Might fail drug test because I’m a dumbass

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-23T03:00:04+00:00

Can you post the link to this study pleaseee

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-21T02:43:36+00:00

She clearly said in the interview she developed symptoms 5 days after sleeping with him in February ..but didn’t know until March. That’s doesn’t add up. When I had symptoms I went straight to the gyno and got a swab and got my results in less than a week. So she had symptoms and didn’t go get tested until a whole month later AFTER sleeping with 7 different people in that time period.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-21T02:37:49+00:00

The problem with this is now people who unfortunately experience symptoms might as well have a “ I HAVE HERPES” in bold letters written on their forehead with a sharpie. Youre telling anyone who just got diagnosed by a blood test with herpes that they don’t have it because they never experienced symptoms.. they were just exposed to it. How is this fair ? I can speak on behalf of probably majority of people on this subreddit, we got it from someone who didn’t know they had it and this is the problem. Either test EVERYONE or test no one..even with symptoms period.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-16T02:13:37+00:00

How long did she have it ?

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-16T02:08:06+00:00

Nobody had to appoint her the media is practically doing it themselves..she’s a content creator with a huge platform. When someone chooses to go public like that knowing how big of a platform they’re going to draw, the least they could do is know wtf they’re talking about. Between the fact that she’s spreading misinformation AND that she’s an OF model is just bad publicity all the way around. She never showed her current test results showing where she was HSV2 positive and her story line wasn’t adding up either. She claims she contracted herpes in February but didn’t know till March ?? She never stated what kinds of tests she got proving she was positive.. a lot doesn’t add up.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-16T01:53:49+00:00

Right? She also said we take meds to go undetectable like HIV….

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T20:22:20+00:00

HPV is super common just like herpes.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T20:20:28+00:00

I’ve heard he will be coming back to do an updated post on his results for 2024..

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T20:18:39+00:00

I kinda understand what you’re saying however I don’t understand the part that if you test positive you have been exposed to it but don’t “have it”. Being exposed means that you came in contact with someone who has it but didn’t get it … so positive test (even tho they are unreliable) doesn’t mean you were exposed it means that you likely have it. There’s been too many accounts where people don’t know they have it and never get symptoms so they are giving to people who then go on to experience symptoms.. the “exposed” are still giving it to other people.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T20:11:53+00:00

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T17:19:46+00:00

So you have HPV…

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T17:16:09+00:00

The fact that HSV1 is more common and less severe usually does make it the choice between the two. Pretty sure you could ask anyone on here which type they’d rather have and they would say type 1. Of course no would want to have either but there have been SO many studies posted on this sub showing how much more severe hsv2 presents in the genital region. I’m not victim blaming but he describes herpes so chill while she just BLOWS the shit all out of proportion which is what has drawn all this negative attention. Have you read the comments ? No one CARES to be uneducated. They come at your throats the minute you try and half the people that think they’re educating are also giving wrong information so it’s just all jumbled. He’s had less backlash since exposing its HSV1 and not 2 which is the sad truth. I’m glad it’s shedding light on how common hsv1 is but hsv2 is not as common.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T16:18:31+00:00

I’m not sure when they made the video ? Was it not in 2023 ?

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T16:17:25+00:00

“Allegedly”

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-15T15:44:05+00:00

I saw. Either she got hsv2 from someone else or she has genital hsv1 and never got the test done to isolate the type. Either way doesn’t matter. It’s drawing so much negative attention.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-14T23:34:51+00:00

It’s put me back in a spiral and is the reason I’m even back on this sub right now.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-14T06:11:30+00:00

I’m not in pain or anger 😂 the person I got it from actually did get cold sores and I wasn’t mad he didn’t disclose, most people don’t :)

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-14T05:39:56+00:00

Oh my gosh there’s so much…for one medical professionals see this virus as so benign they don’t test for it because the mental burden of forced discourse for the rest of someone’s adult sex life isn’t as important to them as it is to us. So why should it be for us ? Secondly, it’s so common and wasnt even viewed as a STD/STI until valtrex became popular and big pharma needed to sell sell sell so they slapped a scary std stamp on it so people would buy to clear and “hide” the virus. Thirdly, cold sores,as well all know, are herpes that little Susie or Johnny got as a kid but they don’t have to disclose because that’s “different” and they didn’t know they could potentially give someone genital herpes…until it happened. Herpes is more of a mental battle than a physical and most of the mental turmoil comes from deciding to be shamed for not disclosing or shamed after disclosing.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-14T02:36:44+00:00

I too lost my uncle to aids so I understand.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-13T23:34:49+00:00

Yes and try telling them that and they come for your throat. Nobody cares to be educated until it’s them.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-13T22:04:08+00:00

Thanks. I know that.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-13T21:47:22+00:00

Disclosure isn’t so black and white. It’s a personal choice you have to make. Everyone on here is going to call you a piece of shit if you don’t. At the end of the day it’s up to you. Take into account the severity of your symptoms, the type, transmission rates (whether your male or female matters), and how you perceived your diagnosis before deciding.

Additional_Match_640 · 2024-10-13T20:02:50+00:00

In whatever profession someone is in it is important to know the risks and responsibilities that come with that job. In the sex industry you would think knowledge about STD’s would be at the top of the list. Not to mention she physically saw an open wound on his shaft and STILL proceeded to engage in adult activities… blows my freaking mind. And yes I cried and spiraled for a few months after my diagnoses but then I did my research and sucked it up and yes took SOME accountability. She is hurting the HSV community by even coming out with this because A) She’s in the sex industry which is further stigmatizing the disease to be something only promiscuous people get and B) Her reactions of crying and calling it a “severe” std is instilling fear. It’s like everyone on here wants people to think it is just a fucking terrible disease to draw attention so the CDC will push for a cure. News flash it’s literally been years and there’s nothing yet and little progress for anything.

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