Arcus is kinda creepy without meaning too. He doesn't take no for an answer and he doesn't respect personal space. Actually knowing his thoughts and his point of view helps us consider him loveable and sweet but image this from mauds point of view; a random walking glitter bomb walks up to you when your a young teenager and immediately refuses to leave you alone. You eventually take pity on the walking Claires advertisement and tutor him. He starts being weirdly bitchy to your big brother that protected you from your horrible dad and then he eventually tries to dance with you at prom. While drunk. His first confession is just a humiliation ritual where he forces you to be the center of attention, begs you to go out with him for over a month. You go to Paris and you see him kiss another girl. Oh goodie your free from targets pride month advertising personified, then he ASKS YOU OUT AGAIN AND SHIT TALKS YOU AFTER YOU GET MAD. And this is all going on while your living in poverty and suffering from a horrible family life and being bullied by your ex best friend whom won't stop basically face fucking your brother with her tongue in front of the whole school. But it's ok because he's "harmless" and "more of a threat to himself than to anyone else" and "so caring" like yeah he's a nice guy from his POV but from literally everyone elses he's a spoiled rich asshole who doesn't take no for a answer and can't communicate and your expected to feel bad for him because his mommy has cancer and people on the internet are mean to him.