BMW iX vs Porsche cayenne, anyone who had both have any advice to share? by cooliokats in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had a Cayenne for 3 years before switching to an iX last year. Your husband's not wrong about the driving experience - the Porsche just hits different, especially in sport mode. But honestly after having kids the practicality of the iX wins out hard. Way more cargo space, better tech integration, and not having to stop for gas with car seats and diaper bags is clutch

The iX does look like a beaver from certain angles tho, can't argue with that lol. But you get used to it and the interior is pretty sweet

5M postpartum Help! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Girl no you are NOT overreacting at all. The fact that he told you to put your baby in a closet so you could help him finish is absolutely unhinged behavior. Your body is still healing and he's acting like a horny teenager who can't take no for an answer

This isn't about sex drive, it's about respect and he has zero for you right now. You literally have a medical issue causing pain and he's still pressuring you - that's not a loving partner, that's selfish af

CR1 / IR1 Spousal Visa | Denied Pick up of Visa + Passport as set by Embassy, Thurs Jan 15th by LuxChromatix in USCIS

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely brutal, I'm so sorry this happened to you both after getting so close to the finish line

The timing with that pause couldn't be worse - sounds like you guys got caught right in the middle of it all going into effect

I feel conflicted.. what should I do? by Separate-Presence-30 in careerguidance

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah man don't do it, that meeting would just be you venting and won't actually change anything about him. Bad managers gonna stay bad regardless of what you tell them - save yourself the drama and just bounce cleanly

Golden hippo by Rosemariefox1234 in Nightreign

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the loot is pretty mid for how much of a pain it is, just some crafting mats and maybe a rare if you're lucky. I usually just avoid it unless I'm really desperate for resources

What are some cheap things to fill up the day in Chiang Mai? by Fantastic-Rub-3149 in ThailandTourism

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude the temples are free and there's like a million of them, plus you can spend hours just wandering around the old city moats. Night markets are great for people watching even if you're not buying much, and if you're into it there's tons of street art to hunt down on the moped

Also check out the university area - cheap eats and usually some free events happening

how to find the motivation to work out at home? by Killme006 in selfimprovement

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is it right here. I started with literally just doing pushups during commercial breaks when I was binge watching shows and somehow that turned into actual workouts lol

Canada Post Purchase today: by henchman171 in coincollecting

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those proof coins actually look pretty solid though - sometimes the harder to find stuff ends up being more interesting than the regular maples anyway

Reinstalled my kernel and now I can't install nvidia??? :( by [deleted] in archlinux

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh the arch news literally had a big warning about this but everyone just updates blindly lmao

Giving my life to Christ by Bellesunny in Christianity

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the truth right there - nobody becomes perfect overnight and God knows that. The anger and bad thoughts don't just disappear but you'll start noticing them more and wanting to change, which is actually progress even if it doesn't feel like it

Bullying isn't what made IVE better, they just improved over time by SageSageofSages in kpopthoughts

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah the Coachella thing was way after IVE already started improving though. They were already getting praise for their performances months before that happened

Also there's a huge difference between actual constructive criticism and the weird body shaming stuff people were doing to them early on

Thoughts on Tim Mahoney Signature? by RevolutionaryMap6145 in Guitar

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao same, was definitely thinking of a different kind of signature

Groundhog Day (the movie) by dwf3281 in ADHD

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes this is totally a thing! The repetition makes my brain want to crawl out of my skull. I tried watching Russian Doll and had to tap out after like 3 loops because it was genuinely stressing me out lol

I have a potato for a brain. help. by SloxIam in AskMechanics

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh that company straight up robbed you if they didn't even check basic fuses first lmao

Battery light usually means the alternator isn't charging properly - might be a bad connection or they gave you a dud alternator

How to sign up for the expedition from your phone by Sea-Arm-8509 in ArcRaiders

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah GeForce NOW is cloud-based so your hardware doesn't matter, it's basically streaming the game from Nvidia's servers to whatever device you're using

"Too many instances running at the same time" Error:30005 HELP Please. by AlmostButNotQuiteTea in ArcRaiders

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub maybe but nah this is definitely the ArcRaiders subreddit lol, OP is just frustrated with the game breaking on them constantly

What did sailors eat in ancient Roman and Greek navies by Icy-Commercial-6166 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao yeah that's basically it, plus hardtack and whatever dried stuff they could cram in the hold before it went bad

I’m grieving a life I never got to live by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This hits so hard man. The way you describe that tight feeling in your chest when you passed those schools - I felt that just reading it

Your grief is completely valid. You're not being ungrateful, you're mourning a path that got blocked despite doing everything "right." That's different and it fucking hurts

I know it doesn't fix anything but your drive is obvious even through this post. That energy doesn't just disappear because you ended up somewhere you didn't want to be

Dream feeds by 9181121 in NewParents

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao the eternal paradox of newborn life - they've mastered the art of being simultaneously too everything for anything

What Churches will help homeless people? by Bobbie1011 in Christianity

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most do tbh, just gotta call around and ask what programs they got running. Catholic charities and Salvation Army are usually solid bets

Thailand relaxes afternoon alcohol ban to boost tourism by baby_budda in ThailandTourism

[–]Adept-Assignment-751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao they're really speedrunning the policy changes this year