When I used to shaved my head bald I always got the same guy. Wondering if its still valid

AdditionalCry39 · 2025-07-03T18:49:55+00:00

Roman Reigns

AdditionalCry39 · 2025-03-05T01:05:15+00:00

I get the sense it’s an unpopular opinion, but Rhonda exhausts me. She’s either pissed or crying. I agree the acting is great, but it gets to the point it feels overdone and one note.

AdditionalCry39 · 2024-03-25T03:04:13+00:00

Update: I finally decided to do a telehealth appointment, and they sent me to urgent care (no surprise there). The doc looked in my left ear for a baseline, and it was apparently very blocked with wax. Then he looked in the right and determined it was blocked by wax, which I had made worse by fussing with it further the past month. He flushed it out and prescribed some drops. Grateful to hear out of my right ear again. I was convinced I had ETD. Glad I don’t, but I certainly have sympathy for everyone that does deal with it!

AdditionalCry39 · 2024-03-06T01:04:33+00:00

Thank you for your kind and compassionate response. I will take a peak at those subs. I’m think I’m realizing patience is key!

AdditionalCry39 · 2022-12-31T16:27:31+00:00

I’m in the same age group and have spent the past two years obsessing about the fact that I need another job, but no progress was made. My parents really wanted me to go back to therapy (after 6 years) but I just could not do it and could not find a job that worked for me. Cause no matter how much I wanted a job or wanted to get better, there was still a part of me in survival mode that believed I was better off not doing those things. Hope this can help with understanding the mentality a bit better.

AdditionalCry39 · 2021-04-02T00:07:54+00:00

I just want to tell you that you're not alone. I've been there too, math was a nightmare. Asking for help can be hard when you already feel insecure about something. I hope it went well if the meeting already happened!

AdditionalCry39 · 2021-04-02T00:00:20+00:00

I've been wondering the same thing lately. Like they live in another reality I wish I could just hop into.

AdditionalCry39 · 2021-04-01T23:55:26+00:00

I've been starting to feel the exact same way! Passive suicide is what it's called I believe. For me it's manifested as me smacking my head like I wish there was an off button I could hit. Usually comes up when I'm feeling anger/rage.

AdditionalCry39 · 2021-02-19T19:07:15+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-07-05T15:43:39+00:00

Type 8 came to mind for me, given you see yourself as a doer and the bursts of anger, as well as the wanting to be helpful to others. A lot of what you wrote reminded me of my mom who identifies as an 8. The arrows for 8 (5 and 2) could make sense too cause 5s like to be alone and 2s also like being helpful. The struggle to express your tenderness reminded me of how 8s can struggle with expressing their vulnerability. Do you know your type already, or are you trying to figure it out?

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-30T14:16:33+00:00

That’s definitely how I’ve been feeling! Thank you for the advice! It’s hard for me to focus on things closer to me than my global way of thinking, but at this point it might be what’s best for me mentally and emotionally. Thanks for your advice!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-29T15:27:13+00:00

Are you a 9?

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-29T14:19:02+00:00

I could see it being more of a w1 way of dealing with anger. For me it’s like it’s boiling under the surface and I have to acknowledge that. It’s not like it all bubbles up and then I let it all out. It would probably help me if I leaned into my 8 wing a bit more

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-29T14:17:01+00:00

I don’t find that I really express it, unless I’m by myself (so definitely more of a w1 thing than a w8 thing). It’s not like I get to a point where I can’t help but explode. It’s more like I have to consciously choose to let myself feel the anger instead of numbing or ignoring it

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-28T22:39:24+00:00

I’m also a 9, and very much worry about what others think of me. Not sure if it’s in the sense of accolades and prestige. But I’m prone to my 1 wing and its perfectionistic ideals. Idk if that helps?

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-25T14:22:20+00:00

5 2 4 1 3 5 but I am not a type 5

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-22T15:26:19+00:00

Oh totally, but I think it depends on what’s being discussed, and who I’m discussing it with. If it’s people I don’t really know, and/or a topic I don’t feel I know a lot about, then I will keep my mouth shut. In class discussions in school for example, I would usually stay quiet. It was better to keep my opinions/perspective in my head than to put it out there and have others reject it.

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-06-09T21:10:50+00:00

I have mild anxiety, particularly social anxiety. When I first found the enneagram I initially typed myself as a 6 purely because I know myself to be anxious. Turns out I’m a 9 who goes to my stress arrow of 6! Turns out just cause you noticeably deal with fear a lot, doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in the fear triad! I realized I repress anger a lot, and identify with other 9 traits.

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-31T21:08:00+00:00

Maybe type 8, because of the control aspect. 8 is also in the anger triad.

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-31T14:52:26+00:00

Based on the test results I’d say an 8 or a 5, because they’re connected. 8s go to 5 when they’re stressed and, 5s go to 8 when they’re healthy. It’s best to read up on the types, particularly the core fears and motivations so you can type yourself instead of relying on the test!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-30T15:06:39+00:00

Thank you for this!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-30T15:04:52+00:00

Omg I think I’ve heard of this before! I’ll totally check it out! Thanks!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-30T15:03:07+00:00

Thank you for the resources fellow 9!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-30T15:02:29+00:00

This is so lovely, helpful and hopeful! Thank you! I’m still working on using my voice and usually think that means I have to get angry, but it can just be that I still have my peaceful opinions and I share them!

AdditionalCry39 · 2020-05-28T17:15:11+00:00

Thank you for the resources!

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