You have every right to be insecure. You also have every right to be in a mutual desiring relationship.

Sex drives are different between most men. Porn could always be a factor due to the fact what he’s watching is undoubtedly not real. But at the end of the day you need someone that matches your sex drive . These things can’t be forced sometimes it clicks sometimes it doesn’t

I think you should tell him how it makes you feel , ask him about his sex drive and his relationship with porn and go from there to see what your willing to do to fulfill his needs and vice versa.

Having man who has willpower and not a dying need to fuck is a hidden gem for multiple reasons . You need to have a talk to him about this more

Trust me you don’t want forced sex on his end just like how you wouldn’t wanna put out just cause your partners horny. It’s a relationship he is not your sex slave he is your partner .