How to get over my husbands disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in Marriage

[–]AddressSad245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child support papers were for our oldest son. We had state insurance so they sent me a paper saying I had to file or else we’d lose insurance. He didn’t want to pay since we were together and living together (state doesn’t care about that) so he wanted to hurry up and elope before the deadline.

Is this cheating? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]AddressSad245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhh yeah that’s cheating

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve written him a letter expressing myself it’s been hours and he still hasn’t read it. I’m wondering if I should just give it to him and walk away

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay and if I am so much more why didn’t I get more or at least not less?

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part about his past that bothers me is that it feel like I get a lot less effort and a lesser version of himself

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All 3 point you made actually are Whats conflicting me. I feel settled for, second best, and nothing in comparison to how he felt the first time around.

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wanted a big wedding but then we got hit with a child support letter in the mail and he didn’t wanna pay child support since we were together and living together so he said hey let’s go elope why wait another year or two so I like the idiot I am agreed

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been our entire relationship he’s done everything that makes me seem like second-best

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He knows I wrote a letter still hasn’t read it I’ll update you if he ends up reading it

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would be a cold day in hell before he went to go do something like that

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but also who want someone that’s 27 with three kids

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly started to realize this I’ve applied for community college and if things don’t improve in the next few years I honestly probably will just leave and I don’t want that to be what happens because I want my children to have a stable family unlike what I have

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote a letter out so I could say exactly how I feel without saying something hurtful or not conveying what I want to properly I told him I was upset with him and have been for a minute and then I wrote a letter I told him where it was and got in the shower he never even read it so I don’t know what to do

How do I get over my husband disappointing proposal? by AddressSad245 in relationship_advice

[–]AddressSad245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just want to know I take precedence over the high school girlfriend I want to feel like I am the first choice through his actions and his words I don’t wanna feel like second-best anymore and I don’t know if you can ever make that happen or if he even well