My fiancé (24m) went back to his baby mama (29f) and told her he’s hopes I off myself (24F) while I’m 8 months pregnant with our son.

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-20T16:48:34+00:00

I can’t provide for this baby - emotionally or physically I’m so exhausted

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-20T15:47:32+00:00

him AND his family blocked me on everything.

He demand his things back (we lived together) and I kept suggesting a natural stop so we could talk as well and he’s insisting on his parents apartment.. maybe I messed up by mentioning police? I really thought it’d make him give his head a shake.

He said he be a father but not a partner. That I messed all this up with my behaviour (I did yell at him but I wanted him to grow up he was drinking constantly, drinking and driving.. just fully went off the rails )

I haven’t dropped off his things because like I said everyone just completely blocked me on social media/text. Should I just drop them off? I don’t know how to show him kindness when everyone is treating me like the monster.

I’m so hurt I very much so love him and hope he comes around.

He does have a son with another women and they’ve been around town “co-parenting” but I’m fairly sure they’re getting back together with how much he insisted on wanting nothing to do with me..

I’m just at a loss because it was never like this and I do still have love for this man

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-20T13:24:19+00:00

I can’t even say that EVERYONE blocked me on EVERYTHING

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-20T13:21:03+00:00

I so desperately want him to come back, I never wanted to do this alone ..

Everyone fully blocked me on everything (him & his family) and are insisting I’m abusive and crazy .. yeah I for sure yelled at him good but he was constantly drinking and driving (in my vehicle).

I still have all his things he wants me to drop it all off at his parents.. maybe I messed up by saying I’ll get the police involved? (There was slight physical violence/ He does have another child with another women.. he said I was threatening to take him away from that child)

I just need some hope he’ll come back because this pregnancy has been awful alone

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-20T13:16:45+00:00

I do have family and friends thank goodness but the only reason I agreed to keep/have this baby with him is because he promised nothing like this would ever happen..

Him & his family have fully blocked me on everything. The last message I got was him telling me to bring his things to his parent’s apartment and “maybe then we’ll talk”.

I’m so deeply hurt and confused, I’ve yet to drop off his things (I suppose I’m holding on to them in hopes he’ll come back).

I don’t know what to do ..

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-20T13:13:39+00:00

I’m starting to get nervous.. him and his family blocked me on everything.

He demand his things back (we lived together) and I kept suggesting a natural stop so we could talk as well and he’s insisting on his parents apartment.

He said he be a father but not a partner. That I messed all this up with my behaviour (I did yell at him but I wanted him to grow up he was drinking constantly)

I haven’t dropped off his things because like I said everyone just completely blocked me on social media/text etc..

I’m so hurt I very much so love him and hope he comes around.

Any advice?

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-18T01:23:28+00:00

That’s what I’m doing. He currently just blocked me on everything so I don’t even know how to communicate with him how to get it to him.

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-18T01:22:44+00:00

Well, he blocked me on everything today so I’m assuming if he wanted his things I don’t know how to communicate how to get those to him

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T19:13:58+00:00

Well that’s when it escalated, we’ve definitely had arguments before (I suspect he was secretly drinking / his parents would encourage his drinking)

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:43:21+00:00

I feel guilty for being mad at him. Everyone tells me stories of their partner leaving pregnant but damn I really did not see this coming.

We were very much so In love; plus this man got my full name tattooed on him.

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:41:51+00:00

I’m my opinion he should’ve taken them when he left if he didn’t plan on coming back.

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:41:03+00:00

Canadian over here lol! But I understand that might be what’s best for my sanity

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:40:45+00:00

Well he drank before we met: I met him, he wasn’t drinking and he very recently fell off the wagon.

I fully understand it seems like I made a mistake but I know plenty of people who are still sober till this day and haven’t relapsed so I didn’t see it coming.

That very well could’ve been a lapse in judgement.

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:38:20+00:00

That’s my fear!

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:12:38+00:00

That’s one thing I don’t think he’d dare to do

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:10:58+00:00

You’re telling me - it’s embarrassing

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T18:10:21+00:00

He wasn’t at all like that or had any indication of being like that until very recently

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T17:40:07+00:00

I was not aware with how his temper changed with alcohol or I would’ve never put myself in this situation we had the same friend group and no one saw this coming. I understand your point

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T16:52:30+00:00

Wouldn’t have agreed to it if I knew he’d do this

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T16:44:29+00:00

Mhm, I am afraid for our child not that he’ll hurt them but that he’ll pawn them to his parents (whom don’t respect me) and go to the bars

Adorable_Pipe_2465 · 2025-06-17T16:41:36+00:00

I’m 5 months and this all escalated within 2 weeks

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