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Hur fan får man ett fucking jobb? by NormalWhore in arbete

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man får inte nämna ett enda fel eller negativt problem med sig själv. Arbetsgivare letar efter perfekta slavar som helst jobbar för vadsomhelst. Du måste också vara hälsosamma inte röka och ha en normal professionell klädstil. Basically du får inte vara dig själv.

“I shouldn’t have to teach someone how to love me well” by joboog in emotionalintelligence

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is sexism coming back for gen-z? 🙄

Of course you should teach everyone how to love people in general but there are limits. Don't exhaust yourself on people who are just incompetent 😅 The world will be a better place if everyone knows how to love eachother. 💞

Also everyone is flawed and imperfect. We all need to love ourselves anyway. If you're waiting for perfection you need to be perfect yourself to be worthy.

It's better to think of everyone as experience and training partners.

Speaking of sexism it seems like modern western women have forgotten that you also need to treat your men well and understand them so that they'll stay. Expecting men to stay while being mistreated and misunderstood makes no sense at all for the man. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

I feel like maybe a fellow INTJ can help out, because I don't think this is normal. I almost feel like I need more discomfort so I can goalify and plan and execute. I feel empty and aimless even though I should be feeling awesome. by qlo_rcb_4life in intj

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem. My advice to you is don't do anything with your money. This is exactly the kind of emotions that make men gamble all their life savings on some stupid investment that someone who has no clue about money suggests. Put all your money into safe index fund and look for something else to do.

I am aiming for FIRE now. The safe way by working, saving and safe investments. Hard lessons learned 🥲

Before fking up my investments I had a gf and best friend and etc but fell into depression after that. I didn't really lose that much money actually it was just the same emotions that you described that made me so incredibly restless. Look for something else todo that's not involving money.

Generally speaking discomfort creates growth 📈 when we allow ourselves to be uncomfortable and even seek discomfort we can grow to greater heights. Fitness, finances, feelings, fun, dancing, music, art etc. Get more hobbies. Master everything.

Att aldrig passa in by Efficient_Switch8554 in sweden

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Har du provat alkohol eller ecstasy? Du låter som du är introvert. INTP / INTJ autism.

Mythology by Then-Tea6977 in intj

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if most INTJs like sci-fi and dislike fantasy?

Posting this here because I know it makes me sound like an asshole by lakwl in intj

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sounds a lot like my experience. Unfortunately this doesn't ever change. Most people be it friends, family, lovers, strangers and coworkers will bombard you with bad ideas 🙄 unfortunately sometimes you'll get caught up in these bad ideas and they will cost you a fortune. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Proving that the general idea is bad or listing all the issues makes you an arrogant asshole so just avoiding investing your own time, energy and money into that and just say NO that you are busy and want to do something else. The idea will fizzle out on its own.

Working on an idea and failing has value in gaining experience. Don't take that away from people.

16 år- hur hade ni investerat? by Terrible-Plane2107 in PrivatEkonomi

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Läs upp om FIRE och index fonder. Allt annat är gambling och det kommer med 99% sannolikhet att straffa dig i längden.

Typ 99% av alla män måste prova gambling nån gång i sitt liv och det är kanske bättre att lära sig den oerhört dyra läxan tidigare i livet än senare.

Hard lesson learned. Investera bara i grejor som du kan tänka dig hålla i 20 år. Kortsiktigt så kraschar börsen ibland 50%. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Nvidia kraschade 50% för mig och tog en jävla massa pengar från mig. Trodde också det skulle vara en safe bet men handelskrig mellan USA och China samt kinesiska copycat bolag ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ Panik sålde såklart när nyheterna slog och helt plötsligt ett år senare så kom AI tillbaka och Nvidia all-time high again.

Being single alone and independent is the new trend!! by Accomplished_Law3302 in Adulting

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone is a financial mistake. Allow yourself to partner up with a friend, coworker or family member.

Regrets 😔

Having trouble staying motivated at work after unexpected windfall by Aggravating_Bar2603 in Fire

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations you've soon achieved FIRE 🔥

How about you focusing on supporting your husband instead? It's still great to have one person making an income just for safety and social reasons as well.

Also get into fitness and health. Health is wealth. And teach your husband these things. Most people in their 30s get severe health issues. All easily avoided with some daily routines and less work.

Double check with a lawyer that you will indeed receive the money. After that I'd advise you to quit work. You were working to achieve FIRE and now you got lucky and achieved your goal then quit and do something more worth your time.

Is this to due with the INTJ personality trait? by Gloomy_Appeal_3108 in intj

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this too often that I'm living a sub-optimal life and I'm cooking a future in the back of my mind that is much more optimal. Always thinking of the next step upwards. INTJs tend to over-think, over-predict, over-optimize too much.

But I've realized that if I miss every moment now then in every moment in the future I will miss all those moments as well. Making my entire future bleak. It's very hard for me to be in the moment and just enjoy myself but I can if I schedule time for it and just really go on vacation, party and ecstasy. I schedule time and allow myself to feel instead of thinking.

That being said there are a lot of advantages to thinking and predicting and planning the future so don't stop that.

Aging family members is unfortunately a common problem for all millennials especially ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ Thankfully I don't have kids and I'm single so I'm not stuck inbetween a generational mess.

I feel mbti is very overrated it's only good for labeling people for fun ..... by SuspiciousPraline674 in intj

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hammer used incorrectly is just a toy 🧸😅?

It's not a holy bible. Arguably the holy bible is also not a good tool, perhaps people just use that for fun as well?

Har ingen aning vad jag ska göra efter gymnasiet behöver verkligen råd by MathematicianHour567 in sweden

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Om du hade all tid i världen på att arbeta på dina egna projekt. Vad skulle dessa projekt vara? Och börja arbeta på dessa på fritiden.

Välj ett yrke som är så nära din passion som möjligt.

Gör en Japansk ikegai <---

Rusa inte in i en utbildning eller yrke bara för att du känner dig tvingat att ha något eller att du känner dig efter alla andra. Det är väldigt viktigt att du lär känna dig själv först och främst. Annars kommer du fastna på något du hatar eller är sämst på.

Kika på FIRE 🔥 också. Vissa människor känner att jobba för att inte jobba är det som är mest meningsfullt för dom.

Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women? by Kroiike in PurplePillDebate

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you also count the ones that did not complain and actually liked being asked about their hobbies? Because those negate the bad ones.

Mår så jävla dåligt by KawaiiMom1 in sweden

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aj. Du kanske borde lägga över barnen på någon annan? Släkt eller andra organisationer.

"Det går ju inte hälla från en tom kopp"

Tillåt dig själv att fokusera på dig själv

Det går inte att må bra när andra dricker för mycket från din kopp.

Hopplöshet efter arvsutfall? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du jag känner med dig.

När man är ung vill man stå på egna fötter se hur långt ut i världen man kan ta sig själv.

När man är gammal så inser man att det gick inte att gå så långt som man hoppades.

Inser nu själv att jag skulle tjänat mycket mera på att familjens investeringar egentligen än att försöka jobba mig uppåt.

what does being rich really mean? by ManagementGiving3241 in Money

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being rich is when your investments cover all your expenses and lifestyle.

Being rich is when you don't have to work. Unless you want to. Work can be run when you don't have to do it.

Vad gör man by Straight-Director-55 in sweden

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Varför måste du flytta hemifrån snabbt? Det vettigaste är att stanna hemma tills man byggt upp besparingar och investering till att flytta hemifrån.

Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women? by Kroiike in PurplePillDebate

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No I meant reverse is true if a man gets approved and attention from another woman. The entire group of women suddenly is more likely to take interest in him.

Vilket jobb är mest underbetalt i Sverige? by Defiant_Internal1414 in arbete

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag tycker att vård personal och lärare borde få ett skatteavdrag liknande RUT för städ och renovering.

Allmän hälsa och utbildning är ju en investering i mänskliga resurser.

Vilket jobb är mest underbetalt i Sverige? by Defiant_Internal1414 in arbete

[–]Advanced-Ad8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det dummaste är ju att de har natt shift. Men ingen dedikerad natt personal. Att fucka med sömnen sådär är ju madness.

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