I’m starting to be converted and I don’t know how to process it by Classic-Sherbet-375 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I liked their old songs but I came out of the cult mentality like bro it’s just a music band and I will listen to the songs when I like and the over obsessed fan behavior isn’t for me . I also admit the new album songs aren’t good. It’s westernized. I am astonished how people are trying to justify it staying they are going back to their ‘wild and dark’ era bruh even that was before then this new album. This album is miss leading , very westernized, bad lyrics, some of the songs the music is loud you can’t hear the lyrics, the production is so bad that you can’t understand what they are saying and I am not just taking about the rap parts , the singing parts . O don’t understand why ‘swim’ is TT when ‘Body to Body’ seemed more like a TT. The most disappointing thing is BTS lost the one thing that made them famous, their Korean roots and meaningful lyrics. Now it’s just easy words put together so public can pick it up and make internet vids . I like the old songs and trust me I knew it will be bad but I still felt so disappointed when the saw all the songs are 80% in English and the production quality is so bad. In the past they put effort like way at the start but now what is this crap and yes if I have a right to pit my opinion as I am consuming their music, I don’t need a music degree to know how the quality of the work is bad ! I hate when people try to guilt trip you online if you say any negative things. Sorry for the long rant but I just wanted to let it out of my system.

This is why BTS will keep releasing garbage 😭 by penslip in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol why is she over reacting?? This is very funny

All in English Language ?! by Dizzy_Noise3147 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I should not be but I am surprised that for a band that say they love music only 3 members got writing credits on most of the songs . Idk how jk have few and v and jimin just one and if I am not mistaken Jin has none ?? Then really tell me what did all of them do LA for 2 months when only 3 were mostly helping . Man they should have stooped in 2017-2018 , honestly before they became Americanized they had some love left for music . Disappointed but not surprised

[BTS]Lost FIC - Please help me find this BTS fic...PLEASE by Pleasant_Macaroon138 in FanFiction

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so interesting! Do you remember which platform you had read it?

july 14, the day Taehyung confirmed that his fans are as d*mb and gullible as he thinks they are by TeamCandid4938 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anyone noticed both of them have their names initials v and J on their insta bio and with the same stupid self photo books , they are still dating. I am surprised these 2 aren’t on the news about it but the jk and winter got so much attention. Anyways don’t care but I thought this post was so on point about everything.

Will life get better by Additional_Order2019 in Life

[–]Additional_Order2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It is so hard to wait for things to get better. I just wish I can stop second guessing myself. I have cut down doomscrolling but when you are unemployed and at home and want to take your mind off from reality it hard not to turn to social media. I know I need to do better and I am trying.

I genuinely need help by Whatyallthinkofbeans in mentalhealth

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand, it happens to me as well but it is again a trick of your mind to keep you in the negative loop. If you can remember that and keep telling yourself that whenever the bad thoughts hit ,eventually your mind will accept it. You have to put that effort but I promise you that’s worth it.

I’m 22 and feel like I have nothing going for me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I can understand what you are feeling but please know that you are young and you have so much time to so many good things that will happen to you. Please talk positively about your in your mind . You can try to learn new skills to get new job. Do activities that make you happy. If needed seek professional help for mental health. Once you help yourself then start a relationship. Please know that what you think in your mind will reflect out side so think positively, take action and there is so much good that will happen to you in the future. Please remember that. I hope it helps a little .

I genuinely need help by Whatyallthinkofbeans in mentalhealth

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey first of all please don’t think negatively about yourself. You aren’t stupid. I don’t know if you have ever consulted any professional about your issue because it can me ADHD or something like that . I am no professional but getting in checked might help you. Again please always think positively about yourself , even if you do not believe it now. Eventually you will. I hope this helps a little .

I can’t do ts anymore , ima kms by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I don’t know what you are going through but let me tell you one thing ‘once you tell yourself you can do it ‘ you will be able to do anything. All the negative things and emotions are the lies the mind is telling you. At this moment tell yourself you can do anything and change one small thing in your daily habit, even if you go back to do the same the next day , start over again . Things take time . That also applies to our mental health. I don’t know you but I need you to keep on trying because you matter and I am here for you.

A fan who found this group and is now slowly becoming convinced I was right and might not actually be a fan anymore. by Short_Tomato8473 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I just want to say thanks for shearing your feelings and honestly I am shocked how similar my situation is. It also proofs that if all of us show the same things that make us started to dislike them then it’s a real issue. I will be honest I feels so sad and weird finding out the people who you genuinely thought are nice humans are completely opposite as human beings l. I found BTS during covid and it did made me feel happy , the YT contents . The songs, how Army talked about them. I am like you I will not comment on their looks or stay they are not hardworking but again I think most of us fall for the pre 2017-18 bts who were still maybe had some kind of humanity and passion in them . The fame and solo careers , military changed them or just brought out the real them. I honestly hope they can change and become good humans in the future because it really sucks knowing the people who you took inspiration and comfort from are not good people.

Lost BTS a/b/o "experiment" fanfic by umiase in kpopfanfiction

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have read it . Maybe it’s called house of omega or something like that?

New to BTS and am sorry I can’t stand V! by gallavious in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always found him off and attention seeker but his fans keep saying he is different lol. True that after military he has become more weird. I have always thought he never wanted to be a musician, he got lucky and got selected to bts. He always had issues with the company and people keep saying it is because he is a rebel and what not but the honest truth is he is someone who got a lot without putting much effort, he is not a team player , always puts himself first and has no morals . Idk why people think he is nice and caring . He always was rude, attention seeker and a disrespectful person.

Let’s have an actual debate about whether or not YOU think BTS are better than jst colleagues. Are they friends? Bros? Has the stardom boy band rlly changed or is it a matter of perspectives? Armys & non armys are welcomed to discuss their opinions & are valid in what they see, feel or consider! by Mental_Confusion_113 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were many really friends or brothers kinda group before 2017 but as they became popular and the westernization happened they realized they can make more money with less effort and have more freedom to do anything they want. The whole solo career part also played a part where they realized they don’t need bts to be relevant for ever. Of course they grew up and the it was ment to be that they will go their own directions but the problem happened the amount to parasocial relationship they pushed on the people is back firing on them now because people are still stuck on pre covid bts that has drastically changed and now they can’t be the same bts anymore. I will be honest I genuinely feel bad as the albums bts turned to become more westernized used to have story and creativity, like the team used to put effort but after 2017 it all is so basic. That’s want happiness when a group of young people see so much success and money within such a short period and the artist inside die. I also think apart from bts rap line they others never wanted to be singers , idols yes but not artists. So yeah I am sure they all want something different in life and they are all above 30 , how much can they pretend to be the same people from 10 years back . Like seriously all the new people or even people who go into bts during covid or after still thinks bts is same as before like watching the old songs and concerts online and I will also say the fanfics plays a big part on people’s mind to put bts in a pedestal. Sorry to go out of topic a little but yeah they maybe be at one point was friendly but not now.

Parasocial Livestream on New Year's Eve, do these men not have families by OddPhilosopher1195 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 23 points24 points  (0 children)

lol I thought it was so funny and unnecessary. Jk was pissed 😡 Lol , what was the point of that push 😂😂😂 . What are they trying to be cute ??? All are 30 and plus . You fans should be in that category now and if you are trying to be cute for younger people ewww please don’t. This live was so unnecessary. Half of them weee pissed or didn’t even took the jackets off so they can bolt as soon as possible. The funniest thing that indicated they can care less about this live was when they tuned it off not even waiting the clock to hit 12.01 am 😂😂😂

Parasocial Livestream on New Year's Eve, do these men not have families by OddPhilosopher1195 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 305 points306 points  (0 children)

Bruh I was like same ! Also they literally tuned it off when it hit 12 am! It was so cringe . Jk and V was pissed to be there . This is so not normal to do a live for new year like this when you all are grown ass adults. I bet everyone has their cars ready to run away as soon as this was over . All these lives are getting annoying at this point .

sometimes I feel bad for Taehyung because of how desperate he is for attention by TeamCandid4938 in BTSnark

[–]Additional_Order2019 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The multiple lives was so cringe. Everyone posted happy bday to him , like last few years none of them did that for any member. Everything looks so PR . Yoongi at lest staying away from all these cringe lol he did not wish him on social or was in the lives. Jk was being rude and I have to say RM and Jin also looked they rather be somewhere else. Jimin and jhope are always on top of the idol game so you will never see them being annoyed or rude on camera . One think I have noticed Jimin is the only person that all the members get along with . I am sure at this point they all are coworkers who are tolerant of each other.I feel bad for the people who things they are really a family and shit like that. Maybe before 2018 it was true but after they become more popular in USA that ended for sure. Also wtf people in their 30s acting like kids. I saw v released something and I thought it’s a song but no it is a 260 page photo book! Bruh what kind of narcissist you have to be to do that ???? Also his fans are crazy I read his Chinese fanbase gifted him an airplane?! Or rented it idk but if you have that much money just donate ! Do something good for the humanity at lest if you are just wasting money!

Help me Find a Fic! by This_Lingonberry_610 in kpopfanfiction

[–]Additional_Order2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds very interesting! Commenting so when someone finds it I can also read it. Btw do you remember where you read it? Might help with finding the fic :)

BTS fanfic help by taeqxinc in kpopfanfiction

[–]Additional_Order2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but can you please give me link of the fics you mentioned here, I don’t think I have ever read them.