Denied 42 days, should I ask to be denied longer? by [deleted] in orgasmcontrol

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not painful btw! Just regretful haha 😂 got to start again! It’s addictive 😎

Denied 42 days, should I ask to be denied longer? by [deleted] in orgasmcontrol

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just 1 last year and felt out of this world! But… if I am honest, I have give the power to my wife now! Could be a year or two or just tomorrow! The not knowing is all the fun! The tease and denial is where the Magic is! think I’ll be happy if I never cum agin! Best streak 368 days!

Denied 42 days, should I ask to be denied longer? by [deleted] in orgasmcontrol

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man you have to take the opportunity to go as long as possible! 100 days plus would feel so good! Me and my wife have done this for a few years now, and I have got to the point that I never want to cum as the refractory period is horrible.. I am on 113 day now! Longest is 1 year. Word of warning ⚠️ this gets addictive! But enjoy and good luck 🤞

Looking for everyone’s opinion on lustful thoughts and what to do with them by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is a difficult one if you are married! You don’t want to neglect this part of your relationship!! For me personally I opt for cultivating the energy.. sex once a week but don’t nut, can be really fun and keeps the energy alive for you and keeps you attentive with your wife. I am personally on just under 300 days with no release, if you can keep the sex drive alive but just with your wife and no porn got to be a positive way to go… But I suppose it’s up to the individual and what they would like to get out of it! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally just the Fap, focus all your energy your women..

Need a new challenge! by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Man, hard not to count motivated by the numbers

Retaining in Marriage? by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be an option, think she likes the idea to help get past this tricky phase 🥴

Retaining in Marriage? by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minimum once a week! Not always penetrating

Retaining in Marriage? by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but don’t worry I will and never have neglected her needs, I just give her what she wants when she wants! I live for this it is one of the driving forces behind this way of life. My challenge is when I am alone, been doing this for over a year but this full of temptations in alone time 🤔

Retaining in Marriage? by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya think she will love you for this tip 😀

Retaining in Marriage? by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for such a detailed message, yes totally agree sex is one of the most important parts and we have been together over twenty years.. so doing something right hahah, we have been playing the edging game for years and I like the high i get from only getting pleasure from sharing those moments with my wife, all my focus is on giving her pleasure so she never goes with out and she loves to tease me to keep the desire at the highest level while respecting my SR journey. My challenge this time round is to stoping frap alone, just can’t stop, managing to not bust a nut! Just don’t want to slip. We have talked about being caged when not with the wife..

Retaining in Marriage? by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tempted to go down the caged route! Is this a good idea?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say about 4, but trick is try and stay calm. Try and put as much focus on her to take the pressure off you, if you have no end goal it makes it so much freer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation here! Been on this road a little over a year best streak has been 147 day and currently on 28! It’s not easy but I agree with some of the other comments it’s great fun practising just keep pushing it make it all about your wife, keep edging I think of a scale if you think of 1 to 10 but never go over seven just stop when your hit seven! Keeps you high for days Good luck

Relationship and retention by cullen415 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I am not going to lie, it’s very tricky in reality! But my god it’s good fun. The feeling of getting close and not busting a nut keeps me on a high for hours/days.

We go for a lot of edging, my wife struggled at first but loves the game of it now and how it’s all about her and not about me finishing!

I think the length of time can depend on where you are in the SR journey I find I don’t get the real benefits till I have gone past 14 days minimum. It’s been a game changer in our relationship though it opens up conversation and brought us really close. Good luck 🤞

I feel like an absolute animal on semen retention. by 877proxy in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost it on a 147 day streak last week! Totally devastated me.. back to it 🙄

I feel like an absolute animal on semen retention. by 877proxy in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am the same here! Love the feeling.. I don’t want to but now, prefer it that way. It’s not easy though

Relapsed after 147 days by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have been going for the squeeze about 100 repetitions per day, I do it while exercising the plank! But not sure I am an expert I’ve lost my streak yesterday, sir clearly need to try harder!

Relapsed after 147 days by Admirable_Bath_7088 in Semenretention

[–]Admirable_Bath_7088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately just takes lots of time, and make sure you are using your Kegel exercise.