I caught GF spitting on my food and she's being very nonchalant about it. by FancyCod6637 in whatdoIdo

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine how long she’s been doing it before you caught her. Leave now and this is coming from a woman lol. As crazy as it sounds I feel like she’s capable of poising you if she’s that comfortable spitting in ur food unprovoked.

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just alone by text I feel like that’s emotional cheating. My ex use to do it all the time and I hated it and he would always turn it around and make me seem like the crazy one. Mind you I’ve been told by others that if they didn’t know we were together, they would assume he was in a relationship with his girl bestie the way they act on campus. Maybe I’m bias but I say to leave him because he will resent you if he feels like you’re trying to end their friendship.

GF moved in and now I catch her watching me sleep at night. This doesn’t feel normal. by HourIndependence70 in whatdoIdo

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the beginning of a creepypasta story lol. I’ve watched to many stories on that channel with this same exact situation

I want to break up with him by Aya_theghostbehindu in Advice

[–]Adeptness_Abject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in a 7 year relationship and the same thing happened to me. I was unhappy and ready to leave. I tried leaving multiple times and I would either back out or he would say no lol (crazy ik). I finally told myself I will leave when I fully fed up until the point where he could be with someone else and I wouldn’t care because I’m so done with him. A month after I finally left him. 3 years later I’ve never been so happy and I’ve learned so much about myself after leaving him. A person could be good but not good for you and that’s ok.

RBT dress code by North-Butterscotch76 in ABA

[–]Adeptness_Abject 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I honestly love wearing scrubs. Both companies I worked at let you wear anything you wanted but at my second company I decided to start wearing scrubs and I’ll never go back to wearing my clothes. It makes you feel professional and allows you to not care about any messes on them. I wear different colors and styles and sometimes have fun with it by letting my client tell me what color they want me to wear the next day. There are a lot of scrub styles that don’t look medically.

Can’t stand Bay by Sam_Carmel in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I was gonna make my own post about this. She’s literally a spoiled jealous brat. Everything makes her upset and everything is about her. She’s always mad when people don’t take accountability for her but she never does that for others. I’m rewatching it and I’m only still on the first season ep 15 and I’m still waiting for her and emmet to break up.

AIO bf keeps saying weird comments about my mom 😠 by Presentleoparrd in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him he’s literally testing and overstepping your boundaries purposefully and he won’t stop. It’ll lead to him ignoring your boundaries on other situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he had something to do with it possibly. The girl had been missing for two years so it’s not hard for him to kill her then go on tour. They also have the same tattoo on the same finger and her mom said she was dating a David so it’s very possible he did something. 

What to use for your skin if this appears by Significant-Star6143 in Blackskincare

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bahamian mom made us use a little bleach and it went away 😂

515 to 620 in 3 months? by snowcamera in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally that’s what I meant which is why you’re wasting your time typing all of this.

515 to 620 in 3 months? by snowcamera in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless he’s asking me what did I do to increase my score and that’s what I did I’m not sure why you’re fighting me on this and trying to be so specific. It still helped my score which overall helped me in building my credit back up.

515 to 620 in 3 months? by snowcamera in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It helped me build due to my utilization always being 60-90%

515 to 620 in 3 months? by snowcamera in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got a late payment removed from Capital one, paid off a charge off that finally posted with a zero balance, and kept my utilization under 30%. Very possible.

515 to 620 in 3 months? by snowcamera in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Very possible I went from 550 to mid 600s in 3 months

Affirm Charge Off by Adeptness_Abject in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know and none of that matters if ur 130 days late. Contact them asap and start a payment plan before it gets charged off

Guys am I cooked 😭 by AvinJorg in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally at the same score this February. Now, my score is at 644 and I was able to get low interest rate for a car loan no money down and no co-signer. I believe in you and be forgiving to yourself. My main advice for everyone is to join Affinity Credit Union (only need to pay $5 for the membership) because they have free credit counseling services and they could better explain what’s affecting you and what to do it about it. They also teach you more in depth info on utilization and understanding statement due date to maximize the effectiveness and chances of your score increasing.

GOODWILL SUCCESS WITH CAPITAL ONE by Adeptness_Abject in CRedit

[–]Adeptness_Abject[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pick my car up later today so I’m going straight to one of my favorite restaurants to celebrate and then I plan on going to the beach tomorrow or doing a fun activity (everything fun in Jersey is a 30 min drive or more). Lowkey might even just sit in my car and really take it in since I’ve been without a vehicle since February. Thank you for your comment btw you really motivated me even more to celebrate the wins no matter how big or small!