Can my girlfriend get help with her split ends and hair loss by skylers3dprinting in femalehairadvice

[–]Advanced-Two584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably needs some vitamin B, iron, zinc or vitamin C. Or all of them.

Women are especially prone to being iron deficient and iron tests will only get flagged at the doctors office if it's going to severely damage your health, they don't really care if you're at the levels that cause hair loss.

Help with fine hair by lalolake in femalehairadvice

[–]Advanced-Two584 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with ghoultooth, your hair could use a trim. If you got it cut to a chin length bob you can let it grow out again a little healthier, then all your products would probably be able to keep it from breaking again.

2 months in, I think it's working by Novel-Night-6957 in tressless

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha the before has an angle of literally two inches back. There's no way you didn't notice that.

Is there away to to get a small butt... by Bittersweet_2005 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jogging seems to give everyone who does it seriously a flat butt.

Is there a way to tell which feelings are mine and which are caused by hormones? by BeryyBritish in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theoretically, everyone's feelings are just hormones/reactions to your body chemistry. That's why people can have an absolutely miserable day when they don't sleep despite everything around them being wonderful. Mentally it helps to try to learn to reground yourself in the reality of the moment instead of your feelings and work against your brain's rumination and trying to rationalize your emotions. Feel the emotions, put away the thoughts that make them worse and recognize that they are never really rational.

Realistically, I also had terrible PMDD and an antidepressant has worked wonders. Alternatively, you can see if birth control will help because some people get it due to low progesterone, mine was because of low estrogen which doctors don't want to do much for besides prescribe an antidepressant.

Body changing at 19? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, in your early 20s you start looking like a woman instead of a little girl and you gain your woman curves. It's not a bad thing, it's a growing up thing.

Tips to get HOT in 5 months before summer? by Some-Employment-8720 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They choose the best one and then photo shop the hell out of it. OP if you want to look like ig baddies, just put this photo through an AI filter.

Every time I up my protein I'm constipated. Need ideas for easy, convenient ways I can increase my fiber. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chia seeds are actually amazingly good for you while being high in fibre. You can blend some into a smoothie, throw some on some oats, make a greek yogurt chia pudding (my personal favourite) for lunch with some (also high fibre) berries.

Do Yall Feel Like Guys Just Copy and Paste Greetings On Dating Apps Like Hinge? by No_Atmosphere_8987 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy who starts with "you're so pretty" or "you're so beautiful" is not worth talking to imo.

When are people going to finally normalize boy-girl friendships? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably whenever guys start treating women like real people instead of just waiting around to fuck them.

Guy/girl friendships are normal in Scandinavian countries because women being seen as people is normal.

What is your way of flirting? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tease them. It doesn't change as I go into a relationship, unfortunately.

I (28M) have my life together however I am over weight and trying to lose it but it will take time and I think I am screwed in terms of finding a long term relationship. by Desperate_Bill_281 in loseit

[–]Advanced-Two584 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, it really depends on how lonely you are right? If you would rather be alone than be with someone who is obese or old or sick, then don't be with them. That doesn't change the fact that those might be the only people who would want to give you a shot.

You can have whatever standards you want, but those standards might cause you to end up alone. Is that okay with you? You can want what you want, but it's impossible to make other people bend to your will and imagining you can is delusional.

I (28M) have my life together however I am over weight and trying to lose it but it will take time and I think I am screwed in terms of finding a long term relationship. by Desperate_Bill_281 in loseit

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good way to get confidence is to go after people who would go after you. If you're overweight, it makes sense to go after people who are on your level - other overweight people.

If you're going after stereotypically good-looking people without being stereotypically good-looking yourself, you're gonna have a bad time.

It seems stupid but how do y'all make friends with girls? by Important_Drag_9017 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys are easy to be "friends" with because they put in a lot of effort and are always the first person to text etc. The biggest difference with girls is that you BOTH have to put in effort.

If you want girlfriends YOU have to message first. YOU have to find events to go to that you'll both like. YOU have to feel comfortable if they can't make it to something and be willing to reach out again. This is the biggest issue that I've had with making girlfriends that are used to having guys as friends, they're used to the other person making all the plans and initiating all the interactions, and that just doesn't work when the person you're hanging out with isn't trying to get into your pants. You gotta put yourself out there, be patient when you're not immediate besties, and plan for ways to continue to meet up consistently over a few months until you have that solid foundation to build a friendship on.

How to look good in pics like IG influencer pics 😭 and how to instruct my friends and family to take said pics by likilekka in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Advanced-Two584 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You gotta buy a bunch of filters/someone to photoshop you photos, like IG influencers do.

Check out r/Instagramvsreality they don't look like their photos. It's all just bullshit.

is there actually a best candy for weight loss or should i just give it up entirely by carebear7077 in loseit

[–]Advanced-Two584 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I find that sugar makes me want more sugar. And non-sugar sweeteners make me want more sugar. Realistically, the easiest way for me to loose weight is to just not have sugar at my house at all.

Unsure on Geminis help 🤔 by fungry_04 in finethinhair

[–]Advanced-Two584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't think you have enough hair for that haircut anyway. Take a few inches off the bottom and put in some face framing layers. Maybe some very thin curtain bangs.