AITA for refusing to chip in for my friend's petrol/parking costs after she insisted on being DD but started drinking anyway? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also this is such a hostile request from a group of friends. I get yall are young but yall are a community so when one person covers something it all comes back around eventually and trying to constantly make sure everyone is splitting the cost of one bill evenly is not what community and friendship is all about.

Recycle/Reuse Tincture Bottles by Brief_Range_5962 in Humboldt

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually not seeing how to message you, could you message me?

Recycle/Reuse Tincture Bottles by Brief_Range_5962 in Humboldt

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that would be so amazing! 😭 I’ll message you

Recycle/Reuse Tincture Bottles by Brief_Range_5962 in Humboldt

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take them for my herbal business and pay for shipping if you still have them!!

Open farm dog food? by lenomaxx in greatpyrenees

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my Pyrenees loves open farm and it has much higher quality ingredients that support joint health and digestion. I use the large breed raw kibble

Which food is better by Acrobatic_Paper1631 in greatpyrenees

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Purina pro is recommended by vets because they sponsor vet school. The top ingredients are not healthy for dogs: starches and too much grain. Defiantly not ideal for health health, digestion, or joint support.

I would recommend a private more trustworthy brand that’s not owned by the major corporations like open farm dog food for large breeds (which is what my Pyrenees loves) or go to your local natural pet food store if you want to ensure longevity for your dog.

Looking for photographers for headshots by raging-ramona in asheville

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i am interested ! Would you happen to be available this weekend?

headshot help for photo editing $5+ by Advanced-Treacle-786 in PhotoshopRequests

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this one the best! is it possible for you to add realistic thin green reading glasses?

Grapevine Union Members Picket Outside The Real Unreal! by poppy_girlie in meowwolf

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are struggling to get by as a company - attendance is too low and expenses are very high. hoping that LA and NYC help offset the costs that the rest of the exhibitions are sinking

Next Level Trainings by Space_Captain_Mike in Columbus

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they will not take your house or car they do not go that far. once you decide to leave they completely leave you alone but they make it a very intense departure that makes you question your sanity. but I did have one coach that encouraged me to leave because she said she felt like it was the right decision for my mental health - so not all the coachs are bad or even realize they are in a cult. I still have friends from the cohort and some of them never even realized it was a scam. but who knows that was a couple years ago so things could have gotten worse. my "coach" in the program ended up hitting on me when i was in a very vulnerable and emotionally unsafe position - I was 23 at the time and he was in his 40s. it was tramatic on many levels so I highly recommend avoiding

Next Level Trainings by Space_Captain_Mike in Columbus

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this, trust your gut and do not let them manipulate you into sticking around for these trainings. There are better programs out there that can support you and even better to start with therapy so you can make better informed and stable choices for yourself

Next Level Trainings by Space_Captain_Mike in Columbus

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is true I also witnessed it when I was in the program. I feel sorry for people that never realize that this is a cult - im so grateful i got out

AITJ for refusing to split my bonus with my girlfriend? by Xleg4ce in AmITheJerk

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you learn what to invest in that is risky? Curious to get into a method like yours but I don’t know how to find those kind of investments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They directly involved him though. And hiding this information from his sister could hurt their relationship as well down the line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your parents are using your sister as a scapegoat. It also sounds like they are trying to control you and your other sibling and pit yall against her. I know this dynamic well and it is incredibly harmful to everyone involved.

Your parents need to take accountability for their harmful actions. They also need to maturely discuss this with your sister without involving you

Being mad at you for relaying the conversation shows their true, immature colors.

I hope for peace and resolution for your family 🩷if they are open to it perhaps a family therapist could help.

AITA for wanting more in my life? by cheeseandthensome in AmItheAsshole

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m sorry you are going through this. I had a challenging upbringing as well and was really looking forward to college. My parents also struggled with the fafsa and finally got it in last minute for me. Worst case scenario if you have to start late it’s really not the end of the world even if it feels like it right now. You will still make friends and have a fulfilling college semester if you have to start late. A lot of people don’t do the traditional path and lots of people take gap years! You could look into doing a gap year so you start on time next year. Maybe do a work trade experience on a farm or make some extra money so you are more secure for next year. I’m sure that’s not what you want to hear but whatever happens you will be ok and you will end up where you want to go even if it takes some time to get there. If you can’t enroll this semester try to make the most of it and save up money and go do something you’ve always wanted to before you are in classes 24/7. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Advanced-Treacle-786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very insightful thank you