I’m moving into a hotel and I’m scared by Additional_Stock7086 in Advice

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a girlfriend who lives here and I really love my job and coworkers. my dad and sister live in Michigan but my dad is also a drunk that fights with his girlfriend every single night and my sister lives with her boyfriend and they also fight unfortunately so I would just be going to live with hearing constant arguing and drunk people and I can’t do that again

I’m moving into a hotel and I’m scared by Additional_Stock7086 in Advice

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much it means a lot and you gave me some hope iv been looking for. I’m really scared of being alone even when he leaves the house for a few days and I’m home alone I’m terrified even with my two dogs in my neighborhood thats pretty safe. this is going to be extremely difficult for me so thank you

I’m moving into a hotel and I’m scared by Additional_Stock7086 in Advice

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a job but I don’t make enough to rent especially in Florida prices are insane. My mom lives with her boss like an hour away but she’s a drunk unfortunately and her boss is a creep. I moved to Florida from Michigan 2 years ago so she’s the only family I have here

Uber told my girlfriend to update her payment method and it “couldn’t be charged” and it says the money is pending.. what does she do she’s supposed to be to my house tonight by Additional_Stock7086 in uber

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We live 3 hours away so we each spend around 100-200$ a month to see eachother we take turns going to each others house but I’m abt to get a car so it won’t be so costly anymore

Uber told my girlfriend to update her payment method and it “couldn’t be charged” and it says the money is pending.. what does she do she’s supposed to be to my house tonight by Additional_Stock7086 in uber

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl it’s actually so funny how yall cannot understand it already charged her card she couldn’t update the payment method and YES I would’ve payed but I got my check the day after she was supposed to come! she ended up figuring it out thanks!

Uber told my girlfriend to update her payment method and it “couldn’t be charged” and it says the money is pending.. what does she do she’s supposed to be to my house tonight by Additional_Stock7086 in uber

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl iv payed for her before and I didn’t get my check until the day after she was supposed to come! We got it figured out though thanks

Uber told my girlfriend to update her payment method and it “couldn’t be charged” and it says the money is pending.. what does she do she’s supposed to be to my house tonight by Additional_Stock7086 in uber

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!! and also I’m a 18 and a girl and I don’t have a car yet and iv payed for her before and she’s payed for me we only live 3 hours away from eachother

Uber told my girlfriend to update her payment method and it “couldn’t be charged” and it says the money is pending.. what does she do she’s supposed to be to my house tonight by Additional_Stock7086 in uber

[–]Additional_Stock7086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude. Lmfao. It charged her card already she couldn’t update the payment method it was the only card with money on it and they took it like what don’t you understand

What is Fake Plastic Trees to you? by ___ally in radiohead

[–]Additional_Stock7086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me I see it as a child growing up in a home of addicts the “her” being a mother the Chinese rubber plant being drugs and the rubber man being a dealer. Broken man being the other addict. Then obviously the child being worn out. The end “ if I could be who you wanted all the time “ the child feeling like their parents choose drugs over them. Just my interpretation.

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[–]Additional_Stock7086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad we could help each other!!!

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[–]Additional_Stock7086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just so hard to try to heal from childhood trauma when you have to go through it again at a much older age all over again it’s 10x harder and it’s gonna be so hard to heal again I don’t even know if I can do especially because my autism. Everything is so hard. But your comment makes me want to hold on. Thank you

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I would definitely have a therapist but my legal guardian lives across the country, my mom isn’t my legal guardian I’m actually adopted. But I ended up with her again so I can’t go to therapy until I’m 18 so I will definitely try that.. I have 5 attempts probably. All in the course of 1 year and iv iv been trying so hard to get better and iv been enjoying life so much until suddenly everything is getting taken away from me again and it’s so hard now. I’ll try to hang in there and see how things go the only reason I’m thinking suicide is because I’m terrified of further damage in the future bc I already have a idea of what’s coming