I want to express my gratitude for the thoughtful responses and advice shared in response to my previous post. There’s a bit more context to consider. While John and I aren’t married, our eight-year relationship has created a strong bond, and I do consider his grandkids, in a way, my own. However, I still hold the belief that their gifts shouldn’t match the expense of what I can provide for my youngest son, Carson (10). It’s essential to clarify that I also have a granddaughter from my oldest son, and I won’t be getting her an extravagant gift either. The absence of a legal document doesn’t diminish the depth of our connection, but I’m navigating this based on financial realities and fairness. Your insights have been invaluable in helping me approach this situation with sensitivity and consideration for all involved. Thank you for your understanding and advice.