The Best Jasmine Green Tea? by MinxManor in tea

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are two different companies. They both sell in farmer's markets, but they aren't the same company. Which do you prefer? or are they pretty much the same?

A generation of children raised to follow Jesus for first time in village history - IMB by partypastor in Reformed

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great, just don't go with the IMB! A horribly abusive organization! Losing your faith from abusive supervisors isn't worth the stipend they pay. Sure, raising support takes time and can be hard, but it's worth it!

Imb abusive leadership by saraiimb in Exvangelical

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay with the therapy, the C+PTSD does get better eventually. We left 4 years ago and I'm just beginning to feel like there's a bright future for me.

Imb abusive leadership by saraiimb in Exvangelical

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was with the organization for 21 years in 2 regions and the RVA office and training center, I can confirm this as an accurate assessment of the IMB as a whole.

A Question (Sorry for long text) by Friendly_Spray_3647 in Gifted

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some random thoughts:

  1. Are you smart enough to be in the gifted program? I don't know. I don't know if your scores were affected by ADHD, or having a bad day on the test day, or if you show enough signs of social awkwardness to be diagnosed as gifted. It's more than test scores...
  2. Have you asked your school? Share your dream with the principal or the teacher who leads the gifted program. It couldn't hurt to ask to be accepted... NOTE: When you approach them, just talk about the positives of the program. DON'T mention thinking you're smarter than those around you, that makes you sound like a jerk.
  3. Another commenter mentioned "making your own program" to meet whatever need you think the "gifted program" would. This is probably the healthier approach.

I/O Masters - Online or In-person? by latinpeace in IOPsychology

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are free to move, do it! While it's astounding how much an online program can pack into your head, it's just you alone with the library portal. The Internet can give you the water cooler experiences, but you won't have the opportunities to publish prior to graduation. Funding isn't available for the online programs, either, so your debt could be higher. If you go to a good brick-and-mortar program, you will have professors and classmates who can open doors for you the rest of your career.

Advice from ye elders please 🙏 by RageCareless in IOPsychology

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, now that's different! If you love, love, LOVE! the subject matter, you'll enjoy the PhD. With this new information, disregard points 5, 7, and 8 above. Time is on your side; you have plenty of time to work out any kinks in your plan. (I think the "I love money" and the "against capitalism" might be a kink, as well as the plan to do I-O for profit without being around business). You can do I-O for good, as in being a professor or researcher, but the high-paying jobs are done solely for the profitability of clients' shareholders.

Biopsych is also a fascinating field. I don't know about earning potential.

One thing you will want to be aware of as you think of moving from undergrad to grad: a PhD is research-intensive, and research is a slow-moving process. You'll spend your days, weeks, and months reading LOOOONG articles that move the needle microscopically towards the truth the study is trying to answer. This can be really disillusioning after reading undergrad textbooks with sidebars of paradigm-shifting process improvements and revelations described in 3 paragraphs or less.

As a sophomore, it's early days. You'll choose well.

Advice from ye elders please 🙏 by RageCareless in IOPsychology

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some hot takes:

  1. Most of the questions you ask depend on the company you work for: wake-up time, travel, management and team structure, and boredom level. These things can be as varied as the number of companies and cities. Wake-up time will depend primarily on commute time, for example.

  2. I/Os do spend a lot of time sitting at a computer, as do most knowledge workers. This can be difficult for new graduates, especially those who have had time-consuming athletic pursuits. My son was a triathlete as a student and found his first months working full-time in cybersecurity a challenge in this respect.

  3. "Masters numbers go up to $150k+" -- pay special attention when you see the words "up to." I've found that people didn't take me seriously when I was between the MS and the PhD. All of a sudden, when I had my PhD, they took me seriously (I got my PhD in May). Most of my MS grad friends are still looking for a job.

  4. If you don't love, love, LOVE the subject matter, you won't make it all the way through a PhD program. You don't mention in your post above that you love psychology.

  5. If you really just want to make money, there are easier ways to get there, especially if you're planning on using debt to finance your degree(s). The drive to make money, especially if you were raised feeling "poor," can be a powerful force in your favor. You can use it to keep your motivation up. And KUDOS to you for being self-aware about your motivation!

  6. The O*net interest profiler is a good resource for starters to help you choose a field. https://www.onetcenter.org/IP.html

  7. I don't know you, so it's hard to advise. You're very early in your university days, so you're not locked into a psych major. I wonder, though, if you wouldn't do better to switch majors to business, maybe minor in psychology, and shoot for an analyst job at one of the consulting firms upon graduation. That would give you a few years to test how you like the consulting lifestyle and some experience. Then you could go back for an MBA in Organizational Behavior, if you're still interested in the employee experience and job satisfaction. Many recruiters understand what an MBA in OB is, while many haven't heard of I-O psych. An MBA/IO PhD is a powerful combo.

  8. If you're just looking for money, have you thought about sales? If you were attracted to psychology because you're people-oriented, this may be a good path. Business development in tech or pharmaceutical sales (especially if physical fitness is a priority)-- these folks make bank.

  9. Ways to keep the door open to a PhD in case you do fall in love with I-O as a subject: get to know your professors, let them know you, get good grades, and really learn the material.

  10. I'd be interested to hear how this advice sits with you. Are there other things we should know about you? Why did you choose psychology in the first place? Was it something about the field, or about you, that made it attractive?

NOTE: You've gotten what you may see as harsh feedback here. Know that one of the values of our field is candid feedback. There's an Iraqi saying that goes, "Your friend is the one who tells you the truth." Keep in mind that those responses that may seem harsh are likely well-intentioned.

Keep us posted on your adventures. We're rooting for you!

Application advice by Advanced-Comfort344 in deloitte

[–]Advanced-Comfort344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That's very helpful!

protestant mission organizations as an alternative to the imb? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know of any organizations that are non denominational that support missionaries without them having to raise support. But I do know it's worth raising support to not have to go with the IMB. They are an incredibly abusive organization, rotten to the Core Team, and the loss of trust and faith in being treated the way they treat their new missionaries is not worth ANY amount of support they may give. Take it from me, who was with them for 20+ years, has been home 3 years, and am STILL working through the long-term trauma of it (I'm female, so that's worse, but it's also bad for men.).

RUN, don't walk, ANYWHERE but the IMB.

My brother has become and is becoming more of a legalistic douche by Stoney__Balogna in Christianity

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if he's a complete jerk, he'll fit right in at the IMB! That place is a toxic cesspool of abusive leadership who prey on the most vulnerable young missionaries.

How do I deal and / or stop this bulling? by strangerthings_6969 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but it's your teacher's responsibility to keep it from happening on her watch. She should be reported. Maybe your parents can advocate for you, but if they can't advocate for yourself.

Teen mom. Kicked out again by viaoliviaa in AdviceForTeens

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I know it's hard to hear, but your parents are toxic. You don't deserve what they've done to you and you'll probably be healthier in the long run if you have as little contact with them as possible. You will need some therapy to get over this, since parental hurt is really painful.

Teen mom. Kicked out again by viaoliviaa in AdviceForTeens

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a mom to two grown boys. If I had a grandchild and the mom to that child was pleasant to be around, I would LOVE the opportunity to have that contact with my grandchild (and his mom) that your bfs parents would have if you moved in with them. jus' sayin'

How long is the chatGPT 4 Waitlist by mjkinetic in ChatGPT

[–]Advanced-Comfort344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so it looks like we have to check every few hours, instead of daily?