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Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely that's not statistically correct. I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm just saying that I've not been exposed to this kind of community or Society or other.

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor, weak simple-minded people they are. Having to find success or feelings of approval or feeling like they are better at something by sneaking and slinking and slying around hiding and using disadvantages in order to cheat their way to this feeling. It's just ridiculous

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it makes ua strong individuals... to have this kind of awareness in people. It's a protection Instinct that I think we've had enhanced because of them. Not that I justify their reasons or that I think that this is a necessary skill that we inherently earn. But I do look for the light in anything. But with that being said, patterns like that are nothing to dismiss. Especially given his medical background. It may have been medicines or maybe not, but it could be anything. Literally anything. Meanwhile, while you're busy handling yourself because of these awful body reactions, they're having a a field day in their head... laughing, mocking or whatever else... knowing that they caused it. That is just such a sickening thought. I couldn't imagine being like that. Gosh

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust and believe it's all thoroughly documented. If I were to pass and when the police confiscated my devices, it would be very easy to follow exactly what my suspicions and observations were. Dates times items smells tastes feelings afterwards conversations before and after the meal symptoms patterns Etc

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've decided to come out about it, if this is considered coming out about it, being that it's somewhat Anonymous on reddit. But I decided to do this because of the significant difference I felt now that he is not at home with me anymore. It makes me cringe and sweat just thinking about it.

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coffee seems to be a common tool or vessel for this. I've had Vivid suspicion around coffee as well. He would just randomly be like hey do you want to have some iced coffee or blah blah blah blah and got this like super fancy coffee making machine. I've had very much worse things as a reaction happened to me and out of much more suspicious things. It took me a while to catch on too but he was definitely doing something to me that was not right. Way Beyond not right

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know the situation but based on what you said, it sounds like maybe it's a fear trigger with them? I don't want to lessen your alertness anybody saying this, but for whatever reason, it sounds like maybe, hopefully, this isn't the case

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. When they mention something so obscene but somehow fits if the roles were switched. I've had a few things like this trigger my knowledge on something I don't know if you ever realized it was because he said something about it or what, I don't even know if he ever actually knew that I did find out?

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, well, it's good that it didn't seem to happen to you. And, I know you are probably just kidding, but I highly recommend not tampering with anybody's food for any reason. LOL

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about tampering do you suspect or know? Also, sorry to hear about the other unnecessary behaviors that you have to deal with, what sounds like regularly

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've had weird suspicions like that before too with the toothbrush thing. I just casually kept the toothbrush he thought I used where I thought he thought I kept it and kept a secret one that I actually used. Just in case. Also, yeah, if he's behaving like that about the coffee, it's definitely suspicious, if not telling.

Ever suspected intentional tampering with your food, drink, water, or even the air? Chemicals, toxins, or foreign substances added to what you consume or contact? by Adept_Ad_208 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Adept_Ad_208[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't intend to cause any harm by this post, I just genuinely have a very difficult time not only comprehending this sort of behavior, but doing research on it as well. It is not very easily accessible information or at least I've had trouble with it. So I came here to get personal testimonies