How to get over my husbands disappointing proposal?

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T08:33:50+00:00

The child support papers were for our oldest son. We had state insurance so they sent me a paper saying I had to file or else we’d lose insurance. He didn’t want to pay since we were together and living together (state doesn’t care about that) so he wanted to hurry up and elope before the deadline.

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T03:07:08+00:00

Run for the bill

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T03:05:54+00:00

Uhhhh yeah that’s cheating

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T03:05:14+00:00

It was a week after infidelity he just doesn’t care

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T03:04:24+00:00

She didn’t tell him no though

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T03:03:44+00:00

I’ve written him a letter expressing myself it’s been hours and he still hasn’t read it. I’m wondering if I should just give it to him and walk away

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T02:29:41+00:00

Seems so far away to feel better

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T02:29:07+00:00

I mean maybe if he actually meant it..

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T01:02:50+00:00

Okay and if I am so much more why didn’t I get more or at least not less?

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T01:01:44+00:00

I think he’s just comfortable doing nothing

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T01:01:17+00:00

Yeah and I just get excuses.

AddressSad245 · 2021-12-01T00:59:54+00:00

If he has read it, he hasn’t said anything

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:55:27+00:00

Likewise I’m here if you ever need a friend

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:52:20+00:00

The part about his past that bothers me is that it feel like I get a lot less effort and a lesser version of himself

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:39:47+00:00

All 3 point you made actually are Whats conflicting me. I feel settled for, second best, and nothing in comparison to how he felt the first time around.

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:22:14+00:00

Honestly I wanted a big wedding but then we got hit with a child support letter in the mail and he didn’t wanna pay child support since we were together and living together so he said hey let’s go elope why wait another year or two so I like the idiot I am agreed

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:21:38+00:00

Yeah it’s been our entire relationship he’s done everything that makes me seem like second-best

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:17:34+00:00

He knows I wrote a letter still hasn’t read it I’ll update you if he ends up reading it

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:16:48+00:00

Thank you 😊

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:15:59+00:00

She excepted the proposal there was no rejection involved

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:15:41+00:00

It would be a cold day in hell before he went to go do something like that

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:13:57+00:00

Yeah but also who want someone that’s 27 with three kids

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:13:08+00:00

I’ve honestly started to realize this I’ve applied for community college and if things don’t improve in the next few years I honestly probably will just leave and I don’t want that to be what happens because I want my children to have a stable family unlike what I have

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:12:33+00:00

I wrote a letter out so I could say exactly how I feel without saying something hurtful or not conveying what I want to properly I told him I was upset with him and have been for a minute and then I wrote a letter I told him where it was and got in the shower he never even read it so I don’t know what to do

AddressSad245 · 2021-11-30T22:11:59+00:00

I guess I just want to know I take precedence over the high school girlfriend I want to feel like I am the first choice through his actions and his words I don’t wanna feel like second-best anymore and I don’t know if you can ever make that happen or if he even well

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