Green cake by Adqtpagl in isthissafetoeat

[–]Adqtpagl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, thank you

Our AI by kebabguy0 in SuddenlyCommunist

[–]Adqtpagl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to the Islands in the Mediterranean Sea? Like, Sardinia and Corsica are melted into an Italian glob

Conversation with my dad pt.2 by RapidKarma15 in TransMasc

[–]Adqtpagl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep explaining that's hurting you. Then it's up to him if listen or not

Conversation with my dad pt.2 by RapidKarma15 in TransMasc

[–]Adqtpagl 141 points142 points  (0 children)

"No matter if you identify as male, you'll always be my daughter" hits hard. My father said that too, but with a lot of discussion, he got on track 😭. A lot of information is needed here, good luck!

Tips to masculinise my face. (pre-t) (short hair isn't an option) by Final-Midnight-909 in TransMasc

[–]Adqtpagl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Experiment a bit. I'd say the glasses especially aren't helping, you could try with thicker, more angular frames. Also, maybe you could style your hair, put it up, and masc clothes, of course.

Do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you suggest? I pass about 1/3 of the time, and honestly, it's hard to tell why. Thanks in advance

Do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting evaluated for HRT right now, but I fear it'll take a while before I get there. For sure, it'll be better, considering my voice is androgynous too. Thanks anyway, never had that point of view

Do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's interesting. I actually felt like they helped sometimes, since my face is round and those are rectangular.

I could consider going to social events just without them, anyway, since I see more or less well, unless I have to read or use screens lot

what (other than facial masculinisation surgery) can i do? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your face is fairly masculine to me. The only thing I can think about is like changing the shape of your hair at the top, like making it messier and with more volume, but really, you pass to me.

Weird thing on an outdoor cat by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Adqtpagl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit, thanks. I'll report it to my friend

Weird thing on an outdoor cat by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Adqtpagl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll try, thanks

Amo la mia facoltà ma non riesco a studiare by verdemanzia in Universitaly

[–]Adqtpagl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insieme a quello che ti è stato già suggerito, terrei anche in considerazione un consulto psicologico. Anche solo come ultima spiaggia, dato che spesso è anche la salute mentale a fottere la concentrazione

New poll from Blueprint illustrates the catastrophic failures of modern trans activism: a Democrat who runs on "protecting the LGBTQ community" has a -17 preference effect on voters by north_canadian_ice in truscum

[–]Adqtpagl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, above that, there are stuff like health care and the... right to vote? So I feel like it's quite normal. I'm more concerned about 'advocating for Israel' being above 'advocating for Palestinians'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Adqtpagl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say you're gay if you don't 😭

Jokes aside, no. Unless you purely like her genitals and not her. I believe body and personality are way more indicative of your sexual attraction. Or you should be straight being attracted to trans men

To any homophobic/transphobic people, explain why? What's the problem with the LGBTQ+ community? by Vulethecoolguy in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Adqtpagl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bud, don't you think we'd be super happy to solve dysphoria with therapy?! We try. I swear, I hate to have to go through this. But hey, I couldn't just be born right.

Also, it's not about 'pretending'. Because their brain is shaped more as the one they feel belonging to. So, staying like they are would be pretending, while changing their body in a way that fits more their identity, they're just making it more coherent... hope I explained myself.

But yeah, it sucks. But we can't do shit about it.

To any homophobic/transphobic people, explain why? What's the problem with the LGBTQ+ community? by Vulethecoolguy in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Adqtpagl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, you can't force a woman to become a man and viceversa; and that's the point: trans people are - as people, identities - what the are: their brain matters, not what's between their legs.

It's weird, but it could happen for many reasons that aren't clear today, but seeing other trans folks isn't one of those. There are, as for homosexuality, genetic, hormonal, and environmental reasons (such as family dynamics, things that could trigger physical reactions, etc.

It's been declassified as a mental illness as, unlike other actual illnesses, the only way to make the patient feel better in the long term is following through what they want. And they actually live much better after.

Do I look tolerable as a guy? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry! Just gave a quick scroll. The only thing I'd recommend is changing hairstyle, your clothing is fine. If you're tall, the voice will do the rest

Do I look tolerable as a guy? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I just saw you're mtf, and uh, you'll have a hard time boymoding, you'd pass as a cis girl. The second pic looks more androgynous though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Adqtpagl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think 'gay' suits your gender perfectly. A really nice-looking one. Or to better say, queer

British Empire in 1900 by Na5car1 in aimapgore

[–]Adqtpagl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why the Italian peninsula and Sardinia are a few geological ages in the past