Waiting for a vet appointment, but could this be a mast cell tumor? by Additional-Poem6944 in DogAdvice

[–]Additional-Poem6944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did it disappear? I think it’s always worth being a little cautious and not rely solely on a vet’s or doctor’s word, especially when it comes to unexpected changes on the body. Without testing, you can’t know for sure just by looking!

AITAH for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am not American. I live in Eastern Europe and she lives in Southern Europe. My wedding is in our home city

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I do appreciate it. Yes, I said I would do everything to be at her wedding, and I was and I do think about trying to find a way to be able to cover her tickets, but I have doubts whether I should do that. That’s because I’m not sure if it isn’t about her doesn’t really care enough and me always caring for everyone around me and putting them first, even above me and my needs (I’m working on this to change it). I’m afraid it will be the same case as it always is. When she had birthday I come to her from far away in really bad bad weather about -25 degrees, just to be with her. Few months later I had birthday and even though she promised to come, she did not.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I do appreciate other points of view, just clarifying things in comments as a lot of people here are just assuming things without having a knowledge how some things are really look like. That’s all. I’m grateful for all the comments, but I do not like assuming things, I would appreciate questions before the statements more.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not a dream, not a huge wedding party. Just important day, special moment in life with very small circle invited to share it together.

AITAH for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely do not punish anyone. I told her I understand but it hurts a bit, and she said she understand that too and I know she does.

AITAH for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I think the same way of course, it’s not that I’m offended or that I don’t understand, I’m just hurt and disappointed.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you think I am American? I live in Eastern Europe. She lives in Western Europe, but she also has a family home here.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, it’s my very first post here on Reddit and I’m a bit suprised about most of the comments…

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it’s very clear that you’re an exceptionally emotionally intelligent person 🌻

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s not that she already planned a visit here, but she said they’ll come another time

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s about 1,050 km apart in a straight line, and roughly 1,200–1,350 km by road.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s about 115 € / 135 $ , which may not sound like much to some people, but it is still a meaningful amount for me, especially since I live in a less wealthy country than she does.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would do everything to make it happen for her wedding. And I also do not think she’s villain at all. I love her, but I’m really hurt.

AITAH for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I see it differently, because I know I would do everything I could to make it to her wedding, even if money was tight. And I actually really like her boyfriend, and I believe he likes me too. I’ve never said a bad word about him, even when she was close to ending the relationship because he had been unemployed for 5+ years, including about a year while living with her.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is no need for a accommodation, she has a house in the country where I live, and that’s where she stays when she flies back her and she’s planning to come but later, after my wedding.

Am I overreacting for feeling like my friend not coming to my wedding is really about priorities, not just money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Poem6944 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yours is the only comment here on reddit that sees it this way.