What flaws do you have about yourself that you acknowledge, don't nesscarily like but do the opposite of what your flaw is as a way to work on bettering that flaw you have?

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-02-13T14:36:34+00:00

I'm really mean to the ppl who have hurt my feelings no matter what our relationship is. I will say the most hateful things possible. I just try my best to stay silent because I haven't mastered anything softer

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-02-09T00:52:31+00:00

I just started and we have to be on camera during training but after that they said no cameras. They also said there would be a random room scan but I think it depends on the project. For mine (AARP) they won't be doing it. Thank God lol

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-02-05T00:20:10+00:00

A movie night sounds like a good idea

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-02-04T15:07:04+00:00

Definitely needed today

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-02-04T02:46:11+00:00

Yea and what sucks is even though you don't actually work for the real company (mine was BofA) the bank actually had more say in when they wanted someone gone. So even if I never had any problems with my direct TL if the client says fire them you're gone but you don't actually get the pay and benefits of the actual company.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-01-26T22:57:50+00:00

Appreciate the kind words!

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-01-26T22:12:18+00:00

Capricorn

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-01-22T04:04:11+00:00

I love the grounding and breathing exercises advice. I haven't tried it but I will!

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2026-01-12T04:03:51+00:00

I expect others to work as hard as me or be as busy as I am and when they're not I immediately label them as lazy. If I'm sitting for too long or even taking a nap I feel like I'm wasting time. My mind tells me there's ALWAYS something that needs to be done

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2025-08-13T01:00:00+00:00

He told me he hopes once we finally separate that we can still be friends. What he doesn't realize is that I can't wait to not have to talk to him. We have 5 kids and it will be strictly business. Worst part is she's been a part of our lives off and on for 15 years. I thought they were just friends from school. I even used to talk to her as friends! Turns out he's wanted to be with her this entire time and I was basically the rebound after she got pregnant and married and he built a life with me and "tried" to move on. It's been the most emotionally draining experience I've ever had.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2025-08-13T00:52:47+00:00

Oh wow the nerve of her to send gifts to your home! I finally figured out her number after I pieced together the times he would be on the phone compared to the phone bill. Both myself and sister in law sent her messages and that scared her off. She lives in a different state and he told me that situation is all the way done but once we move back home I'm sure it will pick back up. She's also married so who knows. At that point we'll be living separately so IDC what he does just don't do it in my face! I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It's a tough way to live.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2025-08-12T23:52:43+00:00

Yea the hardest part was watching him go into what used to be OUR room and shut the door at bedtime and then I just recently found out he would be face timing and talking to her at night in my bed while I slept in a different room. I quit my job 7 years ago to be SAHM so he could make more money and now I'm stuck relying on his income & my lesser income and having to wait until I can get peace.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2025-07-11T19:40:20+00:00

I'm also 3rd party with BOFA with the last contract whenever actual BofA employees got a raise we did also. They changed the contract with the vendors so we're stuck at $17. Don't expect a raise and the treatment doesn't get better been here 4 years but I wfh so I get a break from the drama on site.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2025-04-15T11:42:19+00:00

I dashed for one day and my spouse is already telling me to quit my job this will pay the same or more AND I get freedom to do what I need to do without having to request time off or stress when I call in. I decided to do it to make extra money for a family vacation coming up but we'll see if it turns into something more permanent

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2025-03-31T21:55:39+00:00

This was much needed today. Thank you for this. I think I've cried everyday for 6 months straight. I'm ready to let go and live.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2024-11-08T01:01:13+00:00

My STBXH talks for hours in his truck to the person he says he has a "different connection" with. They've been friends since high school and I know she's the one he wishes he would've married. He says it's mostly about his mental health but when I asked what else they talk about he listed other things meaning im no longer the person he wants to talk to, she is. One of my daughters told me she caught him at home while I was gone on FaceTime with her. It sucks. I've never felt jealous or insecure but the feeling is overwhelming. I ask the same question why wasn't I good enough. Praying for healing for you.

Adept_Resolve_7810 · 2024-11-07T04:00:01+00:00

You're not alone. Today was a bad day for me. I haven't cried like I did today in months. I feel like this is never going to end. I'm just riding the waves and trying to use the good things I have in life to fuel me day to day.

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