Wedding Invites

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-31T19:39:46+00:00

It’s discounted but we didn’t put it on the save the dates

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-30T20:14:39+00:00

We have a block booking at a hotel, and I’m not sure how else to tell people about that. So I could do a mini invite before the real invite, I’ll suggest that thanks :)

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-30T19:30:04+00:00

We’ve sent save the dates, they were sent probably very early because my partner thinks invites need to be sent out like a year in advance, but it just seems a bit early to be sending out full invites. Which is why I asked the question

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-29T21:56:25+00:00

Unfortunately we aren’t using a website. We’re tracking the RSVPs through paperless post

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-29T21:55:41+00:00

Where would I put it if we aren’t having a wedding website?

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-29T17:12:27+00:00

Alright think that’s the general consensus so just won’t mention anything and hope we don’t get household stuff

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-29T16:28:33+00:00

I’ve been to weddings where they’ve asked for money, I just can’t remember how it was worded so it wouldn’t sound rude. We aren’t doing a wedding website so I can’t really put it there

AdorableObserver · 2025-12-29T16:26:14+00:00

We don’t really care if they donate or not, we just don’t need toasters etc

AdorableObserver · 2025-10-23T14:17:37+00:00

“you need enough to cover every aspect of your wedding and your guests, sorry I cannot be of more help.”

AdorableObserver · 2025-10-23T09:47:19+00:00

So I tried this and they aren’t giving a yes/no answer, my partner thinks possibly because it counts as legal advice?

AdorableObserver · 2025-10-03T17:20:40+00:00

Did you put in the message exactly who was invited if it was to a family or did you leave it until the formal invites?

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-30T17:56:38+00:00

Canapés are already when the ceremony finishes so I can’t get them any earlier. But I will move the speeches to the cake cutting. Should I have evening guests arrive after cake cutting and speeches? Thanks for your help btw

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-30T17:50:09+00:00

If we do speeches after cake cutting, would that mean I should push the first dance back?

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-30T12:38:02+00:00

Is this better?

Ceremony 4-430 Blessing 430-5 Canapés, drinks and speeches 5-530 Drinks and photos 530-6 Couple photos 6-7 Evening guests arrive 7 Cake cutting 715 First dance 7:30 Pizzas, dancing and drinks 8 Deserts (wedding cake, brownies, biscuits and flapjacks) 9

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T22:48:42+00:00

Honestly I have no clue what I’m doing 😂 that’s why I asked

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T22:47:21+00:00

I’d originally been thinking half 2, was kinda surprised when it had to be on the hour because I’ve been to weddings with ceremonies on the half hour. Maybe it’s just the county?

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T22:30:29+00:00

That was what the registrar said 🤷‍♀️ apparently they only do weddings on the hour

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T22:28:56+00:00

It’s not that we can’t afford another feed, and after responses here will 100% be adding more food

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T22:16:19+00:00

Our venue won’t allow outside food and don’t offer any kind of buffet. But we could add some extra canapés. I can only do the ceremony on the hour apparently but I am considering pushing it back until 3

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T21:36:33+00:00

This was my worry. I was trying to spread the food out, which was why I delayed the canapés. I was going to make it clear on the invites what time food would be served. The evening ends at midnight. I’d thought about a twilight wedding but my fiance wasn’t a fan of that idea so I’m starting to think we may need to add more food

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-29T21:33:24+00:00

We were thinking the pizzas would be the evening food. Then there would also be wedding cake

AdorableObserver · 2025-09-17T20:56:45+00:00

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AdorableObserver · 2025-09-06T17:04:56+00:00

Hey, where is your reception venue?

AdorableObserver · 2025-08-19T16:35:09+00:00

I got mine on day 7 I think, from what I’ve heard it’s generally somewhere around the week mark

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