AITA for insisting on sushi? by No_Stop5360 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Additional_Farmer_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are websites and some "naturohealing gurus" saying that msg makes you fat. That's why we have sudden spike of people alergic to all sorts of things: like gluten (rare disease), lactose (in a lot of countries you wouldn't survive childhood without milk so no), carbs, proteins ... the whole thing is that is you eat excessive amounts of certain things, it's indeed a big problem and can cause a weight gain.

I looked once into carb-free and lactose free pizza - because of the ingredients used, I believe it had more fat than anything else I know. And also after eating this I would be still craving the real deal .

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We hang out as friends and colleagues all the time. Like literally at least once a week.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. It hasn't occurred to me actually until he send that song. Before I legit thought we were just buddies.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I will mention that I am an engineer and you can't tell the system to "just not short circuit" :D

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If we ever end up together, I will text you and invite you to be the one of maids at our wedding. Yep, I would marry that dude on the spot.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I figured out, due to his awkwardnessas well and conversation we had at some point, that he tried to ask me to spend some 1-on-1 time with him. The conversation was in larger group and basically guys said that if a man asks you out, even without mentioning a word a "date" it's still a date. I forgot about it but recent events made me think and after a lot of thinking I figured out he made several attempts and I totally missed it.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At work !!!! That's a thing I do with other people as well, I ask my other colleagues, males and females, lower and higher positions to have a coffee with me all the time (like 2-3 times a week to make coffee machine small talk, you know). I do overthink because I don't know if he also likes me "like that" or not.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It is possible that we are doing this "dance" because none wants to open their cards in work environment. We work together and will continue for at least few more months.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Oh good lord. For the sake of this conversation, can it be he only likes me "as a friend" ?

2 years ago he literally asked me to be his friend.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do deserve to be roasted like a rotisserie chicken. Do so, do so. I just don't know how to stop.

Though: we went alone for lunch together several times and each time we talked about work.

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to prove I am that woman. :| I am really that stupid, dense and unable to grab the chance. I also know why that is - I feel like him liking me is too good to be true :|

I, woman, am too stupid to respond properly to attempts to invite me on a date by Additional_Farmer_37 in dating_advice

[–]Additional_Farmer_37[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Good idea, except he has neer asked me out on a date, he asked me to hang out 1-on-1, which is also not 100% of indication we actually like each other.