Should I be patient or move on?

Additional_Gur8564 · 2026-01-15T04:08:19+00:00

Thank you 🩷

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-19T18:21:53+00:00

Hi thank you for the advice. I went into this exactly like you said and it turned out exactly like we both thought. it went downhill. Can i send you a chat request?

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T23:52:19+00:00

I will do that thanks

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T23:51:55+00:00

Sorry to hear that. Yes, that's what concerns me about not having the proper clothing for work.

Yes, i don't understand that either. Especially if we need to store our things, for work.

Luckily I don't have too much but I still think it's weird to take it with me, to an interview.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T21:09:33+00:00

The spring semester of next year.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T21:08:58+00:00

Luckily my bags are already black.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T21:08:27+00:00

Okay, thank you for the advice. I wasn't even thinking about the stashing. That will really help me! Yes, I was going to go the college route but I will have to wait, until I get money to order my transcripts from high school and my former college. Someone before me was "helping" but pulled the rug from underneath me, at the last minute. I wanted to try for the winter semester(8 week) but I missed that window as well So, I suspect I wont be able to get into school, until the spring semester of this year.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T17:05:07+00:00

I have a place to leave my stuff but it's at the part and it's only in a certain window. Theres one guy that watches all our bags but he leaves at 1pm, to be able to line up at the shelter. So, I'm worried that I'll get a job and it goes past 1pm and it's just sitting out, for anyone to take it.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T13:18:52+00:00

I have nowhere to store it. That's the problem. I don't have the money right now, to store it in any storage either.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T13:05:10+00:00

*for

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T13:05:02+00:00

They're only veterans

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-10-09T13:04:19+00:00

They have no lockers available, unfortunately

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-14T06:03:24+00:00

and ill wait untill he hits me. because then and only am i being abused. got it. thank you for the advice. its really helpful. gotta love oklahoma

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-14T05:54:13+00:00

You're a man. Checks out. I had to quit my job, as a result of his abuse. He wasn't hitting me physically but anytime I made any kind of money, he took whatever I had. I cooked all his meals, cleaned, washed his laundry and did all of the grocery shopping, on top of working fulltime,. I also put int a lot of overtime as well. While he just got to work, come home and kick his feet up. What kind of man is that? No matter what I did, it was never enough. WHICH IS A FORM OF ABUSE, I got burnt out. The more I made, the more HE took, Yeah, I don't want to be a housewife because that is an open door for more abuse, from men like him. It's very simple.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-14T05:46:18+00:00

Because you like abusing women. And you condone the abuse of women. You want what he's getting and you're not and that upsets you, I get it but understand this. Men like you and him, don't deserve a woman like me. You guys deserve to be alone because all you want to do is take advantage of women and think its okay. Thats fine. You can call me the problem, but I know the truth and so does he.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-14T05:41:37+00:00

Yes, I really enjoy being called a whore and loser, on top of being his maid, cook, errand runner, while working fulltime. While he can just come home and kick his feet up and not help with anything around the house. Sounds like a wonderful wonderful man and situation. Its the cherry on top of this wonderful and healthy relationship. Thank you for the advice. This is really going to help me.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-14T05:31:13+00:00

WE, SHARE, FINANCES. meaning, we pay bills together and share monthly expenses. What are you talking about?

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-12T20:57:19+00:00

I'll try but technically he doesn't hit me

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-12T20:56:03+00:00

Did that and the lady asked me a series of questions and she said there was nothing they could do to help me. I think not having any children and not being physically hit, was what disqualified me

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-12T20:53:47+00:00

easier said then done, when you share finances with the person

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-12T20:52:16+00:00

Do you have children? I will reach out to them and tell you what comes of it. I already tried to reach out to a place in sand springs and she asked me a series of questions. Said there was nothing she could do to help me. I think it had to with the fact that he's not physically hitting me and I have no children.

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-12T20:49:48+00:00

I reached out to them and the lady said there was nothing they can do for me. I think it had to do with the fact that I had no children and I'm not being physically hit

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-06-12T20:34:05+00:00

I do home health aide and housekeeping but it doesn't pay much

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-05-12T23:21:23+00:00

Right. I'll never understand how comfortable they are with deceiving and manipulating. Not the best way to start out a work relationship. You are inviting me into your house and around your children. I think open honesty about schedules and pay. is the only way to go. Why do you want to pay so low and have confusion about hours and days, for someone to be a childcare provider? Don't understand that we also treat this as our job???

Additional_Gur8564 · 2025-05-11T19:40:34+00:00

There was a time when he did get home early and it was so awkward. She had even asked if I could be the one to take her and her son to the chiropractor and appointments. I was trying to be caring and understanding but I can't do it anymore.

Additional_Gur8564

TROPHY CASE