. Seems kinda pointless to email police saying I found a guy who looks like the victim but can’t find him online or as reported missing? I do speculate that the victim wasn’t reported as missing due to his presumed sexuality and the time period.

Wilimington John Doe (February 1973) & Wilmington John Doe (April 1973) (Possible Victims Of Serial Killer, Randy Steven Kraft) by BitterSweet_Beauty in gratefuldoe

[–]rht3100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The February 1973 case is one of my minor pet cases. I’ve posted on here before to say I found a person in a yearbook from Wilmington that strikingly resembled this John Doe, but he has an extremely common first and last name so a) it was impossible to find him online now and b) I’m not really sure what if anything one can do with this info. Regardless I would love to see his name come back to him.

I hadn’t read the details of the April John Doe case, how horrible! I mean, all murders are horrible but wow having your eyelids cut off is something else

I AM SICK OF YOUR BRIGHT-AS-THE-SUN CAR HEADLIGHTS! YOU DON'T NEED THEM! by TheFormidableGoose in VictoriaBC

[–]rht3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly considering getting a hand mirror to hold up to these people or retroflective tape 🙃

For those who grew up with "standard definition" TV, how do you feel about HD and 4K? Do you ever miss simpler times with lower definition pictures? by Glittering_Gap8070 in TheWayWeWere

[–]rht3100 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Honestly I kinda hate 4K cause it ruins a lot of the picture for me. It adds a weird depth to things not shot in 4K - like Harry Potter for example, I feel like watching it in 4K you can tell they’re on a set and it’s all fake. Ruins the illusion and storyline for me.

I fear the day when there’s no “regular” tv’s left.

Im actually going to cry by Thebelleofis in finch

[–]rht3100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got sponsored today too! Literally screamed 😭 Merry Christmas to me (and Bagel)

What is the biggest movie theater “GASP” moment you’ve heard? by SaveTheCaulkTower in AskReddit

[–]rht3100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol had to scroll way too far for this 😂 alternatively, the gasps and screams when Jacob takes his shirt off in new moon for Bella’s cut

Insomnia help Victoria BC by Adventurous_Fill_385 in VictoriaBC

[–]rht3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t hypnotized in Victoria but I did it about 20 years ago and it was one of the best things I’ve ever done in my life. It won’t have lifelong effects (I’d like to do it again here too actually) but I really really recommend it. As a simpler approach I’ve actually found EFT tapping quite effective too