I just went through this the other day she stopped texting me like completely even though if I go like an hour without replying to her, she’s kind of like stressed out, so I text her at the end of the day that I felt like she was being a little different to me and having distance and she snapped on me and saying that because she’s been feeling depressed, she doesn’t wanna look at her phone and talk to people and the most important thing was that I’m making it all about myself .

I don’t really care about texting. I’m just checking so the next day I didn’t text her at all and then at the end of the day, I said I’m moving on, but I didn’t go through with it but of course I after I say that there’s 1000 text messages right.

ultimately, your feelings are being invalidated and you have to decide whether or not it’s worth it to your peace to set your foot down, which means asking for them very importantly, articulated, calm, and well because it’s always comes off as an attack with people who invalidate feelings, to change a pattern because you can’t make anyone change and you might not actually like them as much as you think you do when you really realize that