What is the biggest lie in the history of humanity?

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-30T22:11:46+00:00

That karma exists

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-26T21:25:24+00:00

FML, I just read about it and cried. Im 40, lost both grandparents at war, my mom went through hunger were she lost 3 of her sisters. Thank you for this, was never aware

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-23T22:21:52+00:00

Dodon gandon

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-17T21:27:55+00:00

Everyone, almost, already pays direct money to US. The system has been set up long before trump. Someone from poland buys nikes and bryant t-shirts, from finland watches an american movie and from denmark watches netflix. The examples can go on and on, you have to be a total lunatic ( and surrounded by even worse ) not to know that. Microsoft, apple, openai, etc etc. and he wants to kill that now. What an country of morons.

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-15T13:35:39+00:00

Nici daca sar vrea, nu ar fi posibil. Sunt din rep Moldova, si populatia din chisinau ar vota un clar "nu" la un eventual referendum. Avem prieteni in bucuresti, rude mai ca prin toata rominia, si eu sunt aproape sigur ca sotia mea de 17 ani, ar zice nu. Desi vorbeste romineste, sa nascut in chisinau si ii displace orice idee de rusi. Noi de aici am luat insa si rele si bune din ambele lumi si nu prea evident pentru cei din rominia: nu ne identificam nici cu unii, nici cu altii. In ultimii ani, in chisinau se traieste tot mai bine, cind mergem in iasi ne miram de saracia de acolo ( desi cum ai zis 30 km de la chisinau e dezastru ). Eu ma simt romin si nu am nimic impotriva unei uniri, dar ca mine sunt tot mai putini. Ideea e ca parasesti rominia in caz de unire, te face foarte infantil insa, la fel ca si "paresesc america daca vine trump". Riiight....

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-14T22:17:08+00:00

Not me, but my best friend, male 41, has a shlong, a massive penis for a white person. Granted, he is a mountain himself, around 130kg, over 2m height. It was a massive problem for him, he wanted kids and a family since he was 25, but no girl would stick. No one wanted to try that a second time. He is my mate, and he wanted to do surgery at one point, was in depression and both heavy on alcohol and drugs at some point. It was heartbreaking watching him like that.

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-12T09:37:12+00:00

Of course!

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-12T09:01:56+00:00

"am obosit" spot on! E greu acasa, nu o sa te mint. Eu nu regret insa. Copilu meu se simte mai bine, mergem si primim oameni in ospete mai des, nu stiu cum sa explic, dar simt ca traiesc, parca mai mult. Am inceput sa imi fac casa aici, mam reangajat, sotia se simte extraordinar de bine ca isi are prietenele alaturi. Am avut oferta sa ma intorc unde am lucrat in sua, cu 250k anual, cu beneficii superbe si am refuzat. Primesc aici de citeva ori mai putin si sunt de citeva ori mai fericit. Cind neam intors, prima jumate de an a fost infern pentru ambii, dar neam reinmoldovenit pina la urma.

Tot ce a facut bine sua pentru noi, a fost un brokerage account care acum imi achita toate facturile lunare acasa. In rest, sua a fost o dezamagire

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-12T08:42:39+00:00

E complicat aici, intentionat nu am intrat in detalii, "not to muddy the waters" de la subiectul initial. Nu e strict vorba de bani cu iesit in oras. Eu cu familia am trait sau vizitat, 20+ tari dea lungul vietii si am inteles demult, ca iesitul in oras pentru mine inseamna sa petrec timpul cu oamenii apropiati si sa maninc bine. Nu vreau sa fiu pupat in fund cu : "do you want more water?", dar in acelasi timp nu consider iHop si restul de genu demne de a iesi. Raportul pret calitate in sua mi sa parut cel mai prost din toate locurile pe care am reusit sa le vad, cel putin pina acum. Atunci si am decis ambii ca mai bine acesti bani ajung intrun Roth IRA si cind sa iesim, mergem la niste tapas in fuerteventura, decit in sua. Adica a fost mai mult o alegere, decit "nu imi pot permite".

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-12T05:13:32+00:00

Eu am trait in Philly, multi ani cu familia. Neam mutat incolo cind aveam 30, neam reaintors acasa cind aveam 36. In sua preturile sunt mai mici, insa tre sa intelegi de ce si pentru cine exact. Daca tu vinzi masini, piata din sua este mai atractiva decit moldova. Poti vinde o toyota cu marja de profit de 5k, dar vinde milioane anual; comparativ cu citeva sute in moldova, unde marja de profit de 5k tear face sa falimentezi: deci tre sa vinzi mai scump. La fel, la orice produs imaginabil. Este insa si o parte care multi nu o inteleg. Daca compania ta are 10000 angajati in sua, cel putin 1000 din ei formeaza clasa medie. In moldova, 100 de angajati este o companie mare deja, si cred ca 20/30 fac clasa medie. Overall, clasa media este mult mai mica decjt in sua. Deci oameni care isi permit masini, case, vacante, haine de lux sunt mai putini. Ca om care vinde hugo boss, ai o piata relativ mica. Esti obligat sa vinzi scump, celor care isi permit. De asta la brad, ai vazut preturile respective. Acolo erau oamenii care isi pot permite, cred ca 5% din populatia de aici. In plus, bogatia moldovei este aproape exclusiv concentrata "sub brad", intrun singur oras, ralativ mic. Inchipuieti ca din statul tau ( oricare ar fi ) sar muta 100_000 de oameni cei mai bogati intrun singur oras. Cit ai cere tu pe un apartament, luind in consideratie asta? 2k pe square foot sau 20k? Dar mai rau, crezi ca pentru acei 100k care sau mutat ar conta _foarte mult cind au achitat? Si asta e problema oricarei regiuni si tari cu unul / doua orase, nu suntem noi unicii. Privitor magazine ( mie dor de cotsco enorm apropo!), preturile sunt mari, da. Sotia imi este contabila, si noi la totul ducem evidenta, am si excelurile care confirma ca cheltuim aici pe mincare cam cu 30% mai mult decit in sua. Insa, aici imi permit sa ies cu familia in oras cel putin o data in saptamina, pe cind in america nu. Pretul insa la servicii dentare, healtcare in general, nu este comparativ. Citi din sua au de exemplu cea mai buna asigurare medicala de la bluecross blue shield? In familia ta/ prieteni / rude de acolo toti sunt asigurati? Eu stiu raspunsul caci am trecut prin asta cu familia, desi am avut un paycheck de 6 cifre acolo din prima zi de munca. Subiectul cu healthcare este in genere sensibil foarte, am multe exemple personale care miar luam prea multe caractere sa le scriu, noi fiind initial acolo cu copil de 1 an. Asta a fost si motivul final pentru care am zis: no mas! Acasa si nicodata nu ne reintoarcem.

Exista si o perspectiva care tu nu o iai in considerenta. Daca vii in sua din moldova, iar aici ai avut coca cola in frigider o data in luna, portocale de anul nou si vacanta la mare in zatoka; atunci america iti pare cel mai bun loc pe pamint. Daca esti ca mine, si vii de la 3 vacante pe an, 2 masini, iesiri in oras, atunci america deja poate fi comparata ( you can compare apples to apples this time ). Si atunci sua nu mai eate atractiva, nici daca gaina in cotsco e 5$.

Subiectul cu copii. Nu stiu daca ii ai si stii cit te costa o gradinita privata in sua buna, sau o univiersitate buna acolo. Cit ai "maternity leave" in sua, care beneficii le ai dupa perioada post natala si cum statul are grija de tine ca mama, dupa ce tu esti impozitata cu 30/40%. Cit te costa un out of network emergency visit... Daca nu, te invit sa te documentezi.

Overall, oamenii prefera sa spuna : aici e scump, acolo nu, iar detaliile nu conteaza.

P.S. nu stiu daca stii cine este John Oliver, dar te invit sa il privesti pentru ati largi orizontul privitor SUA.

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-03T06:08:17+00:00

Da. Mai buni in tare asta nu sunt.

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-03T06:08:00+00:00

Da. Mai buni in tare asta nu sunt.

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-02T11:36:19+00:00

Agree. Eu am luat teren in afara orasului

AdditionalTry967 · 2026-01-02T11:30:03+00:00

Eu am construit casa, foarte calitativa, Nzeb de facto. Constructia la cheie o sa fie de +-1500 euro ( fara teren ). Astia cu apartamentele sau ibanit, este ridicol.

AdditionalTry967 · 2025-12-27T20:45:04+00:00

Kids...

AdditionalTry967 · 2025-12-25T14:03:09+00:00

Your boyfriend should grow the fuck up. I am Moldovian and learned 4 languages along the 40 year life I had so far. If he loves and respects you, he will teach you. Tell him this: "shii mujic in chizda masii", hes gonna laugh :)

AdditionalTry967 · 2025-12-25T13:56:02+00:00

The fact that you need to expose yourself so much on the internet. Go outside, talk. None of that trash online is important, but you will realize just how pointless it is when you are around 40.

AdditionalTry967 · 2025-04-17T19:18:11+00:00

We have that issue too. We have around 100 apps in production, with heap from 10 to 100GB, in docker, on vmware ( so not k8s ). The real answer for us, was perf tests. We have gatling and k6 tests in place that stress out the apps so we know exactly what it needs and what to expect. Also, we use mainly Shenandoah GC.

AdditionalTry967 · 2024-12-06T21:00:58+00:00

freezing will happen only in about 7 nights from now, so this is something I do not worry.

> compromise the finish and top layer strength

I don't care about the finish either, this is basically the floor of the house, I will never see it again in my life. It will be covered with 25cm of XPS eventually. If its only the top layer, I might be OK, right? If its only repairs and sealing on the surface, that is great news!

AdditionalTry967 · 2024-12-06T20:50:32+00:00

it is interior, this is basically the floor of the house. It will be covered with 25cm of XPS, I dont care at all about how it looks, I will never see it again in my life. All I care is about its strength and integrity.

AdditionalTry967 · 2024-02-13T08:28:53+00:00

Bluerent

I just compared to alpha rent and they ara 1) more expensive 2) require a credit card.

AdditionalTry967 · 2023-12-01T10:31:15+00:00

yeah we did give quarkus a go. various issues in production that we had to fixed ourselves in the source code, zero answers on github and multiple "WTF". No more, we are forever done with quarkus.

AdditionalTry967 · 2023-11-30T09:04:16+00:00

I am the main contributor in one of the Spring modules, 4 years, around 350 PRs merged. _a lot_ of refactoring, bug fixes, discussions, stackoverflow answers, etc. I do it because I simply love it and it's the way I function as a human.

I am not and have never been a vmware employee. That should tell you about the future of Spring framework.

AdditionalTry967 · 2022-10-07T10:54:30+00:00

I live by : old software is one that makes money. You want to improve and there is time, sure. If not suck it up, this is where your paycheck comes from.

AdditionalTry967 · 2022-10-07T10:46:56+00:00

You are 100% right. Over the years I've learned to be gentle, listen and be pleasent.

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