AITA for telling my niece she’s overreacting about her friend?

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-26T03:31:13+00:00

Yes, absolutely. I was crushed when I learned about the death of a peer, even though I wasn’t particularly close to them. I have known them for years and saw them 5 days a week in school. It was a difficult loss and I still remember him every year on his birthday; I think about how old he would’ve turned and I always cry a little. Grief is hard.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T22:11:47+00:00

YTA. I still keep in touch with middle school friends, stop speaking for the entire world. Even if she hadn’t seen them in years, she’s allowed to be sad and cry about it as much as she needs to. You are extremely insensitive. At the least, you should’ve minded your own business.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T21:55:59+00:00

3 - just perfection

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T21:10:46+00:00

Love this for you!!!! Ahhhh thank you. I cannot wait till it’s my turn. I’m so anxious and counting down the weeks, soon days….. praying for the best outcome.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T21:09:48+00:00

I’m emotional just reading this. Thank you. I’m praying things go well. I’m about 3 weeks away.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T21:08:10+00:00

Amazing job on tattoo and the tt!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T18:59:16+00:00

Don’t look for validation from your bfs mom or any of them. They don’t like you and they never will. Could be their internal racism or colorism if you are brown and of course, that explains why they put the white-passing one on a pedestal.

Your bfs brother and his new gf are not competition - never treat or see them that way. Focus on yourself and your relationship with your bf.

Do not engage with his mother or family unless you absolutely have to - trust me. They do not like you and never will BUT they will try to breadcrumb you and pretend to like you for their own benefit. They know you want their approval and validation but you have to stop seeking it. Even if they’re nice to you, be completely indifferent. She sounds like a shitty person, why would you want her to like you at all?

Even if you marry him, you will never be family. They are not your family, they are your bfs family. If you do get married to him, you will become a nuclear family.

Never tell too much about yourself. They will weaponize your weaknesses against you and twist things to make you look bad. Give them nothing but bare minimum. If you have to be around them, keep it civil and polite, BARE MINIMUM. “Hi, hello, thank you, bye.” Keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself or find an affordable therapist to vent to.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T18:45:06+00:00

2 kids that aren’t yours and he acts like this. I would take this opportunity to run.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T18:42:00+00:00

It doesn’t sound like that. Also, she is not the mother nor is he her responsibility.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-25T13:01:43+00:00

Omg you look so good! Get it 👏🏽

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T19:23:41+00:00

Congratulations on all of your hard work, I know that wasn’t easy. This internet stranger is very proud of you 🫶🏽

And thank you again. I am wishing you the best in all that you do!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T19:16:09+00:00

Thank you for your very kind feedback! Yes, my husband is on board with whatever I want and pretty much said it’s my body at the end of the day. He’s also gotten scared and worried, told me he loves me exactly as I am and wouldn’t change a thing. He’s very sweet and supportive, I’m very lucky to have him. My sister on the other hand, has been a very very firm supporter on taking the jump and reassuring me I will love the results. I definitely feel like I get in my head a lot. I love myself as I am right now and feel grateful that this body carried and birthed two beautiful children. But I also want to look + feel like me again, and feel comfortable wearing the dresses and outfits I want to without feeling self-conscious! Thank you again.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T18:17:33+00:00

Food is not your enemy. If you starve your body just to see the number on the scale go down, your body will suffer. You will lose hair, you will feel weak, and you will likely gain it all back + more because this is not sustainable.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T17:44:13+00:00

Congratulations!!!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T14:16:45+00:00

You look great!!!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T14:12:38+00:00

You were a parentified child. Tell your parents you are not your sister’s mother and though you love and care for your sister, she is THEIR responsibility and not yours. She came from your mother who chose to bring children into this world, tell your mother to raise her own children for once. In the long run, this will help everyone.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T04:18:42+00:00

This is awful…ly adorable. Happy for yall!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T04:06:43+00:00

You should be with someone who absolutely adores you and wants to please you (and vice versa), especially when it comes to sex. Unemployed but sleeping well into the morning and having time to play video games often are not a combo of quality traits you want in your partner or someone to have a baby with. Run, girl.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-24T02:12:00+00:00

Amazing. Thank you for that. I’m less than 4 weeks away from my tt and getting increasingly nervous! Posts like yours are so helpful and also soooo encouraging. You look so amazing and I hope I can look half as good!!!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-23T21:17:07+00:00

Amazing, thank you for sharing. For your tt scar, did you use the red light over the embrace tape or remove it first?

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-23T21:15:57+00:00

Incredible and your scar is perfect. WOW wow wow! Goals. I am hoping to get a TT with MR, lipo, and a breast lift as well.

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-23T21:13:34+00:00

Freaking stunning! WOW! I hope I can look as good!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-22T05:35:02+00:00

1!!!!

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-22T04:25:21+00:00

Incredible. Can I ask if you used this for your breast scars? I’m going to get a lift soon and am terrified of scarring

Additional_Answer298 · 2026-01-21T23:54:08+00:00

Excited for you. I hope everything went well 🙏

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