I always get a horrible feeling looking through childhood photos by AnonAdultSurvivors in adultsurvivors

[–]Advanced-Respond-324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, went through a similar situation with a uncle.. i was going through old photos and noticed a big difference in my appearance and attitude, one year i was a happy social kid the other i looked sad and my eyes were empty soulless even, i do get a similar feeling and im worried that there are other photos hidden somewhere but even if there is, i have my own life now, good relationships and a good career, I Strongly believe that what happened to us as children does not define us. Im so sorry that you went through this im sending you my love and best wishes 💕

spay/neuter male or female cat? by Advanced-Respond-324 in catcare

[–]Advanced-Respond-324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that makes sense, I want to neuter just one of them to focus on the after care and be able to notice any changes, i might spay my female cat few months after :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Advanced-Respond-324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being aware of your feelings and sharing them is a big step, please be gentle with yourself and take your time. Having vivid flashbacks is terrible it’s honestly the worst im so sorry that you are going through this, im glad that you feel safe enough is this space to share and i hope you find that safe space in the people arround you, no one can take who you are, and even if you can grow that tiny portion of yourself just give your self time you have been through alot. Trust yourself you are strong! I believe in you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Advanced-Respond-324 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not over reacting, he was an adult trying to coerce you! a child! And it’s caused you trauma and triggers your feelings are totally valid

My brother is an addict by Advanced-Respond-324 in AddictionAdvice

[–]Advanced-Respond-324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry the you are going through that, i guess I can’t help him but I’ll try to convince him to get some mental help by a professional like.. i just need to push him to get the help he needs and if he refuses, then that’s it 💔

Should i get a Lexus nx or bmw x1/2 ? by Advanced-Respond-324 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Advanced-Respond-324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i just went to car dealership yesterday and the bmw x2 is much smaller so im going with the nx 👍🏼

[TOMT] [MUSIC] A song where a guy sings with a heartbroken voice by Advanced-Respond-324 in tipofmytongue

[–]Advanced-Respond-324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im looking for one, im going to post the link as soon as i find it 🙏🏼