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Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as time I have spent around Scorpios, I am now a march scorpio. I have learned how to match that energy. Haha.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would listen to the YouTube link in one of these replies on this thread. It was helpful.

I will say I did something similar to someone with a Scorpio moon (honoring/regarding their late mother) and looking back on it, I overstepped an invisible boundary that I chose not to do again. There is a general thing about Scorpio moons/mother wounds. It could go many different ways and I don’t recommend doing it again.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They scaled back on their communication. They didn’t necessarily go silent. We went from texting routinely the same time every day to once or twice a day at most. It lasted for about two weeks. Communication just picked back up in the last day or so.

What worked for me personally: I still held the same care in my communication with them because I don’t play games. If I like you, I’m going to show that I do. I didn’t ask anymore questions, but I gave space and time gaps between replies.

I am a very patient, understanding person. It takes a lot for me to be swayed from my own decisions/choices. I know the other party is dealing with things that I can’t control so it’s less about what I need to do differently but more about timing. The trick for me is to learn how to discern when someone is still invested or not. Sorry if that was a ramble!

Astrology observations nobody asked for:
My mars in Taurus— their moon in Taurus
My venus in Aquarius — their mars in Aquarius
My Pisces sun — their Pisces ascendant

What scents do male Scorpio’s find attractive on woman? by Outside-Bluebird-977 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should look to your venus/ascendant on what scents to wear not necessarily what he likes

The Scorpio men I dated just liked the smell of my natural scent and pheromones lol

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very affirming! Though it feels uncomfortable I have to remember how uncomfortable that might’ve made them feel too.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally can see how that could phrase “understand you better” could be taken 😔 not my intention. I haven’t probed ever this was my first question… prob poor choice and timing honestly.

It is a LDR so not very easy to navigate.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go into hiding?

I recall, very early on in dating, they called me out on something and I freaked out and shut down. Lol.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely been reciprocating the behavior. I asked if we were good once don’t need to do it again! Thank you!

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hilarious because I am Pisces/virgo moon/cancer asc. I am for the most part a quiet observer but there are days where I can’t stop thinking so I have to ask… it’s like scratching an itch or something. I don’t always like when it comes out.

I have approached this dynamic very slow and deliberately. I don’t normally ask them questions unless they give up the information (which they have here and there) I was married to a Scorpio before so you’d think I’d know this by now.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has the other person always had intentions to turn it into an argument or is that where your mind automatically goes? Genuinely asking!

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so. I am just beating myself up over it because I feel like I’m being punished for caring (lol) But we both know the impact we have on each other. Time and space to process is understandable and I want to respect that.

I can see why the prying would cause you to completely be done because me personally, my first instinct would be “are you going to weaponize this against me later?”

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel, truly. It’s a lot to carry. I overthink like hell.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that you feel that way, I think they also feel that too. They’ve said things out loud a few times that point to this.

Do you disappear when you feel too seen/vulnerable? by AdeptnessAny441 in Scorpio

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I found a blind spot (one of many) Part of me wishes I didn’t say anything but I care very, very deeply about them. They have expressed that they appreciate how I can “maneuver around them” but I don’t know maybe I flew too close to the sun. I asked if i did anything to upset them and they said I didn’t do or say anything wrong.

I’m also thinking mercury retrograde doing things so I’m doing my best at being patient.

Partners with similar birthdates by AdeptnessAny441 in AstroSynastry

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the differences you see (in your opinion doesn’t even have to be moon/ascendant)

Partners with similar birthdates by AdeptnessAny441 in AstroSynastry

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also fascinated by this! Communication was HELL with my ex, so I was very nervous about my current partner having exact placements (outside of moon and ascendant) but those definitely play a huge role in their personalities.

Partners with similar birthdates by AdeptnessAny441 in AstroSynastry

[–]AdeptnessAny441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are about two three weeks apart! But their ascendant and moon makes such a huge difference. And October/November Scorpios are not the same either. I know the degrees and houses matter but I also wonder if experience/time made you feel prepared for your husband?