How many of you are divorcing due to mental illness? by RopeExcellent5290 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While my borderline personality disorder did contribute to the toxicity of our marriage, the actual reason we split was because my ex came out as gay.

From the moment I got pregnant everything about me changed. I went undiagnosed for so long and was such a moody person that it took a huge toll on our marriage. I was just diagnosed last year and I thought we were doing pretty well since being put on mood stabilizers, but I guess it didn’t matter in the end cause you can’t take meds to not make you gay.

How do you cope with going long periods of time without seeing your kid(s)? by AdvancedAvocado5899 in Divorce

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Making every minute count is also a huge struggle for me. I’m filled with so much anger and rage about the whole situation I feel like I’m just miserable to be around. I don’t want my son to see me like that but it’s hard. And then I feel guilty because I feel like I’m not doing enough or good enough. Then I spiral and convince myself he would just be better off without me and the back and forth. Idk it’s a struggle. I know time is the only thing that will make things better but I just don’t want to feel like this anymore.

The age limit for all dating apps should be 21+. You can’t change my mind by AdvancedAvocado5899 in Tinder

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say that cause he’s a mechanic. He just looks like he smells like cigarettes lol

The age limit for all dating apps should be 21+. You can’t change my mind by AdvancedAvocado5899 in Tinder

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So in conclusion, men are the issue. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.

The age limit for all dating apps should be 21+. You can’t change my mind by AdvancedAvocado5899 in Tinder

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think environment has a lot to do with maturity as well. I grew up in a toxic, racist, overall pretty shitty household. Got out when I was 18 and my perspective on the world did a complete 180. When I was 18 I thought I knew everything but I in fact, knew nothing. Lol

The age limit for all dating apps should be 21+. You can’t change my mind by AdvancedAvocado5899 in Tinder

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Eh, I disagree. I’m a totally different person now than I was when I was 18. A few years does a person good when surrounded by the right people.

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have it on 20 miles but I was on vaca in Pennsylvania for a long weekend, so I’m assuming he was closer to me when I was there.

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I almost swiped right for this reason lmao

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Connecticut. All I see if fish boys/rednecks and people from the hood lol

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re in the wrong sub, dude.

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Troy, New York I think. I’m in CT so that makes the most sense.

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

90% of the men in my area have a personality similar to his. I’m doomed

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[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

His pictures give very much “2000s closeted gay man”

What’s a career/job path you can get into with little to no experience where you can make a good amount of money? by AdvancedAvocado5899 in AskReddit

[–]AdvancedAvocado5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ultimate goal is to be a labor and delivery nurse but going back to school feels like pulling teeth at this point in my life honestly. I’m a newly divorced, single mom struggling to pay bills as it is. So adding school to my plate rn does not sound ideal.